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There are many flattering people in the world, but only you remain the same.
Three famous people once said such things ~

Zheng Banqiao said, "I am his dog." .

Huang said, "He has been unparalleled for 300 years."

Qi Baishi said, "I wish I had been born three hundred years earlier, grinding paper for him. Even if he despises me, I will starve to death at the door. "

Oh, my God, my God! What a thorough heart, deep and incomparable love.

Who made these three people so humble? What kind of prodigy is he?

Let me tell you in detail: this man's life can be summarized in ten sentences: his life was bumpy, his second brother died young, he was married three times, he helped everywhere, he was rich in five cars, his six relatives denied him, he was imprisoned for seven years, he failed eight times, he committed suicide nine times, and he lamented ten times!

It doesn't sound so good either ~ typical useless scholar ~

But it is these five cars that make him famous all over the world. Also seized countless iron powder.

He is Xu Wei.

Xu Wei, 152 1, was born in Shaoxing, Zhejiang. The biggest names in his life are: Xu Wenqing, Tian Shuiyue, Shu Laoren, and an Ivy League Taoist. ......

Of course, the most famous is Xu Wenchang. As a teenager, Xu Wei definitely meets Zhang Ailing's standard: becoming famous early.

Yang Xiong's the legendary swordsman was deeply touched, so he wanted to make a joke. He and Yang Xiong wrote a tit-for-tat article-Confession.

It is conceivable that 10-year-old children ridicule 1500 years ago, which can cause much sensation.

This is exactly the sentence: if you want to be famous, you must confront the big coffee. Big coffee won't be tit for tat with you, but you can do whatever you want ~ hahahaha.

Xu Wei was different from others since he was a child, because he was so excellent.

People don't treat him as a child at all, but talk about him with those big coffees of past dynasties, such as Yang Xiu, Cao Zhi, Ada and so on.

All my friends are contemporary talents and celebrities, and they are called "Top Ten in Vietnam" with Shen Lian, Chen Haiqiao and others. Shen Lian, one of the "Ten Scholars in Vietnam", dared not stand side by side with him, saying that "Xu Wei was the only one who closed the city gate".

Such outstanding talents will naturally be invited to various parties to show their host's grace.

Once, Xu Wei attended a banquet. The master intended to test the gifted scholar, so he pointed to a small matter and asked Xu Wei to contribute, but secretly instructed the servant to present a paper roll more than a foot long.

After that, Xu Wei stood up, drank a glass of wine, picked up a pen and began to write. After a while, Zhang Yu's paper roll was full.

Xu Wei succeeded in pretending to be B, being honorable before others and suffering after others. Our classmate Xiao Xu's life experience is quite tragic:

His father died when he was 100 days old.

Supposedly, Lao Yao should be more lovable. Unfortunately, his biological mother is only a girl who is married to Mrs. Miao by Mingmei, and she has no identity at all.

After his father died, Mrs Miao drove his biological mother out of the house and raised Xu Wei by herself, but she was very kind to him.

/kloc-When she was 0/4 years old, Mrs. Miao also died, and Xu Wei only lived with her brother who was 37 years older than him.

Xu Wei, who has been a "child of others" since childhood, is actually very fragile inside. His dependence and lack of care made him particularly eager to get ahead. At that time, there was only one way to get ahead-the imperial examination.

So Xu Wei began his long March.

Being admitted to a scholar at the age of 20 is a good start. He is full of energy, ready to go all out to be a scholar, and finally become a big official, glorifying his ancestors and living a shameless life.

But the reality is cruel, how brilliant when I was a child, and how sad when I grew up. Young people become famous and old people are miserable ~

He took rural exams again and again and failed again and again. He was still a scholar until he was 4 1 year old.

What should I do if my eldest brother doesn't want him? Thank him for his talent. Pan, the landlord next door, wants him to be a son-in-law.

In the evil feudal society, the door-to-door son-in-law is not like this. Give the house and the car, as long as you are good to the girl. At that time, there was no way.

A family should sit in the corner when eating and empty the urinal when getting up in the morning. In short, what a big family does to a girl is what a father-in-law does to his son-in-law.

People have to bow their heads under the eaves, and Xu Wei has to be a son-in-law in order to eat.

If people are unlucky, it is really difficult to drink cold water. Finally, I have a soft meal. I haven't eaten it for several years. My wife, Pan Shi, died of lung disease.

In this way, the old father-in-law Pan landlord hated him, complained that he didn't take good care of his precious daughter and drove him out of Pan's house.

At this time, Brother Xu also died of indulging in alchemy, and Xu had already died of illness in Guizhou, and his family business declined and was occupied by gentry and hooligans.

Xu Wei is really broke and desperate. Fortunately, he is very talented.

Relying on his reading ability since childhood, he opened a "one hall" to recruit children and earn some money for teaching.

According to the truth, a child prodigy must pass every exam. But when we get to Xu Wei, it seems that it will not work.

Because his mind is not on the Four Books and Five Classics at all, but devoted to the research of practical application.

