Etiquette, the word is not strange to us. The elegant reputation of "the state of etiquette" is the highest appreciation for the Chinese nation! Looking back on the glorious history of China for 5,000 years, etiquette can be seen everywhere. The tradition of respecting the old and loving the young is inherited from Kong Rong's modest pear; The quality of respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching benefits from respect for Chengmen and Sydney. The feelings of mutual respect and love stem from the friendship between mountains and rivers. From ancestor worship to daily appellation, all of them reflect the noble sentiments of the Chinese nation. The inculcation in The Book of Rites Zhou Li is still regarded as a classic. This is a long-standing culture in China, and it is also a valuable asset.
Some people say: What are the civilized manners now? There's rubbish everywhere, and rude words. Is this the so-called civilization, ................? Of course, you can't ask for perfection, but these stains are rare. Look! The rubbish that can be seen everywhere is picked up by the lovely "angel" and sent to his real home; When someone says "dirty", there are always people around him who frown and spit. Although there are dross, people nowadays will carry out civilized manners to the end.
Etiquette virtue is neither empty talk nor rhetoric. It can be achieved simply and cultivated instantly. It pays more attention to long-term persistence and development. When facing the teacher, bow and salute; When in public, whisper softly; Don't say dirty words and rude words when talking with people; Laughing anytime and anywhere is like a pearl. By doing so, you are also a civilized person.
Etiquette is also respect, respect is the most basic etiquette culture, and respecting others means respecting yourself. People may be familiar with the story of Sean picking up shoes. Because of his respect for Huang Shigong, Sean got this art book that benefited him for life. Therefore, respect is not a shameful thing. Respecting others is also saving face for yourself.
Etiquette is a beautiful music, etiquette is a cup of sweet tea, etiquette is a good friend. Learn civilization, etiquette, and virtue, so that the reputation of the country of etiquette will be passed down through the ages.
Don't talk when eating, don't carry your back when standing, and don't tilt your stool when sitting. . These are the manners around you.
Fifteen minutes in the afternoon, the teacher asked us to read Chang Li Highlights, and everyone benefited a lot.
When reading Nine, if you are lame, don't spread your feet like a dustpan. Zhang Pengzhi, the lazy man in our class, smiled shyly and sat up straight. Ha ha!
You know, Zhang Pengzhi likes to tilt the stool very much. This is a bad habit. Hey, it doesn't matter who said it! As long as you lean, the students in front and behind will suffer! The desks and chairs are shaking, so I can't do my homework. How many times have you said it, he is indifferent.
This time, he didn't tilt his stool, but sat squarely in his seat for the first time in thousands of years! Everyone was surprised. Why did Peng "turn over a new leaf"?
Haha, this is all thanks to "Chang Li Yao Ju"!
Pay more attention to the etiquette around you in the future!
3. Idioms, poems and stories describing etiquette are full of enthusiasm, etiquette knowledge, book knowledge, book courtesy, gesture courtesy and literary courtesy.
1, throw yourself on the ground
Explanation: Hands, knees and head land together. This is one of the most respected rituals in Buddhism. Metaphor admire to the extreme.
From: Tang Xuanzang's Records of the Three Kingdoms in the Western Regions of the Tang Dynasty: "The form of tribute, its instrument is nine and so on. : 1. Please press 2 to express your condolences. Bow your head to show respect. Raise your hand, 4. Hands flat, 5. Bend your knees, 6. On your knees, 7. Hands and knees on the ground, 8.
During the tribute ceremony, his appearance was divided into nine categories: 1. Express condolences; 2. bow your head to show your respect; 3. Hold your head high; 4. Cross your hands flat; 5. beg; 6. beg; 7. Kneel on the ground with both hands and knees; 8.5 rounds of concessions; 9.5 throw yourself on the ground.
2, know the ceremony and know the book
Description: Understand etiquette and be familiar with poetry books.
Said by: Chapter 58 of Xia Qing's classic "Wild Sour Dew Talk": "This is the family of the guilty minister. The official is silent, and his surname is difficult. He is gentle and virtuous, and he knows the etiquette and books, as well as mathematics."
This is the home of a guilty minister, who is alone, confiscated, has a difficult surname, is gentle and virtuous, knows etiquette and knows a few things.
3. Book publishing ceremony
Interpretation: refers to the knowledge of poetry and etiquette.
From: Meng Long's "Yu Shi Yan Ming" Volume 2: "It turns out that Tian is the daughter of Dongcuntian, but she is radiant and proficient in everything."
It turns out that Tian is the daughter of Dongcuntian, but she is very colorful and has a gift.
4. Step by step.
Description: When walking, the steps are square. Of behavior conforming to etiquette.
From: Qing Lvyuan Li's "Qi Lu Deng" the second time: "So, sir, you can't act in moderation, but you are just a teacher, just talking about names."
That's it, sir. You mustn't act in time, but the host is a teacher. Let's keep our names.
5. Tong Li Wenda
Interpretation: refers to learning and understanding etiquette.
