This sentence is a common saying in northern my country. In the past, in order to marry a hard-working and capable wife for his son, he would first go to the other person’s house to see the environment of the house, so as to judge the ability of the daughter of the house. You can't marry back home.

But this is all a thing of the past. Not to mention that modern families do not have pots and stoves, even if they do have them, it is not fashionable to visit the in-laws before getting married.

Of course the old sayings have their own truths, but the new era also has the standards of the new era. So what aspects should modern people look at to see whether they are living a good life?

1. Know how to be content

Don’t always compare yourself to others, you have to live your own life.

Isn’t there a saying that goes well? Whoever is serious will lose? When you can’t help but compare with other people’s lives, you have actually lost.

The reason for comparison comes from lack of confidence in one’s own life, and always wanting to see if others are the same as oneself. In the process of repeatedly comparing yourself with others, you will slowly lose your original intention and become difficult to be satisfied.

Such people are likely to lose the motivation to live and make their lives a mess.

And those who know how to be content live a good life because they focus on themselves rather than others.

2. How are the people around you?

How your life will be like is actually determined when you first choose. The kind of people you choose to live with will directly affect your life. determine the future direction of life.

As the saying goes: People with different views and conditions do not agree with each other. If you choose to live with people who are very different from your own three views and have very different conditions, it will not take long for you to become more and more different because you do not have the same language. Getting increasingly unhappy.

In the past, we paid attention to being well-matched, which mostly meant that material possessions should not be too far apart. Modern people also pay attention to being well-matched, but what they pay attention to is finding people who have similar three views to themselves.

After all, life is lived by two people. If the three views are not in harmony, there is no tacit understanding in everything, and they can only hold on if they want to separate, then life will be very tiring and tiring.

3. Attitude towards life

Life is like a mirror. If you laugh, it will laugh. If you cry, it will cry. So if you treat life well, life will treat you well. .

If we face life with a lonely mentality, we will be dissatisfied with various things in life, and the quality of life will also be affected.

It is inevitable that we often encounter troubles in life. We must face them with a positive attitude and solve them one by one. In the end, you will find that life is not that bad after all, and life can always get better and better.

4. Add happiness to life

Why are there always people who can live a high-level happiness even in ordinary days? It is not difficult to find through some details of life that such people can always entertain themselves in life, and they can always optimistically find some little tricks to solve life problems.

They can take the initiative to find fun in life and are willing to devote their energy to creating a good living atmosphere for their families. Only in this way can they live freely and freely, and many problems will not come to them.

Going back to the question itself, how is life going? You can tell by going to his house and looking at two things. One is the pot table and the other is the kang mat. Although this standard is outdated, the truth behind it is still there.

Don’t the pot table and kang mat also represent a person’s attitude towards family and life? Although the angle of looking at the problem has changed, the answer I want to find remains the same.