Mom and Dad, I want to say to you ---

More respect, less perfunctory; more sincerity, less hypocrisy; more acceptance, less rejection; more Understand and be less suspicious.

Mom and Dad, I want to say to you ---

Can you put down your parents’ airs and dignity? Don’t forget that you were young and impulsive; girls’ unique You still have sensitivity now; why, mom, you also take a moment to look in the mirror in your busy schedule, why do you care about the small changes on your face.

Mom and Dad, I want to say to you ---

It is not difficult to believe in your children. Don't let me get between you and the teacher.

Mom and Dad, I want to say to you---

I am your child. Can you please check my school bag and words and deeds without looking at me with scrutinizing eyes and interrogating tone? I know what is healthy, and I also know that every inch of time is worth every inch of money.

Mom and Dad, I want to say to you---

You don’t want to use your head to think about my problems, why can’t I use my own head to think about my own problems? Woolen cloth?

Why did equal discussion turn into a promise I made against my will?

Mom and Dad, I want to say to you ---

I am no longer a little girl. When a young girl in bloom faces her own changes and I am helpless, can you know what to do? Help with something?

Mom and Dad, I want to say to you---

What else can I say? I just want you to know that I love you.

Mom and Dad, I want to say to you...

High school senior year candidates: Mom and Dad, I want to say to you

Senior year of high school, for those who have studied hard for ten years For many students, it is the last critical moment. Whether they can successfully pass the college entrance examination and successfully enter the university, the senior year of high school is absolutely crucial.

The importance of senior high school students is not a simple description. Senior high school students know this, and their parents also know this. No, when entering the senior year of high school, the family atmosphere immediately became serious. Needless to say, parents also took action. However, it is one thing to be aware of it and another thing to realize what to do in the future. The whole family is serious, the parents are extremely nervous, and the atmosphere is oppressive... In such a family atmosphere, how do high school students feel and what do they think? As a parent of a senior high school student, you might as well listen to what the senior high school student has to say.

Taste the ups and downs of the third year of high school - the ups and downs of "coming through"

"How can you see a rainbow without going through wind and rain?" Standing in the halls of the university and looking back on the senior year of high school, the perspective of senior students should be more calm, objective and pertinent than that of students in their senior year of high school. Looking back on the ups and downs of the past, I have countless emotions in my heart.

The senior year of high school is a year worth remembering, almost every college student interviewed said so. Looking back on my senior year of high school, the teacher’s encouragement, parents’ encouragement, and even the intense and boring study itself have an element worth remembering. The pressure of the college entrance examination no longer exists, but the encouragement from my parents is still in my ears. Every time I recall these things, I have a deeper understanding of my parents' intentions and a more real sense of the warmth of home. After passing the senior year of high school, they are more willing to tell their experiences to their juniors and juniors who are still on the road, as well as to all the parents who have endured hardships.

Communication starts from the heart

Lu Jiwen from Xi'an University of Technology won the first prize in the National Undergraduate Mathematical Modeling Competition in 2001, and also won the first-class scholarship in school every year. . He attended Huanggang Middle School in Hubei Province in high school. He lives in a rural area and does not see his parents a few times a month. Since he is the only student in the village studying at a key middle school, the whole village has high hopes for him. In addition, due to the competition among many outstanding students in the class and school at the famous Huanggang Middle School, and the teacher's requirements, he felt more pressure than ever before in his senior year of high school. However, in the family, he can find his safe haven. His parents never set any goals or requirements for him, but constantly reduced his pressure. His parents often said to him: "The college entrance examination is actually just an exam. As long as you prepare actively and review well, Every day, and then perform to the level you should in the exam and do the questions you know how to do, that’s enough. No matter what the result is, we will be satisfied.” It was his parents' understanding and support that moved him deeply. If he had any problems, he always took the initiative to talk to them, and his parents also took the initiative to exchange views on study and life with him, encouraging him to express his thoughts and doubts, whether he was happy or depressed. In this way, in his senior year of high school, although he was also nervous and busy, his life and study were always orderly and his mood was simple and happy. In the end, although Lu Jiwen did not perform well in the college entrance examination due to physical reasons and his test scores were not satisfactory, he was still admitted to Xi'an University of Technology. More importantly, my parents did not complain about this but were very understanding. This allowed Lu Jiwen to go to college with a peaceful mind. In his mind, his parents are the last haven for his soul, where he can always find peace and motivation to work hard. In the end, he achieved good results in college and became a good student with excellent academic performance.

