There are many sayings about the first-year bride's attention. Different places have different customs and habits, so they are different. In some places, it is a custom that newlyweds in the first year can't put decorations at home that conflict with each other's lives. In some places, it is a habit for newlyweds in the first year not to visit their relatives and friends, because it will have bad influence and bad luck.
For a newly married woman who has just become a daughter-in-law, some local customs will pay attention to the new wife. For example, in the first year, the new wife will go to the man's house for New Year's Eve and New Year's Day, and then take her husband to her family for the New Year. There are also some new wives who go to the man's house to cook a big meal for the family during the Spring Festival, all of which are formed because of the ideological influence of the man outside and the woman inside.
But in fact, these stresses are based on personal wishes and preferences. If you don't like doing this, you can not follow these pressures. Couples can communicate and discuss how to celebrate the New Year.