One of the major tasks of the Zongjia family is the annual sacrificial activities, which must be held at least ten times a year. When holding sacrifices, the women are the most tired. Because it is not easy to prepare meals for dozens or hundreds of people, it is generally not easy to prepare home-brewed wine, pound rice, make cakes and kill pigs and cattle half a month in advance. When one crop was busy, it was followed by two crops. At that time, the Zongfu had no straight waist all the year round.

As a son preference, it is definitely not just to prepare sacrifices. From the first day of marriage, son preference should be based on family etiquette to learn etiquette, wine making, cake making, cooking and so on. In fact, it will take more than ten years to learn the diet handed down by the clan for hundreds of years. Patronizing sons over daughters requires memorizing genealogy, managing property, receiving guests and having children. It is precisely because it is difficult to be a matriarch that young people nowadays are very reluctant to marry a matriarch when choosing a lover. Even if married, there are not a few people who go their separate ways.

However, patriarchal women also enjoy corresponding privileges. No matter how old you are, you will be respected as an elder at home and have the right to participate in the decision-making of patriarchal affairs, which is not easy in a society where men are superior to women. In the clan's view, a clan can have no grandchildren, but it can never have no wife. Because the prosperity of the clan is in the hands of the clan wife, who is the CEO of the clan family. Although young women don't want to marry clansmen, they are now appealing to traditional Korea, and things related to clansmen are becoming more and more popular. Korean clan wives organized the "clan food research society" to develop clan food with a long tradition into mass goods. For example, the most famous one is the famous "Zongjiafu Kimchi" in South Korea, with the signboard of "Zongjia" on it, much like the "time-honored brand" in China, which makes people feel at ease as soon as they see this brand. Necessary foods such as tea, nectar and fruit have also been developed into popular foods. Not only that, some wives of the clan in the new era have transformed antique clan houses into museums, and some have transformed them into classical and elegant hotels, catering according to the traditional clan recipes for hundreds of years, so that modern people's bodies will have an original "clan sense".

Not only are there more and more traces of "clan family" in material life, but "clan family" is also mentioned more and more in the spiritual world. For example, many popular Korean dramas in Korea are based on the modern life of clan families, such as Fly, Hello! Big miss, etc. The ratings are very high. According to the analysis of Korean audience, people now pay attention to clansmen because it is a Korean tradition. In modern society, we should pay more attention to the return of tradition.