Talking about his experience in the senior year of high school, classmate Lu Jiwen said the following:

In fact, parents all over the world are similar, whether they are pleasant or stormy, underneath the appearance What is hidden is the love for his children. Talk to your parents more and tell your parents everything you want to say frankly. No matter when, they are our most trustworthy elders and friends.

As a parent, you should know that senior high school students are actually under a lot of pressure. They have to face the competition among classmates, the requirements of school teachers and the hopes of their parents. If we as parents cannot give them an environment to relieve stress and relieve themselves, and the parents will continue to put pressure on them, what will happen to the senior high school students? For students, the effect is often counterproductive. At the age of seventeen or eight, they are already sensible and naturally understand the path they are facing and what they are about to experience. They are capable and will make their own choices and devote all their strength to it. At this time, what parents have to do is to communicate with them more, be a person who truly believes that they understand them, and be a friend who they can talk to about everything.

Touched, inadvertently

Parents are extremely nervous when their children are facing the college entrance examination. They hope to do everything possible for their children and care about them very much. At this time, the child becomes the "special protected object" and the core of the family. Everything revolves around the child, and the child is not allowed to worry about anything except study.

"From the first day of the third year of high school, they (parents) have always paid attention to various trends (college entrance examination) and will never let go of any opportunity to "gain points". From every week The careful preparation of a nutritious meal is evident. Every weekend, the meals at home are always extremely rich. My father goes to buy vegetables early in the morning, and my mother is meticulous about washing and cooking. She also refers to the recipes in the newspaper to make scientific recipes. Processing, so sometimes I have to go to the drugstore several times to cook a chicken." Tang Dan, who is now a student at Tongji University, was deeply moved when talking about his parents' care during the college entrance examination.

"In the high temperature of June, they still came to school to see me, and just to give me a meal and improve my food." Zhou Ling from Wuhan University Business School was also moved by her parents a move.

However, in the college entrance examination, students face and need more than just food and nutrition. Nor do they all need their parents to selflessly do a lot of things for them so that they can become "princess" and "young master". Deliberate "key protection" often brings greater pressure to them.

During the third year of high school, students will experience some setbacks and some losses. Psychological and emotional care and help, understanding and support are equally important and must not be ignored. Inadvertently, spiritual comfort often moves candidates more and gives them more motivation.

“Once, I didn’t do well in an exam. I didn’t tell them (parents) when I got home, but they found out about it through the school’s bulletin board, but they didn’t confront me about it. He asked me why, but he gave me a note that said: You are our most proud daughter!" Wang Lixia, a student from Wuhan University, was deeply impressed when recalling her parents' understanding.

Inadvertent actions for children will not only bring greater pressure to them, but also allow the children to experience their parents' sincerity.

"Actually, my parents' love comes from every little thing in daily life. It is because of their love that I have the strength to face the difficulties I encounter in my studies and the courage to overcome them." Zhang Ying from Tongji University gave a summary of parents’ care.

What is suitable is the best

During the college entrance examination process, parents' care and love are often the easiest to deteriorate, evolving into parents' violation and coercion of their children's wishes.

