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This is one of the prerequisites for marriage, because this article focuses on wedding preparation, so the stage is omitted.

This stage needs to be explained. According to the newly revised Marriage Law, registered marriage can be exempted from premarital examination and unit certificate, but for the sake of safety, it is recommended to have premarital examination. The place of registration is generally registered in the district marriage registration office where the man lives. Try to wear clothes and dress up beautifully when you go-prepare photos on the marriage certificate. At the same time, it is best to take some sugar and give it to the staff at the registration office to express their gratitude (the customs can cancel it). I remember that the procedure was to register first, then the staff checked whether they met the conditions for marriage, then took photos, then read out the provisions of the marriage law, and then got a license to leave. In the evening, the two can have a candlelight dinner together excitedly, or they can take the time to enter the next link.

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This is an important link that must be experienced before marriage. This period is a crucial period for the two to get to know each other better. Through the collision between the concept of house decoration and work consciousness, we can fully understand their future status and role in the home, as well as their hobbies. Because this aspect mainly involves house decoration, it has nothing to do with the theme of this article, so it is also skipped.

Hotel: You should book a hotel six months before the wedding, otherwise you won't find a suitable hotel at all during the wedding season. The key to booking a hotel is the venue (whether there are pillars that affect the view), food (the most deadly place in the hotel) and service quality (mainly the degree of cooperation of the hotel, including whether there are platforms, flowers, arches, champagne towers, cakes, red carpets, happy characters, autograph books, etc. Be provided). At the same time, remember the phone number of the main person in charge and keep in touch.

Team: There are two main ways: the etiquette company provides it and finds it by itself. The best time is within 3 months. The benefits provided by the etiquette company are as follows: First, the vehicles are guaranteed, and the cars of the same brand do not need to be found by themselves; Second, the service is guaranteed. If you have any questions, you can ask the etiquette company to claim for compensation. Third, it is pure money friendship, without human feelings. The disadvantage is that it costs a lot. The length of the first car is generally around 2000- 1.200 yuan, and the price of fleet vehicles varies from brand to brand, generally around 1.200-300 yuan. The advantage of finding it yourself is to save money. The disadvantage is that there is no guarantee, and the car often doesn't come on the wedding day. Second, human feelings are great. Of course, if an individual has the strength, it is more cost-effective to find it himself.

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Wedding planning group: the candidate was determined one month ago. The main categories are: host, groomsman, bridesmaid, general manager, deputy general manager (person in charge of the hotel 1 person, person in charge of the bride's family 1 person, and person in charge of the new family), car guide, video recording, photography, door-to-door money collection registration (more than 2 people) and gift package distribution.

It was basically confirmed a month ago. Mainly determine the list of officiating guests, witnesses, distinguished guests and guests. Then set the number of tables according to the number of people, which should be between 20 and 30.

It will be finished in three months. Remind the groom to pay special attention to the price set at the beginning with the photo studio. Most brides can't stop after shooting, so they must consider their wallets when taking wedding photos.

Within one month after the renovation of the new house. The specific situation suits people.

Two months before marriage. First of all, the wedding dress can be booked through the photo studio or by yourself. There is a wedding street in Shahekou District, where the wedding dress is good, and interested friends can go and have a look. Secondly, the wedding ring, it is best to buy at the time of engagement, so as not to forget. Thirdly, wedding invitations, happy characters, red envelopes, gift packages, spray objects (it is not recommended to buy them, it is not easy to take them off when sprayed on clothes), signature pens and so on. According to the number of people and the actual situation, there are both large food markets and Erqi Square, and they are cheap. Finally, there are fixed products, mainly red cloth (used to make the bed and nail the door curtain), red paper (used to cover the horse gourd), washbasin, meat (used to keep the mother meat), comb, mirror (one for each pair), handkerchief (used to exchange outdoor photos on the wedding day) and so on.

Finish it within one week before marriage. Mainly wedding supplies, mainly cigarettes, wine, sugar, melon seeds, drinks and so on. Among them, buy some longan, peanuts, jujube and lotus seeds respectively. Cigarettes are mainly considered in four parts: one is for the guests attending the wedding banquet, the other is for the dining table, the third is for toasting, and the fourth is for other purposes (self-smoking or for the preparatory group). Liquor is divided into liquor and beer, basically one bottle of liquor and four bottles of beer per table. Alcohol and tobacco generally go to the wholesale market of alcohol and tobacco (behind the municipal government) and the big food market. Sugar, melon seeds, drinks, etc. You can buy it in a big food market, in which sugar is part of the wedding for the bride's family, part of the gift package (usually 8, 12), part of the candy for the guests at the wedding banquet, and part of the table reception. Generally, 3-4 bottles can be prepared for each table. Snacks are controlled by yourself.

