Introduction: Fan Weiqi and Chen Jianzhou have twin sons. They often post photos of their sons on Weibo. The eldest son Feifei has been a master at flirting with girls since he was a child. If you want to cultivate an optimistic and cheerful character in your children from an early age, you must do the following things.

The first trick to flirt with girls: winking

Feifei winking

Fan Weiqi posted a video of her twin eldest sons on the Internet on the 21st. Seeing Feifei sitting on the ground, holding a car toy in his hand, his watermelon-haired head swaying from side to side, he suddenly stopped and looked directly at the camera, and then leaned his chubby cheek on his right shoulder, revealing quite a bit. The innocent expression was just "ogling", and Fan Weiqi was so shocked that she couldn't help but write the word "very good".

The second trick to flirt with girls: be funny

Get thinner in a second

On December 3, Fan Weiqi posted on Weibo He posted a cute photo of his son and left a message saying, "I lost weight in a second." In the photo, the child looks at the camera with wide eyes, a blank expression, and looks cute.

The third trick to flirt with girls: Hug

Feifei hugs Shen Yulin’s daughter

In January, Chen Jianzhou posted a video of Feifei and Shen Yulin’s daughter studying on Facebook In the video of their first meeting, Feifei, who was originally crying, immediately stopped crying and stared at the woman. The atmosphere was so ambiguous that Chen Jianzhou couldn't help but marvel.

The fourth trick to flirt with girls: kiss

Feifei kissed the little girl

In early March, Chen Jianzhou posted a video on Weibo about his twin sons Feifei and A video of Xiangxiang playing with children. In the video, the twin babies are very active. Feifei quickly crawls to the little girl aside, and sneaks a kiss on her cheek. Chen Jianzhou wrote: "Feifei Xiang is really They love playing with children." The two brothers are cheerful and generous.

How to raise a cheerful and optimistic baby?

A cheerful and optimistic personality plays an important role in a child’s future life development. Surveys show that cheerful and optimistic people are not only healthier, but also have happier married lives and are more likely to succeed in their careers. So how to cultivate children to have such a positive character?

In addition to the baby's natural temperament, the baby's personality expression is also closely related to the growing environment provided by the family and even the educational environment in the future. Especially the family environment at a young age has a significant impact. Influence.

1. Don’t control your children too strictly

As a parent, of course you cannot leave your children undisciplined and let them go, but controlling them too strictly may suppress the child’s innocence and childishness. have a negative impact on mental health. Let your children have different choices at different ages. Only children who enjoy the right to choose from an early age can feel happiness and freedom in the true sense.

For example, for a two- or three-year-old child, he should be allowed to choose what to eat for breakfast, when to drink milk, and what clothes to wear. For a four- or five-year-old child, he should be allowed to make choices within the scope of his parents’ permission. Pick your favorite toys. Choose where to go to play on weekends. For six or seven-year-old children, they should be allowed to choose the TV programs they like to watch, when to study, etc. within a certain period of time.

2. Encourage children to make more friends

Children who are not sociable are mostly introverted, because they may suffer from loneliness from time to time and cannot enjoy the warmth of friendship. You might as well encourage your children to make more friends, especially friends of the same age. Children who are introverted and depressed are better suited to make more cheerful and optimistic friends.

Today’s children do lack many friends. Many people living in cities have little contact and communication with their neighbors, let alone bringing their children to know their friends. Therefore, adults should create this condition for them, take their children to participate in various activities, and encourage their children to make friends with other students in school and be good friends.

3. Teach children to get along well with others.

People who get along well with others have a brighter and better inner world. Parents may wish to bring their children into contact with people of different ages, genders, personalities, occupations and social statuses so that they can learn to get along well with different types of people. Of course, children must first learn to get along well with their parents, siblings, and relatives. In addition, parents themselves should get along well with others, treat others with enthusiasm and sincerity, not be snobbish and condescending, and not talk about others behind their backs, so as to set a good example for their children.

4. Let children have a wide range of hobbies

If a child only has one hobby, it will be difficult to maintain a long-term sense of happiness. Just imagine: Children who only like to watch TV will definitely feel depressed if there is no suitable program at night. On the contrary, if your child likes to read, read newspapers or play games when watching TV, he will also enjoy it.

Parents can tell stories to their children to cultivate their interest in reading, and slowly induce their children to become interested in science according to their age characteristics and abilities. In addition, children can also be exposed to more interactive games such as music, painting, sports, chess, etc., to cultivate children's harmonious and free personality, add fun to childhood life, and provide children with richer content and more entertainment methods for their future lives.

5. Guide children to learn to get out of trouble

Every child will encounter unsatisfactory things, even children who are naturally optimistic. When a child encounters difficulties, parents should pay more attention to their child's emotional changes. If the child is unhappy, no matter how busy the parents are, they should still find some time to talk to the child, educate the child to learn to be patient and face it with strength, and encourage the child to do the best in everything. Think about the positive aspects, don't think about the negative aspects.

As long as children are willing to communicate with their parents, parents should guide their children to express their worries. In this way, the worries will soon disappear and the children will regain their happiness. Of course, parents can also help their children overcome some difficulties and teach them the correct attitudes and measures to maintain an optimistic mood. These are all good ways to help children get rid of negative emotions.

6. Have moderate self-confidence

Having self-confidence is closely related to the formation of a happy personality. For a child who has low self-esteem due to limited intelligence or abilities, parents must discover and promote their strengths, and appraise the situation and provide more praise and encouragement. Positive affirmation from parents, relatives and friends will undoubtedly help children overcome low self-esteem and build self-confidence.

Parents can put forward tasks and requirements suitable for their children's development characteristics and individual differences, establish an appropriate goal, so that children can complete it through hard work, and develop self-confidence through continuous success. Moderate successful experiences tend to increase children's interest and help them form a self-awareness of success, thus becoming a source of motivation for continuous improvement.

In addition, we should pay special attention to children who lack self-confidence. For example, for timid children, we should consciously let them take on certain tasks at home, and gradually become bold and confident in the process of completing the tasks.

7. Create a happy family atmosphere

The atmosphere of the family and the relationship between family members will, to a large extent, affect the formation of the child's personality. The educational atmosphere and mood of a family should remain on the "best mood line" of joy and calm most of the time. Research shows that a child can sense the emotions and atmosphere around him before he can even speak words, even though he can't yet express them in words. The family is full of laughter and warmth, which affects children to a great extent.

A harmonious and happy family atmosphere is very important for children to develop a happy personality. If there are frequent quarrels between family members, children will only feel frightened and upset in this atmosphere. Therefore, parents should create a relaxed, pleasant, and equal family atmosphere for their children, so that they can gain a full sense of security and trust and grow up happily.