“Getting into a prestigious university is not necessarily the best outcome,” Zhang Hui from Xi’an University of Technology believes. One of his high school classmates used to be full of admiration and yearning for soldiers. He very much hoped to train himself in the military camp, so he dreamed of entering the military school all day long. However, his parents were very opposed to his decision and wanted him to enter a key university. Later, under pressure from his parents, he finally changed his mind. Fortunately, as his parents wished, he successfully entered this prestigious university. However, things had just begun. One year after entering college, he was not interested in studying at all because it was not his interest. His final grades were red, and he was eventually forced to drop out. His parents also regretted it. This incident gave Zhang Hui a great stimulus. Parents should always respect their children's opinions. Even if you are thinking about their children's future, you should also consider their children's position and patiently persuade them instead of imposing their will. It is wrong to simply hope that "the children will understand in the future." . It seems that the "best" path may not be suitable for your child. What's more, the child's wishes are also an important part of judging whether it is good or bad, and it is a very important part. Parents should not pretend to be "careful". Flags deprive children of their right to choose. In fact, "Interest is the best teacher." Only the path that suits him is the best path, and children can get the best development.

As a parent, it is very necessary to fully provide reference for your children. It is also entirely possible to tell the factors and reasons that parents consider and help them manage the various periods.

But parents must first adjust their expectations. There is no need to compare blindly, and there is no need to compare with the children of next door neighbors or relatives and friends. They only need to consider the actual situation of their children, so as not to embarrass their children or add anything to them. The pressure is entirely for their future.

If we were to take the college entrance examination again

The students standing in the ivory tower, with the help of their parents, successfully passed the college entrance examination threshold. At this time, it seems that if they were to take the college entrance examination again, A college entrance examination, what do they have to say?

My college entrance examination went through this way. I was very lucky and I cherished it. If God asked me to choose again, I would still obey my parents’ wishes. It is not actually pressure, as long as I grasp it well. , can be completely converted into power. Poor parents in the world, who is not willing to help their children at critical moments, no matter how insignificant it is. The college entrance examination is only once, because they are willing, they really want to give this love, willingly, without regrets, why should we force others to make it difficult, just give them a chance to give! ——Tang Dan, Tongji University

I firmly believe that even if I have another senior year in high school, my parents’ tolerance and care will still be the magic weapon for me to win. ——Zhang Ying

Just maintain the status quo, no need to If I am too nervous, just give me some encouragement and let me decide everything by myself. ——Zhou Ling

If I were to be in my senior year again, I would like my parents to point out more mistakes to me, whether it be in my life or my character. ——Wang Lixia

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After all, their senior year of high school and their college entrance examination have passed, and there will never be another time. Then their words can only be said to those who are in their senior year of high school or are about to realize their dreams. Parents who are already high school seniors are listening. I hope that the few words of these "experienced people" will bring some inspiration to them, accompany their children, and walk easily on the road to the senior year of high school.

Ask the senior year of high school—what’s wrong with mom and dad?

Senior year of high school has arrived whether you like it or not. What kind of family atmosphere do students who have just entered their senior year of high school feel? And what happens to the parents and other family members in the family? Do you feel uncomfortable compared to the situation before your senior year in high school? What do high school seniors really think about their parents? Let’s find out what senior high school students really think.

I have been under pressure since I was a child, but it was much heavier in my senior year of high school than before. It should be said that this generation of high school students has grown up under pressure since childhood. The heavy academic load, the fierce competition in school selection for the high school entrance examination, etc., have made them have a certain psychological ability to withstand pressure. But once they entered their senior year of high school, they still clearly felt nervous and urgent.

“I really know what ‘pressure’ is,” said Zhang Xin, a senior class 2 student in Xi’an No. 1 Middle School. “The family atmosphere has changed significantly, and the parents have certainly changed a lot. It feels like they are in the third year of high school just like me. For them, three sentences a day are a constant reminder of the college entrance examination, not to mention how tense the family environment is. When neighbors and parents' friends meet, the first thing they ask is: Are you in your senior year of high school? How are you studying? In such an environment, it would be strange if you weren't nervous, which makes everyone nervous all day long."

