Ten-year-old golden decade is the beginning of a child's life. This is like planting a flower tree. Although it is not full of fragrance, it has been unearthed into seedlings, full of bright future. When I was a child, now my child is a childhood in the blink of an eye ... I lived for 38 years, and according to the age of the old times, I stepped into the ranks of middle-aged people after 40 and bid farewell to the most nostalgic years.
From an ignorant teenager to a teenager in the flower season, you can get married and bid farewell to a bachelor and change to the role of a husband. The arrival of children has changed from a husband to a father, performing on the stage of life! No matter whether the stage of life is wonderful or bitter, happy or sad, everything is in your ideal and creation. When I stepped into it, I felt shallow, just like watching flowers in the fog, and the performance had already begun. ...
In our place, it is a big birthday and a happy event for a child to turn 10. We all choose a good day at the age of nine and enter the age of ten. We celebrate jubilantly according to traditional customs and invite all our relatives and friends to hold a wedding banquet. As parents, we should give our children a lively tenth birthday and wish her the first ten years in her life! It means that she grows up happily, with the care of her parents and the warmth of her family.
My wife is a kind, thrifty and gentle housekeeper. Whenever something happens, we are always worried about it. We have discussed it for a long time and set the date during the eleventh five-year plan. My wife and I are both ordinary wage earners with low income. As an ordinary family of three, we can only do what we can. In this era of rich materials and luxurious wedding celebrations, the number of weddings and banquets is increasing and more luxurious. Our conditions can't come up with any grades, such as beauty, fame, scenery and style. And without vanity, I can only do practical things with a little savings. My wife and I have the same idea. We don't lose grace, we don't make any scenery, and we don't perform any magnificent scenes.
As early as a few months ago, my wife and I discussed several times about the preparations for dinner parties and wedding ceremonies. I think it's still early, so there's no need to hurry. It just goes in one ear and out the other. In September, the calendar turned to a new page. She just came home from outside that day and told me that several hotels and restaurants were fully booked at the beginning of 10. I was nervous as soon as I heard it. I immediately went to the hotel to book with her, which really made people feel flustered. We live in a small town with tourist characteristics. Facing the "Eleventh" Golden Week, we chose the National Day holiday as our wedding day. Unexpectedly, hotel orders will be overwhelmed in one month.
A hotel not far from my home is famous in the city, with affordable food and some characteristics. My wife and I told the receptionist about our demand for wedding banquets. She told us that the first three days of 10 were full, and then confirmed the order carefully. We can only book ten tables at noon on the 4th, so we can only book on this day. When the waiter worked out all the recipes for us, my wife and I carefully selected each dish. I'm afraid we can't afford the expensive ones, and the cheap ones are stingy and rude, so I don't know how to choose. The waiter was warm and thoughtful and seemed to see our concerns. Later, she took out some beautiful wedding recipes made of red paper and ink from the counter and recommended them to us. When introducing the hotel to the guests, most of them use the recipes drawn up by the hotel, which are carefully compiled by the hotel for most consumers. Each menu is sixteen courses, and the price is not much different.
My wife and I chose one of the recipes, paid a deposit, calmed down and went home, which solved an urgent matter.
Ordering drinks in the hotel is much more expensive than the outside price. In order to save money, my wife ordered cigarettes, wine, drinks and bran from a well-known wholesaler. There are also some distant relatives who need to prepare accommodation. I went to find a hotel close to home and convenient to eat in the hotel before, but I couldn't find a suitable one. It was also my wife who found someone she used to know and opened a small hotel to greet her. Just when I was worried about this matter, my wife told me that I had found it and took me to see it first. This is my preview. I went to the hotel room to have a look. The computer, TV, mahjong, bath and so on are all complete. The accommodation, environment, hygiene and layout are all good. The price of a room is about 100 yuan a night. I feel quite satisfied. Roughly estimated the number of rooms needed, paid the deposit, and the accommodation was solved.
