Getting married as the best man has always been a custom in Zhuji. Not only do you not need to give a red envelope, but you will also receive a certain gift (cigarettes). But as far as the actual situation you encounter is concerned, you don't need to be the best man to give a red envelope at the woman's wedding reception, and there is no such rule. On the other hand, if you and your family also attend the wedding reception, then you will get a red envelope! In any case, the best way is not to give it at the wedding banquet, but to arrange a time for the man before the two wedding banquets! ! ! If your family also drinks the woman's wine, then increase the number of red envelopes appropriately!