What is the attitude of parents? Luo Xin’s parents made it clear: everything is for learning and everyone works hard. So the house was fortified, the computer was locked, and the television and newspapers were completely sealed, not to mention playing video games. Wang Yang's father is good at ideological and political work, and Wang Yang can't stand his long speeches. Regarding university goals, he analyzed the social situation for Wang Yang, discussed development prospects, and finally came to the conclusion: Wang Yang "cannot go to Tsinghua University."

“It’s actually good to have a little pressure. After all, only when you have pressure can you be motivated, but I can’t stand it if my parents reiterate it all day long. Moreover, the college entrance examination is also my own business. Don’t I own my own business? You know? Of course I will work hard. It’s really annoying if they keep nagging in my ears without believing me.” As for Wang Yang, although his academic performance is pretty good, he still feels uncertain about the "Tsinghua University" goal set by his father. And he was very dissatisfied with his father's approach, "It makes the house feel like a prison. No matter how high school you are, you still have to live. In addition to studying every day, there is 'ideological work'. Who is guilty?" Obviously, a Tsinghua seedling is again Suffering a lot.

Poor parents in the world. There are senior high school students in the family, and the strings in the parents' hearts are often tighter than those of the candidates themselves. It can be said that half of the mental stress experienced by senior high school students comes from the college entrance examination and the other half comes from the nervousness of their parents. The distress of classmate Wang Qi is a typical example. At home, her parents treat her like a little princess. They don't let her do anything. They make her concentrate on reviewing, which makes her very special. The atmosphere at home is also strange. Her parents are always careful with her, as if she is a child. The porcelain doll was afraid that it would fall to the ground and shatter into pieces if I let go. During the meal, her mother kept asking her about what she should eat to maintain nutrition, and what nutrients she should take before and after meals at night. Her father would look around for various review materials to strengthen her. Even her grandparents would often ask her questions. I was restless and busy with myself... Talking about this, Wang Qi felt too much pressure: "I really can't think of it. If I didn't do well in the exam and failed everyone's expectations and efforts for me, What will happen to me.

"Undoubtedly, the "specialization" of the family brings not convenience and motivation to the candidates, but greater pressure.

Zhang Xin once talked with his father about the college entrance examination, and casually said, "Shaanxi this year's college entrance examination. The college entrance examination admission rate has reached 53%." Unexpectedly, my father was angry, so he started to analyze it in a long way, talking about the problems with the admission structure, saying that it was passive to barely enter a university, etc., and at the same time, he also analyzed that she was relaxed about herself. Zhang Xin felt that although he could understand his father's good intentions and the meaning of what he said, it was completely unreasonable to make the top line so tense. It's not necessary.

Many students say that because their parents are too sensitive, they dare not tell their true thoughts to them, for fear that they will worry, so they try to figure out what their parents are thinking and follow their advice. The parents' wishes were revealed but their true thoughts were hidden. Not only were their own problems not solved, but they also had to clear their parents' doubts, which was really hard work.

Parents are more nervous than candidates, just like candidates are more nervous in the examination room. They are all signs of failure. To be a qualified parent, parents must first relieve themselves and then create a relaxed environment for the family that is conducive to candidates.

As the saying goes, everyone is happy. Worry, on the one hand, students complain that their parents are too focused, but on the other hand, some senior high school students do not get the care they deserve. Zhang Qiang is a very independent student. This is his own evaluation, but in fact, he has not been in junior high school. Since then, he has been living in a dormitory. I believe that many years of living in a dormitory have made him accustomed to taking care of himself, but the pressure of his senior year in high school still makes him a little overwhelmed. "Maybe my parents are too trusting of me. They don't care about me. Everything is up to me. But I still hope to talk to them about some things, ask for their opinions, or ask them to give me some suggestions. "It's the senior year of high school. After all, it's different from before.

This is difficult. It's really difficult to be a qualified parent when your child is in the senior year of high school. It's really difficult to agree on what to do if you don't choose the left or the right.

