When I got married, I told all my friends who came to the wedding reception that I wouldn't accept gifts, just come over. They all thought I was joking at first.
Later, on the wedding day, although we set a table at the scene, it was only used to register signatures, and no one was arranged to receive gifts. Friends, after they took out the red envelope, no one took it, so they turned to give it to me. But I replied directly that the red envelope was really confiscated and it was a great honor for you to come.
Because I think it's my honor that they came to drink my wedding banquet. One of them was a college roommate who took a ten-hour train ride. I was very touched.
These friends gave me such a face. How should I accept their gifts?
At that time, my family had a 16 table, and my friends filled three tables. Although they are a little out of line and always want to propose a toast to me, I have a host to help me out, so I let them enjoy themselves.
Later, other friends got married, and some may not accept my gift because I confiscated their gift money.
Even a friend invited him when I got married, but he didn't come to my wedding. When it was his turn to get married, he received a gift at the scene. However, at the end of the wedding banquet, he gave us a wedding candy at the door, and then put all the gift money in the wedding candy and returned it to us.
Seriously, we really don't pay special attention to gift money here.
Even if you know your friends will receive gifts, you will usually give them 380 or 680, depending on their relationship. Giving less doesn't mean looking down on others. We are all wage earners, and our host family has a good relationship with us, so we don't pay special attention to these. Anyway, you gave me 380 yuan. When you get married, I can't go below this amount at least.
Of course, some friends may think it is too expensive to treat people with wine when they get married. In the end, the two persuaded their parents to save money for the wedding banquet, and they traveled together to get married. Well done! I even saved money.
There is also a very good gay friends. They are husband and wife, and they don't even want to take wedding photos. They just want to have dinner with two quiet families and get a license to get married. However, they failed to convince their parents and finally went to a hotel to entertain them with wine. That time, I gave 880, because this is my best friend.
I remember when I got married, he only gave me 200 yuan. However, he invited me for so many years. Now that he is married, there is no room for me behind his motorcycle. But I also sincerely wish him, who let me love him so much!
So, I really don't understand those people who can worry about the gift money. Maybe I am ignorant, but my friends and I are like this.
Seeing this news, 18 gave it to 13 14, and I don't know how to say it. Anyway, we are all colleagues. If you think the gift is light and affectionate, please accept it. Don't think too much.