I'm a local! I just got married last year and got engaged in Shanwei as follows: Ask the woman in advance how much peanut oil she needs, as well as square cakes (said by Shanwei people).
Rent eight barrels and put things in them (gift money, twelve-page stickers, pig's trotters, wine, tea, sesame seeds, dried cuttlefish and mackerel balls). How much to measure,
Just once engaged, it cost nearly 100 thousand before and after.