Can you satisfy your children? Let’s listen to the students’ own expectations.

Expectations for the senior year - what to say to parents

Pay attention to them

Xu Shan from Class 1, Grade 1, hopes that parents can look at the college entrance examination objectively and not be as nervous as charging every day. They understand their situation and know that proper reminders are necessary to succeed in the college entrance examination, but excessive attention may be counterproductive. .

At this critical time of the senior year of high school, appropriate care from the family will make candidates walking on the road to the senior year feel the warmth of the family and the understanding and support of their parents. If the college entrance examination is a battle, That family is their backbone, which will give them confidence and motivation, allowing them to face all the pressures of senior year.

However, when parents pay too much attention, it may manifest as a lot of concern for their children. requirements, interfere too much with them in words and actions, or show ardent expectations in every ordinary move, all behaviors and things have changed significantly before the senior year... In this way, all too special forms are very sensitive to those who are extremely sensitive. For senior high school students, it will increase their invisible pressure. When parents are too attentive, children will automatically attribute their parents' eagerness to their own requirements. They are sensible and always worry about living up to their family's expectations of them and feeling sorry for their family. They give everything. In this way, their pressure will increase, making them overwhelmed and unable to display their personal abilities normally.

The family atmosphere is relaxed and natural, and the students are relaxed and happy. Isn’t that what everyone expects?

Please be our friend

The dullness of the senior year does not mean that students have nothing to say. They are also eager to communicate with others due to the pressure of study and self-discipline. The choice of development direction, the indifference of classmates, the joys and sorrows of teachers...the third year of high school is exactly the time when communication with others is needed. At this time, the role played by the family is very important if students can be there every time they go home. Talk about what happened at school, discuss your future, school and major choices, and relax with your parents in the relaxed atmosphere created by your parents. Parents are your children’s friends at this time. Playing the role of a friend is better than playing the role of an elder or preacher. It’s much more successful and easier.

“Parents who are nagging and nagging and only want you to read and study are not what we like and want. We must know the things we study ourselves. All we need is that they can give us a place to rest and chat with them like friends about what is on our minds. "I believe Huang Li spoke out the sentiments of most senior high school students.

Let us decide our own path

During the college entrance examination process, the most worrying thing for parents is to fill in the application form. After all, schools and majors are related to children's future prospects and their personal development. It is undeniable that parents, because of their rich experience, will consider issues from all aspects and put forward good opinions from different angles. It's more practical. However, parents must not ignore their children's personal interests and personality factors. In the society, children are required to apply for "favourable" occupations regardless of the students' own circumstances. This way, they make decisions for their children or even force them to do so. It is completely wrong and undesirable for students to arrange their own volunteers.

Zhang Yue, who has excellent academic performance, said: I hope that when I fill in my application, my parents can give me full reference, such as which school to choose, but I also hope that they can respect my wishes in the end. Decide. I knew that maybe it was about choosing a path in life, my own path in life, and I wanted to decide for myself.

Parents actually have a lot to do, such as helping them find relevant information such as detailed introductions to majors or schools, and considering whether they can pass the exam based on their actual situation, professional curriculum, professional employment prospects, and school overall employment rate, etc. Remind them of the various reference factors and believe that they can choose their own path.

Help more, interfere less

The interviewed student Xu Shan was once hesitant. Her parents and the elders around her encouraged her to apply for a prestigious university, but she believed that she should not just focus on the school's brand, but also choose a major that suits her. Zhang Xin serves as a class committee member. She is sometimes distressed because her parents always accuse her of wasting time serving her classmates. Studying should be a combination of work and rest. Studying hard may not necessarily bring good results. What’s wrong with doing something for your classmates after studying? The reporter noticed that three of the four students used the word "obscure" when talking about their expectations for their parents. They all hope that when they are depressed, their parents will give them space to think quietly; when they indulge, they will remind them but not complain. Generally speaking, the requirements of senior high school students are not special. More help, less interference, and a relaxed family atmosphere are more important than anything else. "Just let me eat better," was Wang Yang's only request. He smiled slyly, but his face was full of determination and confidence.

