If it's your first time to visit your neighbor, you'd better choose the weekend during the day, which will give you more time. Before visiting, it is best to make an appointment with the host in advance, so that it will not appear abrupt and will not be regarded as an uninvited guest. Don't visit too early or too late, and try to avoid eating time. Once you have set a time with your neighbors, don't stand up or be late, and don't leave too early. Give the host time to prepare. If you can't visit, you should inform the other party in time.

Pay attention to your appearance before you visit. If this is your first visit, or you don't have much contact with your neighbors, you should tidy up your hair and dress neatly to show your respect for your neighbors. However, don't dress too old-fashioned, which makes people feel stiff. If you know your neighbors well, you can dress casually.

Before visiting, you can prepare some small gifts according to the situation to show your sincerity. If there are children in the neighborhood, you can prepare some snacks such as cupcakes; If there are elderly people in the neighbor's house, you can prepare some nutrients; If you are invited to have dinner at home by your host, you can provide a special dish of your own.

When talking with neighbors, you should be generous and decent, praise each other appropriately and enhance your feelings. For example, you can say "Sister Li, your home is beautifully decorated" and "Your clothes are really beautiful". When the host is in a good mood, the next conversation will be more relaxed and casual. When talking, don't ask the other person's privacy, such as salary and marital status.

If you are eating at a neighbor's house, don't make a loud noise when eating, don't take food from the center of the food, and don't take other people's food at the same table or force others to drink. When dining, you can praise the host's cooking more, such as "your cooking is really delicious, I will definitely ask you for advice another day." After dinner, take the initiative to help the host clear the table.

Conclusion: In addition, the visiting time should not be too long. If it is the first time to see a doctor, the time for seeing a doctor should be about 30 minutes. When talking to your neighbors, you should know that enough is enough. If the other person can't answer, change the subject as soon as possible. If the other person often looks at the time, he should consciously get up, say goodbye and thank his neighbors for their hospitality. Remember to say goodbye before you go out.