1. Time to go back to the parents' home: The third day after marriage is an important day to go back to the parents' home, and the groom will accompany the bride back to the woman's home on this day. There are also some places that go back to their hometown on the sixth or ninth day after marriage. Different regions and different families have different customs.
2. Door-to-door clothes: The bride and groom should wear new and formal clothes when they return to the door to show their respect and attention to their new home. Usually, the groom will wear a suit or formal Hanfu, and the bride will wear Hanfu such as cheongsam or Tang suit.
3. Reward: When returning to the bride's family, the groom should prepare some gifts for the woman's family and friends to express his gratitude and blessings. Usually, we will prepare some local products such as food, tea and fruit, and we can also prepare some precious gifts such as gold and silver jewelry.
4. Return banquet: On the return day, the woman's family usually holds a banquet for the newlyweds and invites relatives, friends and neighbors to celebrate this important moment. At the banquet, the bride and groom will toast the guests and thank them for their blessings and attendance.
5. Precautions for returning to the door: In the process of returning to the door, the bride and groom should pay attention to some details and rules. For example, you can't walk around at will, sit by the bed, eat in front of your elders, and so on. At the same time, the bride and groom should also respect the woman's customs and culture and try to avoid offending her family or local customs.
In a word, Huimen is an important traditional custom, which represents the newlyweds entering a new family and stage, and it is also a way for the woman's family to express their welcome and blessing to the newlyweds.