I work in a foreign-funded enterprise and have no holidays. I work three shifts every other week, eight hours a day, and there are few rest days. I took four days off from work the day before the "Eleventh". My daughter has done a good job in preparing for her tenth wedding. However, there are still many details to be done. China people always pay attention to hospitality and courtesy at weddings. For example, I want to receive guests who go home first. According to our custom here, guests from my wife's house and distant rooms should set off firecrackers to welcome them. "It's a pleasure to have friends coming from afar!" The etiquette of being a landlord. Besides, the most important thing is my daughter's tenth birthday, so I have no mind to do anything else.
10.4, my wife and I, as hosts, made all the preparations. As usual, we all had Chinese food around 12: 00. 10: 00 minutes later, we arrived at the reserved hotel. I stood at the gate of the hotel to greet the guests, carrying a fashionable black men's leather bag, which contained more than 10 thousand yuan in cash for the banquet, and several packs of 20 yuan a box of yellow crane tower cigarettes. Relatives and friends came intermittently. I greeted every guest politely, took them to the table and told the waiter to serve tea. The male guests first came forward to smoke cigarettes as gifts. The wife put melon seeds, peanuts and sugar on paper plates to entertain the guests who came first.
Relatives and friends are polite, polite and send red envelopes, and we all receive gifts without exception. My wife wrote down the deep friendship of every relative and friend with the music score, and gave the red ticket to make us warm. ...
On this day, my daughter put on a new set of clothes and shoes bought by her mother, took her to a beauty shop to do a new hairstyle, and watched her put on new clothes. She is very proud because there is a beautiful and lovely little princess in front of her! I feel that time flies like an arrow, and the sun and the moon fly like a shuttle, as if the years have experienced a new cycle before my eyes. Seeing her healthy and strong growth, I have a smile on my face and feel the responsibility and joy of being a father! I think she should have a happy childhood of her own ...
When the guests who booked ten tables came to table nine, the banquet hall of the hotel was full of joy, happy and peaceful birthday celebrations and happy moments! On this day, my wife changed into a pink dress, and together we held a full glass and went to each table to propose a toast. Cheers!
One of the tables is a group of lovely children, which is very special for my wife and me. Considering it is my daughter's birthday, I am the protagonist of the celebration. I listened to her wishes in advance and tried to take care of her expectations. Just invite her playmates and classmates who go to school by bus and order a table of children's favorite dishes. Besides the main course, I also bought a big birthday cake, including mutton kebabs, sausages, pancakes and fried chicken wings.
When the waiter handed the food to the table, the most lively, joyful and striking thing was the lovely little guest at this table, right in the center of the stage in Yan Hui Hall. Before the food in the waiter's hand fell off the table, he looked forward to the temptation of food, restless body and naughty little hands. He was afraid that he couldn't eat it, so he rushed to grab it. This is a naive, innocent and interesting childhood, which brings laughter to adults!
Reflecting on the arrival of my daughter, the full moon and the one-year-old Yan were all arranged by my parents, so I started running errands and only did what my parents told me. With the increase of age and experience, parents are over 60 years old, and their faces are wrinkled and wrinkled, and their aging faces are so kind. They have lived in the countryside for most of their lives, and in order to reduce the burden of raising their children, they still insist on self-reliance as much as possible.
This time, I deeply realized that I can't wait, rely on and expect my parents as before. I never praised my father in my memory. After the wedding, I smiled and said to me briefly, "This time is worthy of praise!" .
I have been a father since the day my daughter was born. Although I am doing my best, I don't have a thorough understanding of my family and my father's role in life. Now look back on yourself. I am an adult, a family and a father, but I lack the maturity to match. ...
Celebrating my daughter's tenth birthday this time, I personally felt my father's responsibility on the stage of life. I must play, pursue and show my role as a father in my life without hesitation! Maybe I can't do it well. I just want to be safe and secure every day, and be worthy of my daughter, dad!