80% of men always aim at 20% of women. According to economic theory, 20% of people own 80% of resources, and 20% of customers decide 80% of profits. Then 20% women captured 80% men, and 20% men got 80% women's attention.
Excellent women (hereinafter referred to as excellent women), that is, a high-quality resource, is a scarce product, with talent, appearance, connotation, depth, interest, brains, means, good figure and personality. Such a woman is enough to attract 80% of men. That is, on average, four men will pursue her at the same time.
If four men pursue the best girl together, the best girl must have chosen and chosen. The three men in the middle will be rejected, even rejected (this is the most likely). Because, her appetite is wide open, the plate is tilted and people are dragging.
According to women's psychology, men who are rejected by excellent women will not be wanted by other women. Because women's psychology is like this, I don't want anything else. Because women always think they are excellent.
Therefore, what smart men should do is to pursue other women first, or make friends with other women first and play ambiguous. In short, make yourself very feminine and have many friends of the opposite sex. You can even find a woman to make a transition first. This is called playing hard to get, or playing hard to get.
To this end:
1, ignoring her existence.
2, it is definitely not possible when there are many people pursuing it.
3, openly chasing other women, preferably from other places.
4, do not show attitude, ambiguous communication.
Why not pursue a woman who is pursued by many men?
1, this kind of woman is too cunning and means.
2, this kind of woman is difficult to engage in, with a high posture and embarrassment, in a favorable position and condescending.
3. This kind of woman is in a bad state of mind, difficult to choose, in a period of expansion, and blindly confident and arrogant.
This kind of woman is actually not smart enough. Stupid.
The whole process and rhythm of pursuing excellent girls should be:
1, when not pursuing her. At least, let her tell you herself that she has no one to pursue, no boyfriend and no one to like. This is the premise.
2. If communication is poor or rejected. Don't look back at once. Give up looking for someone else. Treat her like a stranger. Be a stranger, not an ordinary friend or sister.
3. If you are not rejected, the other party shows obvious affection, appreciation and admiration, is willing to get married and fall in love, and has no other contacts and strong competitors, you can consider being a lover.
4. If there is no refusal, the other party shows obvious goodwill, shows appreciation and admiration, and is willing to get married and fall in love. But the other party made it clear that there are still suitors, or they are still choosing and wandering, and they can't be lovers. Yes, you are tired, you are at a disadvantage, you are completely under control, and you will suffer in the future. Then be an ordinary friend and a sister. Let her choose and pursue other beautiful women who are not pursued.
The best girl who is not pursued is the real best girl and the smartest best girl. There is a saying that men are excellent because of loneliness, and women are lonely because of Excellence. Not many people chase you, you are excellent. The world, especially men, has judgment. Many people pursue you, which only shows that you are not an emotional expert, like to play with other people's feelings, shallow and vain, and have bad conduct. Whether a woman is excellent or not is determined by her appearance, figure, skin, temperament, connotation, personality, speech, taste, talent, talent, education, income, family, moral quality, love view and world outlook. It is not determined by the number of suitors around her. But women often think differently from men. Add a halo to yourself by the people around you. That's a pseudo-excellent girl, just like a mirror reflecting light, it won't shine. It is precisely the performance of being unconfident and uncompetitive.
So, you must chase a beautiful girl who is not chased. Because really outstanding girls have high vision and good personality. Men you don't like don't come and leave, and men you don't like don't come. Clean and tidy, not too short. Endure loneliness and loneliness. Such a woman is the smartest, safest and most reliable. It is also the most suitable for being a wife and girlfriend. It is also the best.
Love is a game. The least effort and the greatest gain are happiness. A beautiful girl, with many men aiming at her, is hard to win. Don't entangle with your rival in love, you should entangle with your superior daughter. It is she who decides the victory, not they. Be polite.
For excellent girls, we must make them understand.
1, you are nothing, labor can't drag you down. Treat mud like a stranger.
2. Labor and capital can immediately chase other women.
3. Don't talk about love.
Treat excellent girls with ambiguity, and don't confess easily. Confession and disclosure is to give her a chance to refuse. Don't be too nice to her. Pay attention to the rhythm and distance. We must communicate naturally and harmoniously, and don't put pressure on each other. Let's start with ordinary friends and ordinary friends. Don't put on an attitude of winning or losing, and don't start pursuing. How can she refuse you if you don't confess? Ordinary friends, this is very simple for everyone. Women generally don't refuse ordinary friends.
