A woman's high family status can often reflect her position in a relationship, which is also the embodiment of her husband's love for this woman. What is the embodiment of a woman's high family status? The following is the relevant content I have compiled. Let's have a look.
A woman's high family status reflects 1 1. A woman with family status never needs a man to pay for it.
If a woman holds the economic power of the family, it is enough to prove that her family status is very high.
This also shows that her husband loves her very much and is willing to hand over all his salary and let the woman manage the family expenses.
A woman's position in her husband's family depends largely on her husband. Only when her husband gives her enough respect and love will she not be treated badly in her husband's family.
So they have no worries about buying things, because the money is in their own hands.
On the contrary, if a woman needs to ask her husband for every penny she spends, it shows that her position in the family is very low.
It is also easy to be bullied in the in-laws' house, because the in-laws will think that their sons are supporting their families, so they will not respect their daughter-in-law.
Women with family status can control the family, and money is a symbol of their status. Therefore, a woman who always pays for things by herself can see that her position in the family is very high.
2. Women with family status will call while eating, instead of calling someone.
When a woman eats at home, she always calls instead of calls, which shows that her family status is very high.
Because only people who can cook will call people after cooking. If a woman is always called home for dinner, it means that she doesn't need to cook.
Traditionally, cooking is a woman's business. There are still many people in today's society who think so.
Therefore, when a woman doesn't need to cook at home, it proves that she is not a housewife. She can earn money by herself and even be financially independent.
By the same token, if women have to do laundry and cook at home every day, they are mostly housewives. Such a woman has a low status in the family, and everyone in the family is used to taking care of the whole family.
If you don't take care of this family for some reason, you will be blamed.
So if you want to see a woman's position in the family, you can look at it from whether she invites people to dinner or is invited to dinner.
3. Women with family status have the right to decide their own lives.
If a woman has a high position in the family, she must be respected. Therefore, every decision about yourself will not be interfered by family members, and you have the right to choose.
If a man loves her very much, he will leave her things at home and decorate the house in the way she likes.
But if a woman has no position in the family, she won't listen to anything, and most things can't be decided by herself, so it should be arranged by her family.
If you want to see a woman's position in the family clearly, it depends on whether she has the right to decide things for herself. If there is an absolute choice, it is enough to prove that this woman has a high status.
The high family status of women embodies 2 4 details, embodies the family status of women and determines the happiness of women all their lives.
When NO and 1 are at home at the same time, children seldom take the initiative to find their mothers.
When two people are at home at the same time, if the child doesn't like to take the initiative to find a mother, then the mother must be "problematic." Either mom is too strong, or mom is particularly impatient, or mom lacks love for this family. ...
Children are the crystallization of love between husband and wife, and also an emotional "spirit". From birth, they have been learning to listen and think: what is the status of mom and dad in the family?
They also need an emotional home and comfort because they have been with their parents for a long time after birth.
Who has been with him for a long time, the child likes to find who; Whoever has a good attitude towards him, the child likes to find someone; Who can meet his spiritual and material needs, the child likes to go to whom. ...
Strong women often like to give orders and be overbearing; Impatient women are often prone to hysteria; Women who lack love for their families are often absent-minded and have no passion for everything.
These women have one thing in common, they will consciously or unconsciously bring their attitudes into family relations, but they have no husband and children at home, and they like to be bossed around all day, hysterical and bossy.
Even if mom is right and has good reasons, after a long time, everyone will be impatient, just to see how strong the other person's endurance is!
Moreover, everyone will have sympathy for the weak. Once you get used to directing your husband, most children will unconsciously stand on the opposite side of their mothers and help their fathers fight for their rights and interests.
A little longer, such a family will split into "two camps." On the surface, you can't get together. If you are still complacent about your family status, then the day of crying is not far away. What's more, many weak men may break out in silence at any time, and their strength is far greater than others.
No, when two people are at home at the same time, women always have endless work.
In many families, the problem of "uneven busy and leisure" between husband and wife is very prominent. In fact, women don't know the status of the hostess. As a result, some men turned their wives into flirtatious "Filipino maids", and some exercised their wives into "all-round services" to ensure food and drink, educate their children and support the elderly.
And the beautiful life that men dream of really starts from the day they get married.
Obviously, two people get off work at the same time every day, and the woman plunges into the kitchen and spends half a day feeding the whole family. In summer, clothes should be soaked several times after meals; In winter, after working in the kitchen for a few days, a few bottles of cosmetics can't be maintained.
The busier a woman is, the less happy she is. This is not an alarmist. Have you thought about it? When thinking about rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, your man may be flirting with other women lying on the sofa; When you set the table and invite him to the table, you will often get comments such as "This dish is salty, that soup is tasteless, and there is no fish I like to eat".
At this time, if women continue to choose to accept all this silently, there will often be more busy work waiting for you.
Expanding from the kitchen, the baby is born, the shit changes diapers, and the wife is on you, I won't; Children go to school, wife, you tutor me, I am busy with work, and my memory is not as good as yours, so don't worry about coming; The child is not feeling well. They don't know where the medicine is. This time is definitely not fake. ...
In a few years, a "little woman" who knew nothing at first was tempered into an omnipotent "strong woman". It doesn't make much difference whether such a woman has a husband or not. When there is a divorce, she may choose "divorce" without hesitation.
When two people are alone, men are impatient with you.
When couples chat together, some men are more masculine and have no scruples about women's feelings.
Did he rudely interrupt you when you said a word? What opinion did you express and was overwhelmingly rejected by him? You share something that you feel happy or hate. Did he show indifference?
If so, you should be vigilant, because you seem to be an appendage in his mind, and you can't have your own ideas, opinions and opinions that he expects. All I need to do is blindly obey. My people are fine. A slight change will cause a chain reaction.
Some women gradually tend to agree with this concept; Others eventually parted ways.
All this, as long as a man is impatient with you, shows that you occupy a small space in his mind and your family status is not much higher.
At this time, you either choose to accept the reality silently, or you are unwilling to seek new happiness. In short, women's "tragic taste" is stronger than that of disadvantaged men in disadvantaged families.
When two people are at home at the same time, everything is done unconsciously.
Avenue to Jane, heaven is self-balanced. Husband and wife should be equal in family relations. Families that complement each other, care for each other, tolerate small things, understand big things, discuss everything, and take responsibility for problems, both husband and wife live a relaxed and happy life.
After work, men and women are busy together in the kitchen. No matter how hot the weather is and how cold the north wind is, we can't feel it, because our attention is on each other.
No matter how young a child is, he usually behaves well. Mom and dad followed him, and he took a shit and peed. You carry water, I'll find diapers. Using this port, we make fun of each other through children. The atmosphere and happiness are indescribable.
The child is sensible enough to go to school. Look at mom and dad, you love me and respect each other. You make him learn badly, and he can't find an imitator. Mom and dad read books every day, and when they get off work, they throw away their mobile phones, and children will feel the pleasure of reading.