Postscript

We often receive letters and calls from parents, hoping that we can help them give them some ideas on what they should do in such a special period as the senior year of high school so that they can "do their best". to the responsibilities a parent should fulfill." We are very touched. When students take the college entrance examination, parents are extremely nervous. They want to do something for their children, but they know that the third year of high school is very important and are afraid of not doing well. They don’t know what to do to meet their children’s requirements. can bring them practical help. Quanquan's parental heart is so complete and vivid in an instant! I really hope that our editorial articles can give them some useful inspiration. At the same time, we sincerely hope that all senior high school students who will take the college entrance examination can understand their parents more from their perspective and be more tolerant to their parents. Communication is mutual, and communication is for the same goal.

Here, we once again send the words of Tang Dan from Tongji University to all senior high school students who impressed us deeply. While constantly asking parents, if we think about it from the perspective of parents, maybe Just understand them: I went through my college entrance examination like this. I was very lucky and I cherished it. If God asked me to choose again, I would still obey my parents' wishes. That is not actually pressure. As long as I grasp it well, It can be completely converted into motivation. Poor parents in the world, who is not willing to help their children at critical moments, no matter how insignificant it is. There is only one college entrance examination, because they are willing, they really want to give this love, willingly, without regrets.

Why should we make things difficult for others? Let’s give them a chance to contribute!

Mom and Dad, I want to say something to you

Article source: Huangcun No. 4 Primary School Author: Zhang Haijuan, Class 5 (1) Number of reads: 394

When I get up early in the morning, I Open the curtains. A silvery world appeared before my eyes. As soon as I saw these white snowflakes, my heart became excited and I just wanted to rush into the embrace of this white snow world as soon as possible. My mother walked me out of the door and told me over and over again to be careful on the road. I just admired the snow scene, and naturally I felt that my mother was a bit nagging, "Go back, it's so annoying!" I started on the road without looking back.

"Mom, hurry up, pull me and run!"

A young mother in the snow pulled her little daughter behind her and ran, smiling. Suddenly, my mother slipped and fell on the snow. I hurriedly ran over to pull her up, but she ignored herself and immediately lifted up her little daughter who was sitting on the ground. The daughter also patted the snow off her mother's head very sensibly and said softly: "Mom, does it hurt?" The mother smiled sincerely, so comfortable.

Looking at the mother and daughter hugging each other in the falling snow, my mind reflected a similar scene from 10 years ago! At that time, I also very obediently patted the snow for my mother and helped her walk. But on the same snowy day 10 years later, I only focused on my own interests and put aside my mother's concerns. Maybe my mother didn't pay attention to my words, but at the age of 12, I should understand my parents' painstaking efforts, because in their eyes, I will always be a child who will never grow up. Maybe the mother just fell hard, but her little daughter's simple words relieved her pain. No matter how cold it is outside, my heart is still warm. This is the most touching relief in the world, and the true love as pure as snow!

The snowflakes were flying. I watched the mother and daughter go away, and then turned around eagerly. I wanted to go home and say to my parents: "Mom, dad, be careful of the slippery roads in the snow!"

Dear Mom and Dad:

Please forgive me for expressing my feelings to you in this way.

I have been a playful child since I was a child, like a tomboy, climbing trees and catching shrimps with the boys... You have never stopped me and given me love that other children cannot match. , I am very grateful to you!