From: Di Qing Mountain Man's "Ping Shan Han Yan" The seventh time: "Although my niece is a small village girl, she can read and write, and she is well versed in etiquette. If she had virtue, she would not have fallen from ancient women. How can she rank among Tsing Yi? "
What's more, although my granddaughter is a small village girl, she is educated, educated and polite, so she is virtuous. Unlike an ancient woman, how could she descend to the ranks of White Wall Tsing Yi?
4. Poem about Eight Rites and Four Instruments 1, Instrument:
Children love musical instruments.
Clean and tidy, take a bath frequently, dress appropriately without fancy,
The hairstyle is natural and beautiful, and the manners are generous and polite.
Everyone praises the good baby.
2. Speech:
It's important to be polite, son.
Look into your eyes, look into your face. Nodded, smiled,
Calm, sincere, friendly and popular.
3. Walking articles:
Kid, take the side of the road, take the sidewalk, and stick to it.
Don't worry about crossing the street. The zebra crossing is everywhere.
You come, I'll go to the right, and reciprocity is the best.
4. Travel articles:
Children, love to travel, civilized travel in mind.
It's hard to be merciful when there are mountains, waters and companions.
Do not make trouble, be kind to cultural relics.
5, catering articles
Children, be polite, eat and drink.
I can't forget to wash my hands. It's civilized and orderly, and it's never noisy.
Remember to save food and call for CD action.
6, treat people:
Children, to make friends with people, you should know the manners.
Respect the old and love the young, be tolerant and polite.
Honesty is the right way to treat people, and there are many friends to find.
7. View the article:
Kid, watch the show, and be polite first.
Check the tickets in an orderly way, and don't talk nonsense after taking a seat.
Applause should be limited, and caring for the environment is endless.
8. Ceremony:
Children, to grow up, some manners must not be forgotten.
The etiquette should be strengthened, and the salute should be remembered.
Study hard and have dreams. Be happy to be a good Xin Wei.
Extended data
Among the eight aspects of etiquette education, grooming etiquette includes neat face, decent clothes, natural hairstyle and generous manners. Dietary ceremonies include paying attention to hygiene, cherishing food, frugal diet and elegant diet. The gifts of a speech include civilized language, calm and patient listening, sincerity and friendliness. Politeness in dealing with people includes respecting teachers, loving partners, being tolerant and polite, and being sincere with others.
The gifts of walking include obeying the rules, giving courtesy first, helping the old and taking care of the young, and offering your seat. Watching the ceremony refers to observing order, caring for the environment, paying attention to appreciation and politely cheering when watching cultural performances and sports competitions. The gift of sightseeing is to treat the scenery well, cherish cultural relics, respect folk customs and abide by public morality. Ceremony refers to paying attention to civility, courtesy, respect and solemnity.
The "Four Instruments" mainly focus on seven years old, 10 years old, 14 years old and 18 years old, and organize profound, solemn and simple admission ceremony, growth ceremony, youth ceremony and adult ceremony respectively to educate and guide minors to strengthen civilized etiquette. There is no precedent in the whole country to carry out the education of cultivating minors' civilization and etiquette, and it is still an attempt, which needs to be continuously improved in exploration and practice.
References:
Sogou Encyclopedia-Eight Rites and Four Instruments
5. Poems about marriage include the following poems about marriage:
1, I'm glad to hear that Lingyuan was in China, and two surnames got married, making a long-cherished wish, praising the jubilation of Qianjiang people and spreading brilliant female sentiments; When trying the spoon for the first time, Mu Xun often respects virtue and women, and the guests sing in chorus, which is a perfect match.
2. The bright moon depicts double-shadow geese, and the frost reflects plum blossoms.
3, warm spring in bloom, beautiful red apricots add makeup. Fang borrows beauty to add moonlight and likes to do autumn nights and spring nights. Huaiyin branch blooms for a hundred years, and the lotus blooms five times.
4, only a high parrot fu, spring warm phoenix building.
5. Compared with flying, it is like a bird, and it often opens sideways.
6, cups of jade liquid flying parrots, playing Yaochi dancing phoenix.
7, a hundred years of love, a thousand miles of marriage.
8. Qin Yunpu became a dream, and snuff laughed at people.
9. A corner of Lin Yuan shows peony, the national color is silent and fragrant, and the people are happy. Decorate with lanterns, tie the knot, get together with friends and relatives, and the scenery is more beautiful than ever.
10, celebrate this day to be a good couple, and hope to get married today. Autumn water and silver hall are like lovers, and the wind and jade are harmonious. The purple flute blows the moon and the phoenix, and the green sleeves dance the breeze.
1 1, red makeup concentric knot, green tree Cycas bloom.
12, hair has a thousand years, and harp and music have a hundred years.
13, the predecessor of Yinjingtai is like jade, and the oriole has flowers on her pillow. White-headed Qi Mei Yuanyang fly with me; Qingyang Ricky Li Tao Tongxin. The window is embroidered with curtains, and the silver candle and gold cup reflect the eyebrows.
14, Xiangyun walks around the house, beaming.
15, the hall opens Penglai scenery and people are intoxicated with Wuling Spring.
