Frankly speaking, I haven't read this book. I searched directly on Baidu. I entered the key words that women can learn to love their books. Then I opened the introduction and read it. Some books always make you want to buy easily. When I saw the introduction, I knew it was it

The following is a quotation with embarrassing words, 250 words. It's a little long, but every word is worth remembering.

To truly love someone is not how much you pay, but whether you love yourself or not. Only those who love themselves are entitled to true love. Love yourself, you will know yourself, and you will know how to treat others. Love yourself, and you will know what you need and what you want to give. Love a person, you don't need to be together every minute, you don't need to know each other's whereabouts, you don't need to miss from time to time, you don't need to just take it.

Loving someone needs space, and love is actually a kind of respect. If you love yourself, his everything is my everything. If you turn your life into the other person's life, you will be born again blindly after death, and you will always be afraid of losing him and leaving him. This is excessive, and it will only make the other party unable to bear the burden and end a relationship.

In fact, what I want to say is maternal love, but these words completely reach my definition of love. The first is self-love. People should love themselves the most. All love or being loved is to meet some inner need. We like a person and feel happy when he is happy. Isn't it just for our own happiness?

Although many times some behaviors hurt our own interests, why do we still enjoy it? Come to think of it carefully, it's not because these behaviors have harmed some of our interests, but to some extent, we have got some spiritual satisfaction.

Why are some people always willing to sacrifice something instead of betraying it? Because some things are more important than life, because guarding these things can get a strong spiritual satisfaction. This satisfaction is greater than all injuries, even death is worth it. On the contrary, if they give up these things to survive, can they still live peacefully? They can't. He will be tortured for the rest of his life. The pain caused by self-abuse is far more serious than physical injury.

They love themselves and know how to make themselves feel the best, so some people will choose a choice that seems not to love themselves, but actually loves them deeply, so many people have died.

Of course, this is just a way of self-love. Some people can still be happy when they turn their backs on something, because in their eyes, nothing is as valuable as continuing to enjoy the world alive, and they love themselves very much. Although these two kinds of people look like windmills and have nothing to do with each other, they are essentially the same. All their actions are to meet their own spiritual and material needs, and they love themselves.

How to love yourself

Love is respect, respect for yourself and respect for others. Many times, people always don't respect themselves, especially their mothers. They always stubbornly do what they think is great and beautiful, and never consider the feelings of others. Some things are always right, and their mother's choice is also right.

But there's a saying about Excellence, and I just don't like it. Many times, only what you like is the best, and it's useless not to like it.

The weather was cold, and the mother told her son who went out to school to wear more clothes, but he didn't want to wear them. The reason may be that he doesn't feel cold, his clothes are ugly or other reasons. Actually, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that he doesn't want to wear it, but the mother knows that the weather is getting colder and colder, and her son will catch a cold by wearing such a little clothes, so she forced him to wear it once, twice, three times and four times, and he couldn't help it.

But he was very upset and unhappy. Maybe he took off his clothes when he went out. Maybe what his mother did in the end was useless. She paid a lot for this, but in the end she didn't get what she wanted, which made her son feel very uncomfortable.

When my son was young, he couldn't resist something, so he couldn't like it anymore. But when he grows up, he wants to be independent more and more. One day, he broke out. He told his mother that you were actually a little stupid, mom. In fact, when I was young, there were many things I didn't like, but I couldn't resist or change them, so I chose to take the next step and bear it silently, because I was smart and I knew what the best choice was. How many times have you said it, but is it useful? Has it changed? No, you haven't changed anything, knowing in your heart that your original intention is for my good, but is it really for my good? Do I like this? I think it's for my own good, okay? Although I can understand you and know that you mean well, I just can't like it.

I hope mom can be selfish. Some things are not just about others, but about her image in others' hearts. People should know how to love and respect themselves. If you don't care about yourself, how can others care about you?

I have a lot to say, but I can't say any more. I hope mothers can be kind to themselves, don't be attached to anyone, don't exist for anyone, and live for themselves.