He knows calligraphy, poetry, painting and even the art of war. "Conceited and resourceful, curious and calculating, talking about many soldiers."

/kloc-in the autumn of 0/550, Mongolian leader An Dan Khan led troops to plunder Beijing, and Emperor Jiajing was trapped in Beijing, but Yan Song's record was in front of the enemy, which caused great losses politically and economically.

When Xu Wei heard about it in his hometown, he was filled with indignation. He wrote "Song of Today" and "Erma Poem", denouncing Yan Song's mistake in his country.

It is a fact that gold is everywhere. Although Xu Wei has never passed the exam, his talent is obvious to all.

Because he often refers to painting mountains and rivers, and talks about the world's military and political affairs, Hu Zongxian, governor of Fujian and Zhejiang, paid attention to him.

Hu Zongxian wanted to invite this talented person into his shogunate as a tout, so he sent someone to invite Xu Wei.

Who knows that Xu Wei didn't give any face and said, "Where are you from and where are you going?" . Who asked you to come, you should ask him to come. "

Subordinate's mood, it is estimated that the dog is dead, and he went back to Hu Zongxian with trepidation. Unexpectedly, Hu Zongxian was not angry and said calmly, "I'll go find him."

This time, Xu Wei didn't refuse, but became Hu Zongxian's favorite.

Although Xu Wei has no fame or money, you have to have my rules when you invite me. This is called being particular.

Facts have proved that Xu Wei will never live up to the kindness of Governor Hu Da.

After getting through the initial running-in period, Xu Wei said eight words to Hu Zongxian: Decide the overall situation first, and then make plans.

According to the general policy of these eight words, Hu Zongxian made a detailed operational plan and won a great victory in the war against Japan.

In addition to being a strategist, he also became the Secretary-General of the Governor's Office, and all the official contacts of Hu Zongxian were handled by Xu Wei.

But after the fall of Yan Song, his subordinate Hu Zongxian followed suit.

Political struggle is more ruthless than steel. Yesterday, you were like a family. Today, you will die. Seeing that his good friend and benefactor died tragically in prison, he could do nothing, and he was more worried that he would be persecuted. The "Southeast First Army Division" completely collapsed. For Hu Zongxian and for myself.

I finally got better, and I can't see hope anymore.

Severe mental depression made him commit suicide.

First, I cut my head with an axe. "When I cut my head with an axe, my blood spilled all over the floor and my skull was broken." Then I pulled out the three-inch nail on the wall and inserted it into my ear for several inches, and blood poured out. It took several months to recover.

Finally, I smashed my kidney capsule with an awl, but I didn't die. He can't die, and he wants to kill someone. Because he suspected that his second wife Zhang was unfaithful to him, he began to kill his wife.

Killing is illegal, but Xu Wei was sent to prison without consulting you.

In prison, Xu Wei was shackled and covered with lice. In winter, the bed is covered with thick snow, and even the food sent by friends is taken away.

1573, Xu Wei, who spent seven years in prison, succeeded to the throne through Wanli, and the time for Amnesty finally came out.

After decades of ups and downs, he has given up any life ideal and political ambition.

Xu Wei is dead. Mr. Ivey rose from the ashes.

A person's real maturity begins with knowing who he is.

Xu Wei, 53, really put aside his career and wanted to be himself.

The first half of my life is for rice and rice, and the second half is for myself.

When I was a teenager, I was a prodigy. When people reached middle age, they were praised by the emperor. After decades of tempering, Xu Wei's talent has already flourished, been brilliant, fallen, died and lived.

With the hopelessness of life, broken dreams and successive blows, he has nothing, only the road he has traveled and the books he has read can accompany him.

After he was released from prison, Xu Wei visited Hangzhou, Nanjing and Fuchunjiang successively and made many friends in painting and calligraphy.

Five years later, Wu Dui, a great Xuan scholar, invited him to go north, and he also gladly went to write a composition for Wu Dui.

This position is entirely for helping a friend, so he does whatever he has to do and plays around when he has nothing to do.

Qi Jiguang introduced him to visit Li in Liaodong, bypassing Juyongguan.

As soon as you come in, you say, "I heard that your family is looking for a gentleman"? Li said to him, "Yes, I wonder what you would do"? In the face of the commander of the Northeast Military Region, Xu Wei remained indifferent. "I know the art of war."

To master the art of war? Sneak into this world.

Everyone around laughed, but Li tried to ask, "Who are you?

Xu Wei nodded with a smile. Li immediately got up and made 90 bows. Li knows that when he was an old scholar, this unruly old man was already planning the southeast.

He combined his life's experience in the art of war with the actual case of anti-Japanese war in southeast China and passed it on to the talented student Li.

Many years later, Li defeated Japan in Korea, continuing the victory and glory of anti-Japanese in the southeast.

Li said to him, "Stay in Liaodong, and I will support you." . Wu Dui said, "Stay at Xuanda. We are friends." . Qi Jiguang said, "You stay with me and we will do great things together." .

Xu Wei said, "Forget it, forget it, go home." I am frustrated, I am poor, and I am down and out, but I know that I am a man and serving the people once is enough.

