The so-called young people don't work hard, the old people are sad, and the good times of youth always pass so quickly. In youth, you often encounter so many temptations and even traps. When you suddenly wake up, you may have gray hair early, only to find that you have accomplished nothing.
Many people have a herd attitude towards life. When others study, they study; when others work, they work; when others play, they play: blindly following the crowd and losing their true self day by day.
So, while you still have time, energy and physical strength to work hard, make a practical plan as soon as possible, and then start to press forward step by step according to this plan with perseverance, and eventually you will succeed.
Don't give yourself a chance to regret, this is the most beautiful blessing in this life.
Second place 73% people regret choosing the wrong career when they were young.
Three college students were assigned to work in a certain unit at the same time. A year later, one of them quit to another company because he was unwilling. The other two are not tempted and still live a nine-to-five life.
After another year, another student decided to quit his job and set up shop in the sea. The other one is still unmoved. Seeing his two classmates struggling in factories and restaurants, he even felt proud of his stable life.
A few years later, the three of them got together. The classmate who went to the enterprise has become the director of a factory, and the restaurant owner has become a multi-millionaire. The one who stayed in the original unit is still killing his few "good times" again and again.
Many people are unwilling to face those challenging opportunities when choosing a job or starting a business. Without pressure, there is naturally a lack of motivation; Without motivation, the potential is buried.
Third, 62% people regret improper education of their children.
Children are the continuation of their own lives and hopes. Many people can do anything for their children and endure all the pain and grievances.
However, expecting children to succeed may be just a unilateral good wish of parents. For their children, they may just want to be a simple and happy ordinary person.
As a result, many parents use coercion, supervision and even sticks to force their children to develop according to their own designs.
But only a few people can become the so-called "winners" in the end. On the other hand, some parents will also lament that children have lived too hard these years and have not enjoyed the happiness and sunshine they deserve in childhood and adolescence.
Fourth, 57% people regret not cherishing their partners.
When you are drunk, wine is strong, but when you love, wine is heavy. Emotional things, people always don't know how to cherish when they have them, and don't know how to cherish them until they lose them.
Humans will never invent two substances, one is forgetful water and the other is regret medicine. When I was young, I didn't know how to cherish and understand. When you get old, it's too late to regret it.
Fifth, 45% people regret not being kind to their health.
"The body is the capital of the revolution", this sentence will never be out of date. Many people trade everything for health after 60 years old.
My uncle is almost over 80 years old. He said that his greatest regret in this life was giving birth to my two cousins and two sons. I should know that this is the only daughter.
My uncle has three children, the daughter is the eldest, and the two sons are the second and third.
There are three brothers and sisters, only my cousin has been very good, sensible and caring since she was a child, and has never let her parents worry. After finishing college, she stayed in this city to work, and all parties were excellent, and all kinds of awards and certificates were taken home.
I also take good care of my parents and take good care of them.
My two cousins were beaten by my uncle for playing truant when they were children. My uncle uses a broom at home, and it is often interrupted.
My big cousin likes playing cards when he grows up. Because of this, my eldest cousin left with her daughter after repeated dissuasion.
The first cousin left, and his uncle and aunt couldn't control him. He simply didn't go back to his home and stayed in a hotel.
My uncle still wants my big cousin to find a woman to get married and buy him an elevator, decorate it, buy furniture, appliances and even daily necessities.
He still doesn't like it, rarely stays there, or stays in a hotel.
The younger cousin is more restrained than the older cousin because he is afraid of the younger cousin. My little wife has a bad temper. She not only scolded my little cousin, but also called me aunt and uncle. Sometimes even at my uncle's house, I lift the table for a little thing.
Although my little cousin is afraid of my little wife, she likes playing cards. When she lost money, she had to ask my uncle and aunt for it.
My aunt is still picking up junk to help her two sons who are nearly seventy years old. They look down on her and say that she has lost their face.
My uncle thinks that he was always respected by others when he was young, and retired when he was old, but he was often hospitalized because of his two sons. He often tells my parents that he really regrets giving birth to those two sons. If he had known that he was still angry with them when he was old, he would not have been angry with them, but only gave birth to my cousin's daughter.
I am 57 years old, and I can retire in three years. The only regret now is that I don't care about my health. I used to smoke, drink and stay up late playing mahjong. Now I know that everything is gone, only my body is my own.
Now I wake up in the morning with a dry throat and a persistent cough. My wife and daughter/kloc-told me to quit smoking 0/0 years ago. I made up my mind to quit smoking 100 times, and I quit smoking 100 times. At the longest, I quit smoking for 3 months. Colleagues at work smoke when they meet, light a cigarette and shove it into my mouth, saying that I have smoked for decades and suddenly quit smoking, which makes me sick. At that time, I felt that what the comrades said was reasonable. They couldn't hold back and started smoking again. As a result, their addiction to cigarettes became more and more serious. In the past, they smoked half a pack of cigarettes. I smoked again. One pack a day is not enough. The doctor said that if I don't quit smoking, I will definitely get bronchitis, emphysema and even lung cancer in the future, which makes me tremble with fear.
When I was young, I was in good health and I could drink well. I drank wine with my colleagues, classmates, friends, fellow villagers and comrades-in-arms and vomited for a long time. Everyone says I am generous and proud. When I was less than 50 years old, I suffered from hyperlipidemia, hypertension, fatty liver and other diseases. I really didn't dare to drink alcohol during my treatment in the hospital. After leaving the hospital, I haven't touched a drop of wine for more than a year. Later, my body slowly recovered, and I felt depressed and unhappy without drinking. So I started drinking again and found that I didn't drink enough. I used to drink a catty of 52-degree white wine, but now I blush and feel dizzy after drinking half a catty. The doctor said that if you don't give up drinking, your blood fat, blood sugar and blood pressure will inevitably be high in the future, and your liver will also have big problems.
In fact, I especially regret it now. In the past, I was addicted to smoking, drinking and playing mahjong until late at night, which did serious harm to my health. However, there is no regret medicine in the world. It's never too late to mend. Now I'm nearing retirement, I don't have much entertainment, and I'm at leisure at work. I want to plan my life in my later years, and I am determined to quit smoking and drinking, observe the schedule, strengthen exercise, and strive to live a few more years and live better. I'm Nong Liang, from my home, for reference only.
Work Summary of Housing and Construction Bureau in 2022 1
Since last year, under the correct leadership of the county pa