Society is really biased against housewives. Apart from envy, quite a few people think that being a housewife is useless and has no independent spirit.
In fact, in my opinion, many women who are housewives have hidden skills, and if they are allowed to be professional women, they can do well. I choose to be a housewife because I love my family, like a quiet life, like being alone, and I am willing to develop my hobbies and do what I like.
For example, Pang Xing, the star blogger of Sina Food Blog, used to be the chief reporter and director of a newspaper in Beijing. After the marriage, she resigned to take care of the children at home. She is active on the Internet as Mrs. Anzu Xiao and mother Kela, showing the perfect and exquisite happiness of housewives, and is quite influential among urban women. There are also many books about recipes and housekeeping.
For example, Mrs. Stowe, a housewife, has as many as seven children and is busy with housework every day. She still took time to write the novel Uncle Tom's Cabin, which was praised as "the little woman who caused a war (American Civil War)".
And Yamaguchi Momoe, who gave up her career and chose to be a housewife at the peak of her career. This is not because she has no working ability and independent spirit, but because she thinks family is more important to her.
There is nothing wrong with people entering love and marriage, but they don't have enough knowledge and ability to control their lives. Many people work alone, and they may not live well. In a word, housewives without jobs, housewives with jobs, single women with jobs and single women without jobs may not live well or badly, all of which depend on personal life knowledge and ability.
Lack of life knowledge and ability is a problem facing the whole China society, otherwise our country would not be so poor. Your friend doesn't have a chance to gain enough knowledge and ability in life, so he is sad or unhappy, which is the case of many women. The fault lies not in your friends themselves, but in the whole society. Poor expression, some words can't be said.
Many women want a divorce, but they don't go out for economic reasons, which is completely different from developed countries. Compared with people in China, people in welfare countries don't have to worry about their lives and children. In addition, other people's laws also protect women's rights and interests in various ways, such as tax refund.