Completed within two weeks before marriage.

Mainly includes:

Try on the dress, mainly to feel it, so as not to feel stiff after wearing new clothes and affect the performance on the wedding day.

Meet with the host to finalize the wedding day process to avoid mistakes on the wedding day.

Invite the wedding planning team to dinner, one is to thank them, and the other is to finalize everyone's tasks for the day.

Two days before the wedding, take all the cigarettes, wine, sugar, snacks and other items needed for the wedding reception to the hotel for preservation.

And the hotel finally decided to put the colorful arches at the door and the banquet (divided into VIP seats, parents and relatives, in-laws and relatives, relatives and friends, etc.). ), as well as the implementation of other additional services (such as giving cakes, champagne towers, toasting, the bride and groom lounge, etc.). ).

Try to take the route taken by the team that day and calculate the time.

Send out wedding invitations and try to determine the number of people who can be present on the wedding day.

Other details: headdress, bridal bouquet, bridal headband, corsage (at least 10), etc.

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This is the most critical link. The following is just a record of my personal process in one day. Please add some differences.

The bride is accompanied by a bridesmaid to make up (at home, a wedding photo studio or a beauty shop), while the groom gets up and prepares red envelopes (about 5) for the day;

The groom and the best man joined the car and the motorcade and began to tie the float;

The motorcade set off for the bride's house. (The team usually has a camera car or a leader car first, then a float, and then a team. The bride's family should be prepared for the motorcade, and cover the horse gourd (usually within 30 meters of the door) before the motorcade arrives 10 minutes;

When the motorcade arrived at the bride's house, the groom shouted to open the door. Usually the bride's sister or friend makes things difficult for the groom and then opens the door. The groom should give the troublemaker a red envelope in time to express his gratitude;

After seeing the bride, the groom took photos and videos, and then walked out. The groom called his parents and received a big red envelope! (Generally, the family gives 999 yuan, and the husband's family gives 100 1 yuan). Then a couple of bridesmaids eat jiaozi, and jiaozi must have even numbers left, and then take photos with her family;

The motorcade started from her mother's house to her new home. Before leaving, the bride and sister should bring two red pots (including mirrors, combs and special steamed buns). After the motorcade arrived, the new family arranged for people to set off firecrackers at the door to celebrate. Then the groom's sister (if no unmarried female friend is found) takes over the washbasin in the bride's sister's hand. The groom on the lower floor will take the bride upstairs, and the one on the higher floor will be exempted (I enjoyed the treatment, hehe). After entering, the bride called her parents and received a big red envelope! Then the bride's brother helps nail the curtain, and the groom will give a red envelope. Then a couple took photos in the new house, and it took about 30-40 minutes to get to the hotel from the new house.

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To the hotel. Usually, the best man opens the door, and the groom first appears in front of everyone, and then helps the bride out according to the arrangement of photography. Then friends and relatives at the door can bombard the couple. At the door, you can hold ceremonies such as stepping on balloons, releasing pigeons, releasing balloons, scattering petals or colored paper, and then everyone will gather together, and the couple will rest in the lounge and everyone will be seated.

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The wedding reception begins. Wedding banquets in Dalian are usually held at noon, so the time is usually set at 1 1: 28, 1 1: 38,1:48, etc. As long as the last minute is 8, you will be lucky. It should be noted that the time written on the invitation must be earlier, otherwise some guests will arrive on time according to the time on the invitation, which will affect the "attendance rate" of the wedding reception. If the people are almost here, then the wedding will officially begin under the arrangement of the host;

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Wedding process. Since each host has his own style, he can communicate with the host according to his own ideas. As I often attend wedding banquets, the best ceremony is to make it quick. Less games, less pleasantries, and the earlier the food is served, the happier the guests will be. The specific problem depends on the specific grasp of the newcomer. After the ceremony, it usually ends with a glass of wine, a champagne tower and a piece of cut cake. Then the newlyweds change clothes, the wedding reception begins, and then the newlyweds come out to propose a toast, smoke and bake candy (usually leaders of both sides-VIPs-elders of both sides-relatives-colleagues-friends and classmates);

The wedding reception is over. After the wedding, the couple went out to shoot the location, and the wedding planning team assigned two or three people to be responsible for the aftermath, mainly including settling accounts with the hotel, cleaning up the remaining tobacco and alcohol, and arranging to send relatives' vehicles. After shooting the location, the couple can arrange several tables of good dishes to entertain the relevant people in the wedding planning group in the evening to show their gratitude;

A week after the wedding. Three days after marriage, the couple will go to their parents' house to send their husband and mother-in-law away from their mother.