16, dreamlike, bright eyes and autumn waters, ambitious husband is the champion. Also when * * * pick the burden of life, endless love is always reincarnation.
17, playing the phoenix on the flute and welcoming guests with drum music.
18, the son-in-law likes it now, with heavy makeup and light makeup. Next year, * * * Qinglin's son, a happy couple sings Anon.
19, naturally a family heirloom, choose a spouse to marry a family to argue the piano, and the talented woman looks like a peach banquet, cherishing her soul.
20, silver toad is unusual; The wind sent new makeup out of the painting hall, but the bosom friend did not sing, and my husband had a bright future.
2 1, mandarin duck dating, love is very thrush and respectful, idiot has nothing to give today, I hope to get jade unicorn as soon as possible;
I am very happy to be in the spring of February, and I am also very happy to have a good marriage. Huatang strives to meet the immortal couple, and the combination of pearls is just right.
22. The sun is warm in spring, the phoenix blows purple Yu Di at the beginning, and the long night is more like a leap; Flowers are waiting for the birthday celebration.
23. Over time, the two of them are affectionate and have a lasting relationship. In order to wish the immortal family in the world, the Qi family sang away from the wind first.
24. With a standard, Mei Yuji points to HongLing, where the precious chrysanthemum is colourful and pleasant to hear, and the embroidered mandarin duck moves the jade step. Poetry into catkin flowers; Zhulou was very happy to see Lapras's election, and Ge Xuan also heard the charm and played makeup to promote songs, which made her husband polite and comfortable.
25. At the beginning of the snow case, catkins fell, and Fengtai Xiangqu played today. HongLing away from the couple, five fingers flick the harp; A talented woman should only meet an elegant person, with colorful flowers and flutes, standing side by side like a double wall, looking at the stars in the distance.
26, Guanghuifeng candle music, female-looking Langcai Junqi, studious and clever, indulging in the elegance of Tang poetry; Yuanyang is destined to tie a silk knot. Brocade is bloom Yu Rui's skill, and thrush is slender on the mirror. Both are beautiful and both are Mei Fong's instruments.
27, the spring wind blows, and the wife returns to the normal period. Love is very silk red bean room, what is green yarn; Zi is willing to live, but he is modest and willing to marry a female poem. He invites friends, and even gourmets get drunk.
28. Gull-Heron Alliance gathered in Guizhi Qingqing Longchang, and Jun Feng got her wish, and female Xianglong was satisfied.
29, auspicious day in Guican Jinniang, family style and ten virtues with Qin Lang, harmony but different, harmony but different, harmony but different, harmony but different, harmony but different, harmony but different; The colored lines are connected, and the red rope is enough for the initial compensation. Rivers and mountains celebrate this night together, which is deeper than Meng Guang.
30. Yugui's daughter is happy in her old age and chooses a husband who is peerless. There is a wonderful beauty, and there is no poem in the rich room; Ningxiang bun is messy and hazy, dancing shadows shake branches in the wind, Weng laughs and couples meet in pairs.
3 1, Buffon just returned to China a year ago, and Sansheng is happily married. Lv Yun's hair is gorgeous, and Bai Shou's heart is firm; In autumn, toads show their wisdom, turn rain into piety, prostitutes are drunk, and Weng marries women.
32. Hezhou is graceful, with a dazzling belly bed, a bright pen in the palm, and a poet's acacia poem in the seat; Sing the praises of gold in tune, and bloom is full of jade branches. The method should be Ling Huang's tune, and the beauty of the yuan shows the charm of the instrument.
33. Hugging the couple and playing the flute repeatedly made HongLing fulfill her wish to ask Sansheng why.
These are poems about marriage.
6. What are the poems about "civilized manners"? 1. If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it. -The Analects of Confucius. Jishi "
2. A gentleman is kind and polite: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
3. Reciprocity. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. -The Book of Rites. On Quli
4, you will not be arrogant, arrogance is rude, rudeness is people leaving, and people leaving are rebellious. -Zhuge Liang
We should be keen on acting according to morality instead of talking about morality. -democritus
6. Luxury always follows fornication, and fornication always follows luxury. -Montesquieu
7. The more developed a person's intelligence and spirit, the freer he is, and the more satisfied he can be in life. -Chekhov
8, do not suffer from disrespect, suffer from morality; Not ashamed of Lu's disagreement, but ashamed of his lack of wisdom. -Zhang Heng
9. When bees sip honey from flowers and leave the camp, they thank the flowers, but the grandiose butterfly thinks the flowers should thank him. Tagore
10, treat people kindly and be like brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong
1 1, read poetry books, respect etiquette and behave yourself. -Li Dian's "Three Kingdoms Kill"
12, nobles value power, while people value etiquette. -Austin
13, four books and five classics entered the Korean training, and Confucianism made the monthly order remember Yanju; The so-called etiquette is the end of learning. -Chu Jun Yi's "Puppet Show"
14, words are not etiquette, but self-abuse. My body can't be kind, which means giving up.
15, compassion, benevolence; The heart of shame and evil, the end of righteousness; The words of the heart are the end of the ceremony; The heart of right and wrong is also the end of wisdom. -Mencius "Mencius"