In this case, the communication, the teacher had better use specific language to express, and secondly, it is necessary to use specific events to reflect the performance of children. This makes it easier for parents to understand their children's situation and feel the teacher's concern for their children.
"Very good, very smart" usually makes parents feel that the teacher is dealing with themselves and the children are ignored. When reflecting some shortcomings of children in the park, teachers should pay more attention to wording and avoid using some extreme words to hurt parents' self-esteem. Therefore, teachers should use more practical evaluation methods and developmental evaluation.
2, mainly reflecting children's problems.
Teachers should not use the tone of "complaining", pay attention to safeguarding parents' self-esteem, do not reflect children's shortcomings in front of other parents and children, and follow the principle of "one praise, two suggestions and three hopes".
For example, "this child likes to participate in various activities in kindergarten, which is commendable." It would be better if he could learn more ways to cooperate with others. " I believe if we help him well, he will become more cooperative and better. "
3, mainly to arrange work.
Teachers should explain the tasks clearly, the language should be concise and the tasks should be specific, because: first, parents don't know much about kindergarten work, and second, teachers have limited time to meet their parents. At the same time, we should try our best to make parents understand the purpose of the work and make them clear in their hearts so as to cooperate better.
Common problems in kindergarten parents' work
1. How many meals and what do children usually eat in the garden?
A: The details of each kindergarten are different, but meals are usually served at two o'clock. Besides lunch, there is a snack in the morning and afternoon. Please pay attention to this week's recipes posted in the garden.
2. Children are picky eaters at home. Is it the same in the garden?
A: After children enter the park, they are required to have meals and not eat snacks. And influenced by other children and teachers, they will gradually stop being picky about food.
3. Will kindergartens punish children?
A: Kindergarten teachers are all trained before their posts. Corporal punishment and disguised corporal punishment are absolutely not allowed. But as a teacher, sometimes disciplining children is a bit serious, and the tone will be focused. Parents are also requested to understand each other.
4. How do you know your child's study in kindergarten?
A: Let the children talk about their study and life in kindergarten. If the child's answer is vague, you can ask the teacher of this class about the child's situation in kindergarten when the child comes to pick him up. If parents are busy at work, they can also know the situation by phone.
5. Will children be bullied by other children?
A: First of all, we should realize that pushing and fighting between children is the performance of communication between children. Although the teacher can't take care of you all the time, I believe your children can handle it by themselves. What you have to do is to control your mentality and give your children some help and reminders at the right time.
6. How do parents cooperate with kindergartens?
A: The cultivation of habits and abilities should be a coherent process. Therefore, if parents can let their children adhere to the good habits formed in kindergarten at home, it will have a multiplier effect on their education.