Do you feel happy or burdensome when your 8-year-old parents live with you? Being able to live with parents should be a happy thing! Even if parents are over 8 years old, they can't even get out of bed, need someone to take care of them, be with their parents and be filial. It is a very happy thing!

filial piety comes first, and filial piety comes first in the world, and filial piety is devoted to parents. Filial piety is not only about food and clothing, but also about filial piety in the heart. Everyone can be filial to their parents and respect their parents. Parents are filial to their children, and filial piety is a good boy. People can be filial to their parents, and the next generation will still be filial. Filial piety comes first in life, and filial piety is the origin of a hundred lines since ancient times. Children should be filial, and unfilial people commit heinous crimes. Parents are kind to ocean deep, so don't forget to repay your relatives in life. Only filial piety is big in the world, and filial piety is one end. Good meals should be used by parents first, and good clothes should be worn by parents first.

Hugh said that he has worked hard, and his parents are as kind as the sea. Don't forget their parents' kindness in life. Be filial to your children, and those who are unfilial commit crimes against the sky. The kindness of parenting is not rewarded, and it is in vain to hope that your child will become a dragon.

Filial piety is

"rubbish" that the elderly are always reluctant to throw away.

Tolerate the nagging of the elderly.

Tolerate the saliva and snot of the elderly.

Filial piety is a reward.

It is a bouquet of carnations on Mother's Day.

It is a bottle of good wine on my father's birthday.

It is a soup to give medicine before a long bed.

Filial piety is patience

. Patiently explain to the elderly that doing work

Patiently convince the elderly that filial piety is a kind deception

Clothes costing more than 1 yuan might as well tell the elderly that it only costs tens of yuan

Filial piety often goes home to see

Go home and cook a delicious meal for parents.

Therefore, it is the greatest blessing in life to live with parents in their eighties, to support the elderly, to take care of their daily lives and to be filial!

Our parents have worked hard to nurture us, bring us up and cultivate us as adults. When they are old and need someone to take care of them, we must take good care of them, serve them a comfortable life and let them enjoy a happy old age!

I have a relative. He and his daughter-in-law are both in poor health and disabled. His mother, in order to help them live, always lives with them again. He and his wife are also very concerned about and love his mother. In this way, the old lady lived until she was 98 years old, and she didn't suffer much. She died of natural aging!

My relative and his daughter-in-law both lived to 88 years old and died! Because they are filial to the old lady, their children are all in their eyes, and their sons and daughters-in-law also follow suit and honor the elderly, so they all live to a great age before they die!

We should honor our parents who gave birth to us and raised us, and we must take good care of and serve them, so that they can spend every day happily! Being able to take care of the elderly is the happiest thing!

To be honest,

I've thought about this problem before. If the 8-year-old parents are still free to move around and don't need to be waited on to eat and drink Lazar, it will definitely be easier for children to live together and take care of them. After all, children of that age have their own jobs.

But if my 8-year-old parents are disabled and need to be waited on for more than ten years, I think I will definitely feel tired and disgusted at that time, but I will be tired. After all, when people reach middle age, there are more and more trivial things in the family, and I am exhausted physically and mentally.

However, some time ago, I saw a sentence, "My parents are here, there is still a place to go in life, and when my parents go, there is only a way home in life." At that time, my tears came out in a flash.

I am filled with emotion, yes! As long as your parents are here, even if you are 6 years old, your life still has a place to come. When your parents are gone, there is only one way to return to your life.

My mother's pregnancy experience in October brought me into this world, especially like me, who was born with a planed belly.

At that time, when I was born, my mother was tormented for nearly a day. At last, there was nothing I could do. I was too big to be born, so I went to the hospital to dig me out.

They raised me from a few tens of centimeters long with a handful of excrement and urine, and spent their whole lives on me. How can I dislike them when they are old? That would be a waste of being a son and unworthy of being a man.

Besides, when you are middle-aged, as long as you have parents, you can still complain about your unhappiness and unhappiness in life with your old parents. In front of them, you will always be a child, you can play the coquetry, and you can forget the hardships of life for a while. You are still the baby who is hurt and loved. Not the parents of the children, the pillars of the family!