When you are busy pursuing others, when you are fooling around with others, when you ignore your excellent daughter and even ask her for advice, how to pursue other women and how to get rid of other women. Hehe, think about her psychology yourself.
Be good to good girls. At first, when she was not much better, I spoiled her, kept her appetite and swallowed it. Make her feel that you are too kind to her, but the measure you need to grasp is that you can't make her feel that you are pursuing her and that you love her very much. Between love and not love, between friends and lovers. Then, you can pursue others and then pursue her in turn.
Attention, in turn, the pursuit of outstanding women, we must let outstanding women put down their airs and take the initiative to find you. Call you, invite you, ask you out, show your love This is your chance.
If she never takes the initiative, then you can only create opportunities. Meet by chance, meet unexpectedly. Use your head. There's always a way. Find out her activity pattern. It's natural to meet, say hello, chat and get in touch again. Do it naturally and naturally. Don't deliberately.
Women will always meet you and feel destined for you. You are in your mouth, zodiac, blood type, suitable for her, spending money blindly, honeying words, praising people, saying good things, and making her happy. When dating, be generous and show your strength (talent, economy, career, etc. ) just right.
To deal with excellent girls, just consider:
1, how to ask her out?
2. How to contact her often by phone and QQ?
3. How to maintain close relationship and often have separate and open dates?
4. How to make her take the initiative to ask you out, call you, send you text messages and QQ you.
In fact, as long as you do the above 4 o'clock, she will be taken care of by you soon.
In this world, there are always some excellent girls that you can't handle. That is immature, destiny takes a hand, or other complicated reasons. I believe that women are all handled by men. If you can't do it in three months, you must change people. In fact, if you don't make progress for a month, you can gradually become cold and distant and start looking for the next home, the next one.
A person knows when to give in, which is called discretion, giving himself and others face, which is called cleverness. Don't make a fuss, the barber shop stall is hot, and it will be embarrassing to see you later, and friends will be fine.
Don't worry, if you give up, you can go back. One year, two years, three years and four years. . . . . . But most of the time, it's her who turns around.
Because women's psychology is that they think the things they refuse and give up are the best and most beautiful. Women want to know how you suddenly gave up and disappeared. Because women think that a man should be infatuated with a woman all his life, all his life. Your leaving at once shows that you don't love her and don't like her very much. You didn't lose.
All you have to do to get her back is "no news for a spring". Completely disappear, disappear, completely ignore her, and don't take the initiative to find her. Feel free to hook up with other MM, play with other MM, and chase other Y. Women's psychology is that what they have lost is the best, husbands and boyfriends are the good of others, and the past is the best and most precious. And your conditions, your attitude towards her, she will weigh and compare. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. It is a woman's habitual mentality to compare your strengths with others' weaknesses, and to compare the strengths of predecessors with those of future generations. This is how older young women are caused. Because there are too many people in contact, I am very picky. Actually, they caused it themselves. If you can keep your position, if you don't feel better than the sky, if you don't eat in a bowl and watch in a pot, if you don't step on a few boats, if you don't indulge in love, if you don't indulge in sex, if you don't squander your youth, then they should actually be very happy. Every poor person must have something hateful. Anyone who is unmarried after the age of 25 and has no fixed boyfriend is generally his own problem.
If you don't want her back, it's simple. Harass her from time to time, repeatedly say that you love her and that you like her very much. Ask her out, say you miss her, call at prime time, call 10 a day, wait for her at work every day, and follow her after work. Ask her who she's dating and what it has to do with them. For three months, half a year. Ask her repeatedly what she does every day. Congratulations, you made it. In this life, she will never look back. You will never have a chance to fall in love or get married with her in your life.
Don't confess, at least before and after kissing her. This is the time to say yes. When further caressing, say that you like it very much. Love is a sacred word. Don't use it casually. Before and after you slept with her. By the way, do you love me?
What a man says is what he says, and whenever he should say it. When they don't have sex, you say that love is that you are sick. Don't always like it. Love and joy are what she said when she became your girlfriend and wife. Romance and affection are gone. She has an unbridled relationship with you, ordinary friend. When you say you like, you love, happiness is not a disease, you throw yourself on the fire? Show that you are not an emotional and casual man. Although there are many MM and heterosexual friends, they are all pure friendships, which are loved by brothers and sisters and friends. It's hard to show that you like someone. I almost never really liked any one, and I don't know which one I like. Momo Moby, I've only known him for three days, and I like it. I like birds. Frivolity, superficiality, fraternity, playboy It sucks. Give a woman the impression that she is not a man who sleeps with women casually, but only with women she really likes and loves. Never talk about past sexual and emotional experiences. Silence is the best, or a thing of the past, I don't remember the birds, it's all blank. What mud? Biha said that he has several women, and several women love birds. How many women love mud. Speaking of waking up in the mud, many women used to play together, as if they were ignorant and liked themselves. I just hold Hazi's hand and hug Hazi's waist, which makes me feel ugly and disgusting.
