I think it's because I'm comfortable in my own home. Some people will say: this is not a question of will, but basically a question of personality. People who don't understand each other will feel wronged because of more than one thing. Others will say: because their home is the most comfortable. For example, when I spend the New Year at my mother's house, I feel that my mother's cooking is disgusting, and my mother will urge me to leave. However, we all know that this is just verbal talk, and we will not take it to heart. That's my mother. You changed your role. If your mother-in-law eats bad food, she will let you go. How do you feel? A mother-in-law is always a mother-in-law.

In fact, men don't want to go to their mother-in-law's house, especially during the Spring Festival. We have been married for nearly ten years. Because our son is in poor health, we basically don't go back to our hometown during the New Year. Only in the year of marriage did we live in his hometown. But this year, an uncle of mine who ran away from home for 25 years went home, so we went back to our hometown. On New Year's Eve, my mother-in-law sent a video about New Year's Eve. Many people here like this meal. On the other hand, her mother-in-law said that she had eaten jiaozi a long time ago, and her mother-in-law had also eaten jiaozi on New Year's Eve.

My husband said a few words to my mother-in-law, and I quickly answered the phone and extended my New Year greetings to my mother-in-law. Then I quickly explained to my mother-in-law how to go back to Shandong in the New Year, and discussed with her mother-in-law how to go back for a long time. My mother was nearby. She was puzzled and said, "Why are we discussing this issue so early this year?" I didn't explain it to her at that time, but I knew psychologically that it would be difficult for my son to be a mother-in-law when he went home for the New Year. A reasonable thing like my mother-in-law can't be expressed, but I can also see that she is a little lonely. I explained to her that it would be a little comforting for us to go back to our mother-in-law's house during the Spring Festival. My husband has a brother in his hometown. If you are an only child, I really don't know how your parents-in-law celebrate the New Year.

It is the same for a woman to go to her husband's house for the New Year. That year, I spent the New Year at my husband's house. After eating jiaozi, a person called his family in the yard and watched other people's fireworks bloom. I almost cried. People's hearts are all meat. During the Spring Festival, everyone wants to go back to the place where they grew up and eat everything from snacks to big meals around their parents, instead of staying in a strange place, accompanying a group of strange relatives and listening to strange dialects. Therefore, for the wife/husband who is willing to accompany you back to your hometown, complain less and understand more! So they are willing to go back to your hometown, not because they don't want to go back to their own home, but because they made a compromise in love. The above is just a personal opinion.