Most Chinese New Year blind dates are around the Spring Festival.
Dating around the Spring Festival is a custom for young men and women in rural areas, and it is also a good opportunity. Usually everyone works outside, the mountains are in the East China Sea and the mountains are in the west, so it is rare to have a chance to be together. Taking advantage of the good opportunity to go home for the Spring Festival, young men and women have become blind dates. This has become the habit of single young men and women in the village, and young men and women will not give up this good opportunity easily. Everyone is willing to do this, which has become a custom and habit.
Spring Festival is also affectionate, some out of initiative, some out of passivity. No matter what the reason, it is particularly important to get high-quality love and get rid of orders with high quality. This article puts forward some ways to chat with blind date during the Spring Festival.
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. Blind date chat topic
Wrong way: audit; Always talking about work; Words are too full, if you feel good, give the other party some hints and leave a gap for the next date; Discrimination against each other's hometown, religious belief, occupation, etc. Or make critical remarks, etc.
The correct way: Talking about the topic that the other person is most concerned about can usually open the topic. But this principle is limited to topics that have nothing to do with interest, such as occupation, what you like to do at ordinary times, and extending chat.
You should also know how to avoid heavy topics. Don't ask questions about chat topics just to improve your understanding, and don't be curious about lovelorn, breakup, unemployment and other issues. Even if you are really curious, please wait until you know them better.
2. Interactive chat on blind date
In life, people with opposite personalities can also become lovers, girlfriends, or bosom friends, but they are unfamiliar when they meet for the first time, so we should abide by the principle of absolute fairness from scratch. I suggest that you give each other as much time as possible in your conversation, so that they can feel considerate and equal.
Third, talk about each other's advantages.
Chat on a blind date, don't just show off your strength. This will make the other person feel depressed. You can ask him more about his hobbies and specialties, which will arouse your desire for new topics and communication.