The belt should not be a bird from the beginning, but should take advantage. Unless I miss it. If you want to have a long-term relationship, you should behave better, be honest and take your time. Hold hands alone on at least the third date, hug Hazi on the fifth date, kiss Hazi and touch Hazi on the seventh date. After physical contact, you need to take a vacation once or twice. Don't be too experienced. Be shy and experience. Which woman likes * * * and men who have too much sexual experience. It's only a matter of time before you kiss Hazi and touch Hazi, and then it's quite easy to go down. Of course, there is also a drop of Y prefix, that is, first taste the sweet mud, and then suddenly drag it, which requires you to spend a lot of money and pay a lot of drops. She tugged at the mud. She plays with mud, and mud plays with her. Mud can be changed quickly. Find another y-headed bird. Music is swaying, money is swaying. Not friends. Find a friend to play with.
On the date of 1 1, you can get rid of birds. Meet three times a week, exactly one month. A woman who goes out alone with mud three times a week is happy enough to show that she likes you. Don't do it yet. Is it mud?
Of course, men should be bad, and bad should be measured. The bad thing is that the mud drips bad after having sex with her, which will tease her and coax her to drip bad. A little bad. Is it not mud? I fuck this woman every day and sleep with a happy woman. A little bad, Xiaohua. I don't know if I'm having an affair with another child, a small mouth child and a small coquettish child. But let yourself feel that mud is absolutely different from other Y prefixes. The best thing is to hug and feel happy. Kissing wars.
Finally, chasing outstanding girls should have self-knowledge. At least look decent and be a handsome boy. The income should be decent, and it should be counted as petty bourgeoisie and middle class. The connotation of talents should be passable, and you can be regarded as talents and intellectuals. Humor, speech, temperament, IQ and EQ are better than the average person. And must have core competitiveness, that is, the lethality that ordinary people do not have. Like you're super handsome? Like you're super rich? For example, are you tall? Like you're super talented? Like you're super powerful? For example, you are of great use to her? Music is the core competitiveness.
If everything is below average or too mediocre. Forget it, don't chase the best girl. It is difficult to ascend to heaven. Just honestly find a woman who is similar to you. Even if you take pains to get it, you will eventually become a transition, so don't play with you. You become a person like the annotation and narration of clothes. Either the water is squeezed and drunk, and the people who built Barcelona are not men all their lives. Realized the dream of feminist flooding.
Women must find what they can control, at least they should be equal.
It's better to be single than to find a woman completely under her control. Your money, time and energy are spent on her, and she just enjoys it. Are you out of your mind? You've lived for her all your life? She enjoys her life, but you live 20 years less and struggle 30 years more. Are you tired for a woman? This is not love, nor happiness, this is abnormal or morbid. Love is mutual, caring and caring for each other, giving and understanding each other.
Dogs are better than love. Don't love people who don't love you, and don't like people who don't like you. Love, those women who love you. Like those women who like you, this is happiness, this is called love. Know how to choose and know how to give up. Knowing when to go is the best policy. If you don't chase, you will get it. When you leave a woman completely, as long as you have capital and strength, you have core competitiveness. Don't worry, she will be the one crying and begging you in the future. In the future, she will call you, QQ you, contact you and think about how to get rid of you.
If you change a little song ci to describe it, it is "looking for him in the crowd, suddenly looking back, you are in the dim light."
If you change the word today a little, for example, "When she sees through the scenery, she will want to associate with you for a long time."
Of course, you don't need to wait for her, save it for her and endure it for her. Pick up your sister, win your Qian Qian, develop your career and take care of yourself.
Male 30, well maintained, almost 20. Men age slowly. The older a man is, the more attractive he is, and the more mature he is, the more competitive he is.
Don't worry, harass her properly, hold her and drag her to death. After the age of 25, her mentality changed. You don't have to be 25. Women start to panic at the age of 22.
If you don't have a stable boyfriend at the age of 26 or 7, you will be too anxious to sleep every day.
Men are not afraid. After the age of 20, men have a daily limit, and after the age of 20, women have a daily limit.
It goes without saying that who will turn back.
In short, picking up girls means paying attention to patience, as long as you have enough patience.
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