Northerners usually go to the grave to burn some paper in the first seven days and don't go the next day. There is a saying that "seven days before burning, the next day is empty, seven days after burning, and the fourth and seventh days are empty." The umbrella should be burned on May 7th.
The morning after the funeral is the day of round grave. Relatives and friends, distant relatives and close neighbors of the deceased all came to visit the grave.
Going to the grave on the day of the round grave is different from going to the grave at any time. First, the strong laborers who came to the grave, driving tractors and carrying more than a dozen shovels, came to the grave from home first.
Dig up from the ground near the cemetery where no crops have been planted, pull the soil to the cemetery, and add the graves of the deceased buried yesterday from small to large. When adding soil to the grave, first insert the wreath on the grave in the middle of the coffin.
They added earth to the grave centered on this wreath. With the increase of soil in the grave, some people pulled up the wreath, and people continued to fill it until they could see the grave from a distance. At least the scale of the new grave was much larger than that of other old graves.
After adding the grave, a small square pit was dug next to the south side of the grave, and it was built with more than a dozen bricks brought with the car to burn paper money for the deceased. At the same time, a platform is set at the lower corner of the tomb above this small pit to pay homage to the dead.
When the grave is round, offerings are indispensable, a bottle of white wine and some snacks that the dead usually like to eat. If you bring snacks, you can bring some, 5 for each kind of fruit. Try to bring some snacks and fruits. ? Mingbi, gold and silver ingots are indispensable, and you can bring them at will.