Taboos for chatting with girls for the first time:

A feeling of excessive demand;

Share negative energy;

Show low values;

Too flattering to lick the dog.

Quick icebreaking: After greeting, break the ice quickly. For girls who have just met, they are in a relatively unfamiliar stage, and the most important thing is to break the deadlock. If two people are stiff, embarrassed and have no topic, they can't communicate normally.

The best way to break the ice quickly is to pretend to be familiar, and when the two sides are no longer strangers, the topic will open.

For example:

Play mobile phone at work and don't care about the boss.

Stay up so late, waiting for me to say good night.

It doesn't matter if the exam is not ideal. The school is divided into 985,211. Internet cafes are all chained, so it's not fun to play anywhere!

Give more, take less:

Many men meet girls they like, and they can't wait to kneel on the ground for a few minutes to please women. Feelings should be mutual.

Trying to pester and beat, flatter and kneel is ineffective. If you want girls to have a good impression on you, you need to provide and show value.

What are you doing, sleeping, good morning and good night? There is nothing to say, trying to get a reply from a woman. Show girls interesting things, novel life and good mood to provide value.

For example:

Just coming out of the gym, I was dragged to a barbecue by my friends, another day to show my life.

We were childhood friends and grew up together. Although, you play in your home, I play in my home, providing emotional value.

Keep the balance of interaction:

For girls who have just met, the most deadly way of chatting exposes too much sense of demand. Let women think that you are hungry, loveless, and unloved. This is a sub-item.

For example:

The other person's reaction is cold, but you are complacent. The other party replies to you one sentence per hour, and you reply to ten sentences per minute; The other person only answers one or two words at a time, but you are as long as writing a paper.

Actively looking for topics:

The choice of topics should be related to you and girls as much as possible. For example, weather, news and pets are all third-party topics. The third topic can neither arouse girls' emotions, nor show any attraction, so talk less.

Talking about your topic can convey more attraction. Show your talent and high value, and you can change girls' good feelings for you. Talking about girls can help us learn more about girls and expand our future topics and sense of connection.

Avoid unilateral problems:

The chat mode of auditing accounts will make the chat very embarrassing. Because you didn't provide anything, girls are not interested in your chat and have been providing it, which makes girls more disgusted with you.

Chat can use question-and-answer feedback to avoid local problems:

M: How old are you?

Female: 97.

Man: Hong Kong has been waiting for you for too long.

Woman: Ha ha!

M: 1995 You can call your little brother.