Otherwise, I really feel that my knees can't stand straight. Poor, but have to pay attention to.

Xu Wei once said to people, "My book is the first, my poem is the second, my writing is the third, and my painting is the fourth".

It is a skill that he thinks is the most incompetent, which makes the later masters fall behind for hundreds of years.

Returning from the cold north to the warm south of the Yangtze River, he was only surrounded by his young friends and his disciples.

Because I have never treated my industry in my life, my money is easily dispersed. At this time, I want to make a living by selling calligraphy and painting, but I refuse to do it again because I have some money.

Among these paintings for sale, there are many treasures handed down from ancient times. For example, "Ink Grape Map" not only shows the texture of leaves with the shade of ink, but also the irregular font structure and line spacing of poems, which extend freely in the air like vines, and calligraphy and painting are integrated at this time.

For example, in the picture of plum blossom and banana leaf, plum blossom and banana are put together and inscribed with the poem: "Banana with plum blossom, this is Wang Wei's painting". Plum blossoms in the north are in the snow, and plantains in the south are hot. When they meet here, such as the intersection of yin and yang, the sun and the moon volley, it constitutes a Zen machine.

As Zhang Dai said: "Today, I see ivy paintings, which are bizarre and full of vigor and charm."

This style of painting, coupled with his calligraphy, is also particularly character.

If Dong Qichang destroyed Mohism, then Xu Wei destroyed brushwork. His detached personality and casual thinking made his calligraphy open and bright, which caused an uproar in the lonely book world dominated by "Taige Style" in the late Ming Dynasty. The big coffee people discussed: "Words can still be written like this."

Tao Wangling said, "If it's strange, it's wise." Yuan Hongdao said, "Mr. Cheng is a sage of the Eight Laws and a chivalrous man in the forest." .

Everyone came to ask for advice and study, and he installed a B: "It's not a special word. There are all kinds of things in the world. If you copy it and send it directly, you can compare it. Am I real? " But it's just a matter of holding it. "

It means: not only words, but everything in the world doesn't have to imitate others, so it's not really me.

As long as I understand the truth and combine my own style, the people I make and the words I write are the real me.

Success means doing what you like in the way you like.

Don't disappear in front of the public, just follow your true feelings and move forward happily.

When he lived in seclusion in his later years, Xu Wei was nothing like "the first strategist in Southeast China". He had long hair and lived in several shabby houses.

He wrote a couplet himself: "A few rickety houses, with a southern accent and a northern accent".

Someone visited and stood outside the door waiting respectfully. He opened his mouth to coax people away: "Xu Wei is not here."

Calligraphy and painting works have also been cheated or taken away by younger generations and students, and all of them have been taken away.

Thousands of books hidden at home have been sold out. Even so, he often can't eat.

In such a difficult situation, he still created the zaju "Four Sounds Apes".

Among them, The History of Crazy Drum in Three Pavilions to Yuyang was created with the feeling that Yan Song killed Shen Lian, and it has a proud rebellious spirit.

"Female top scholar resigns to win the Phoenix" and "Female Mulan joins the army as a father" are all women disguised as men to make contributions.

After watching the play, Tang Xianzu marveled: "The four sounds of ape are flying generals in the field of ci poetry. You have to sing it several times before you can lead a long article and extricate yourself from your tongue."

Just, just,

This life is hard enough,

Better end it.

Suffering, tired, pursued,

I got it, I lost it,

I've never gone against my will,

I have never given up my persistence and pride.

Die without regret.

True broadmindedness is to enjoy the process of pursuit and never care about the gain or loss of the result.

The real free and easy is the vastness of Xiamen. Sleep no more than seven feet at night; There are thousands of acres of fertile land, but I can't eat three meals during the eclipse. I want very little, and satisfaction is enough.

1593, Xu Wei died of poverty and illness in his shabby house.

Before he died, rhubarb dog was the only one who accompanied him. There is messy straw under him, and there is no mat on the bed.

Xu Wei's life is a great failure. He wrote a poem for himself:

I've been down and out for half my life,

Self-study whistling night wind.

There is nowhere to sell pearls at the bottom of the pen.

Throw wild vines around.

Xu Wei's life can be said to be extremely successful.

Teenagers are reading, and their literary talents are flying; Mid-year calendar, sitting away from the southeast; In his later years, he was poor and famous all over the world; Death is immortal, spanning all ages.

When frustrated, he did not give up on himself, but was still studying and discussing things;

When he was by Hu Zongxian's side, he didn't corrupt, but kept to a friend of a gentleman.

When he was down and out, he was attracted by Li, Qi Jiguang and Wu Dui.

Be able to stick to your heart and not be bent by fame and fortune.

That year, Xu Wei was in high spirits;

That year, Xu Wei talked about the world;

That year, Xu Wei looked up at the starry sky, and his body and mind were clear.

Don't take the usual path, because you have an extraordinary heart. There are many flattering people in the world, but only you remain the same.

Now Xu Wei is a child prodigy and an absolute beauty in my eyes. You should be satisfied with these eight words.