Since I went to school, you have put a lot of effort into my academic performance, and I have seen it all. I am not a studious child, and I also admit that I have been relying on my own cleverness to study, so my academic performance has never been ideal. Now that I am in the third grade of junior high school, I have more and more homework. You have also thought of many ways to get me into a key high school. You have hired tutors for me, bought a lot of tutoring books, and asked my teachers about my situation every week. But you Have you ever thought about how I feel? ! I am like a little bird in a cage, living under your surveillance every day, and every move I make is restricted by you. I am really in pain, but I have never expressed my dissatisfaction because you are doing it for my own good and for me to be successful in the future and live in the enviable eyes of others. But I'm really tired. My classmates called me to ask me to go out for the weekend, but you all turned them down. You just thought that was that damn math tutor! And there is one thing I haven’t said yet. After I came home from the tutoring class last Saturday, I saw that my diary had been touched. A terrible thought came to my mind: You guys peeked at my diary. ! I was really angry at that time, but I saw my father’s rickety figure busy repairing his bicycle. That car was your dowry when you got married. When I was a child, my father often rode it to take me to the park. It was really the most important part of my childhood life. The happiest time ever! It has long reached the age of "retirement", but your father keeps riding it to work just to buy me more tutorial books. When I turned around, I saw you, mother, sewing my school uniform. The dim light made your eyes burst into tears, but there was a high-end eye protection lamp on my desk. The white hair on my temples made me want to shed tears. I retreated, but I finally endured it. I quietly put my diary back in the drawer...

Mom and Dad, let me tell you a story. "In a certain institution in Nanjing Mr. Wang, who is working, has become more and more troubled recently. He found that his daughter, who is in the second year of high school, is becoming more and more distant from him. Except when her daughter comes to him when she asks for money, she usually doesn't talk to him. Not long ago, his daughter. For his birthday, Mr. Wang secretly booked a banquet. On his birthday, his daughter seemed particularly happy and more enthusiastic about him. He invited seven or eight classmates to the birthday dinner. Seeing his daughter's happy face, Mr. Wang was secretly happy. , this opened the window of my daughter's heart. Unexpectedly, not long after the toast, my daughter picked up the wine glass and said politely: "Dad, thank you for your preparation for me today, but I have a small request." , can you give us a little space tonight. "My daughter's expulsion order made Mr. Wang dumbfounded, so he had no choice but to leave hungry and full of melancholy."

The purpose of telling this is to let you understand: don't keep me tied to you. Please also give me some space of my own, "The sky is high enough for birds to fly, and the sea is wide enough for fish to jump." I am already 16 years old, and I know what I should and shouldn't do. I can feel your love for me from every little thing, but please use the right method.

Dad, Mom, I really love you. I will work hard to improve my grades in the future and will not let you worry about me anymore about my studies. I will feel very distressed in that case. .

Mom, I want to tell you

My article was published, and it was published on the front page of the "China Middle School Student" newspaper. The editor called and asked for my home address in order to send me a sample newspaper. I was so happy that I couldn't remember my home address. Maybe, you will think that I am quite worthless, and you will be so happy with this small achievement. This was my first interview. Being a reporter has been my dream since childhood. The moment I got the sample newspaper, I felt that I was closer to my dream.

The joy of seeing the article in the newspaper did not last long. When I happily spread the good news all over the country, I really hoped that my friends could share my happiness with me. But some people say, what kind of retribution is that? I don’t think I’ve heard of it! I won’t say any more, yes, in this society that is eager for quick success, not everyone can understand the difficulty of success, even if it is just a bit of success, even if it is just a children’s newspaper. That little article was the result of my staying up all night. In fact, I understand that the article was published thanks to the guidance and encouragement of the editor. Without the teacher's help, how could I feel today.

To be honest, I don’t care much about other people’s evaluations of me. I am a person who goes my own way. But this time it was different because the person who refused to encourage me was my mother.

My mother did not express any joy at my results. Is she too busy at work? Maybe, but I'm still a little disappointed. Yesterday was my mother’s birthday, and she didn’t respond much to my birthday wishes. Most people of their generation are like this. They are old and young, running around all day for their children and their family. If others hadn't mentioned it, I would have forgotten about my birthday.

My mother is naturally the same, so she didn’t say a few words about herself at the dinner table last night, but celebrated her birthday in another way?/