For a time, the treasure mother group exploded, and many treasure mothers also said that their children also had this situation. Do their children have psychological problems? Some even take their children to the hospital to see a doctor.
This phenomenon is normal in infants aged 65,438+0-2, and research shows that the probability of male treasures is three to four times that of girls, and generally decreases with age, and generally disappears after 3 years old.
Babies often pat themselves, not to say that they have any psychological problems, but to express their feelings. So what exactly do they want to express? Share it with everyone.
First slap the baby and tell his family: "This baby is very happy now."
For many adults, when they are angry, ecstatic or at a loss, they clap their heads or thighs. At that time, I was only excited and happy, and I didn't feel anything wrong. So is the baby. When a baby over one year old feels very happy or thinks of happy things, but doesn't know how to express the happy feeling, he expresses it by shaking his body and limbs, although he sometimes hits his body.
At this time, parents don't need to be too nervous and don't interrupt their children's excitement. You can laugh with him and share his good mood.
Second, the baby slapped himself in the face and really told his family: "Look at me."
If the baby can talk, when he wants to attract others' attention, he will shout, "Mom and Dad, look at me!" " "Just after 1 year-old baby, can't finish talking, but there is a desire to express and a desire to attract others' attention. At this time, all they can think of is to use their body language to attract the attention of their parents or others.
In fact, in this case, parents can turn a blind eye, as long as the baby does not cause excessive harm to them, there is no need for parents to show excessive concern for the baby. For babies, the more they indulge this behavior, the more they want to be the focus of others' attention, so it is easy to form a self-centered character when they grow up.
Third, the baby slaps himself and tells his family: "This baby is in a bad mood now."
When adults are in a bad mood, they can chat with friends and vent by drinking. But when the baby is in a bad mood and doesn't reach the level of crying, he will use his own behavior to express his depression and irritability.
At this time, parents need to find the baby's small emotions in time, give the baby a spiritual comfort, or give the baby's favorite food or favorite toy, divert the baby's attention, and let the baby get rid of the sad mood as much as possible.
It should also be pointed out that many babies will hit themselves with other things when they are in a bad mood. Therefore, when the baby is prone to "self-abuse", please ensure that the baby can't touch hard and sharp objects at home to avoid hurting the baby.