For me, it is a "burden" of happiness; It is disrespectful to use "burdensome" to parents, and it must be changed.

I have a say in this matter.

My father is eighty-two, and we three sisters, as daughters, are willing to let our parents follow us. Parents also broke their hearts for our children. I'm the boss. I worked in the provincial capital after graduating from college. The children of the second and third children were raised by their mothers. And I am the boss, and there are no boys at home. I told my husband that we need to support our parents in the future when we got married. I am the only one of the three sisters who went to college. Although the economic situation of the two sisters is not worse than ours now, from the bottom of my heart, I have always put the two old people's pension on me.

Six years ago, considering that the youngest child of two sisters also went to kindergarten, my son also went to live in a junior high school. I took my parents to live with us. At that time, I lived on the third floor of a commercial house in the city center, but my parents were not used to living there. They only went there once or twice a year, not more than half a month at most. They have a bunch of reasons, saying that the place is not as spacious as the countryside, the home appliances can't be used, and there are too many cars to go out. Another reason is that I remember my parents complaining that my legs hurt and there is no elevator, so I negotiated with my husband to buy the elevator room where I live now, and moved in the year before last. When the heating was turned on in winter, I took them over for the winter. I lived here for a month, which is also the longest time I spent together after graduation. It is also the time I spent together. I have a deeper understanding of my parents' old age is indeed a "burden". 1, need time to accompany, need energy to take care of.

When people get older, they become smaller. When they get older, they are like children. Many things can't be done as they were when they were young. Sometimes small things like taking a bath and going to the bathroom can't be done independently. When my parents came to their new home for the first time, I completely taught them how to get on and off the elevator and get in and out of the community, and I personally took them several times. As a result, they got lost in the basement on the first day of our work, or the security guard in the basement found it and brought it out. The basement was big and there was no signal. The two of them couldn't make a phone call and couldn't find an exit, so they sat on the ground hand in hand and cried. I only had to drive back from work for nearly an hour to comfort them. However, they were in good health and not confused. Later, they learned all these things and lived here for a while. But it really takes a lot of energy, not just time. One day, two people at home can't even search for Internet TV, so they have to get off the TV in advance and book it for them to watch directly. Put a sign in their pockets to prevent them from getting lost, and they are always worried about it. They have to take a bath with someone. They can't take care of each other. Once they didn't get it done, their father fell and cried for many days. Fortunately, there was no fracture.

besides, the physical condition is still good now, and it will get worse and worse in the future. It's not just simple to eat and dress, nor can it be solved by giving some money. It's really like taking care of us when we were young, even more laborious. 2. Economic problems derived from health problems and nursing and accompanying problems.

when people get older, they will have a whole set of problems, such as common diseases such as cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases and diabetes, which few old people do not have. My father had a cerebral infarction four years ago. Fortunately, my mother was around. When I found something wrong with my father, I immediately called a car and sent it to the hospital. Fortunately, I was treated in time. Now there are only minor sequelae, and almost all of them have been taken care of by my mother in recent years. When I was in hospital, it was impossible to take care of myself. I stayed in ICU for ten days, and then I was transferred to the general ward for ten days. Our sisters took turns in shifts, two a day, and my son-in-law had to fill in for me. When my father was discharged from the hospital, each of us lost weight. Thanks to the rural areas and the new rural cooperative medical system, we have reported a lot, but we still have to bear 6, to 7, yuan, and this is light. If it is serious, it will be a great "trouble" in the later stage. Like my father, my sister and mother can't turn around, and we have to get help from nurses and son-in-law at home to go to the bathroom. Of course, some people will say that it costs a lot of money to hire a nurse, but psychologically, asking a nurse is not as careful as taking care of her family, and the old people will feel uncomfortable. They have raised us so much, and now they are sick, so they can't take care of them themselves. In fact, more often than not, it is better to ask a care worker to take time off to take care of himself, because it is really expensive. 3, daily habits are different, and at the same time, because of age, there will be many problems in daily diet care.

Living habits are an important part of many people's complaints about getting along with the elderly, such as being unwilling to mess things up and eating leftovers indiscriminately, such as not paying attention to hygiene, etc., but these are still minor problems. When we are old, we don't eat the same hot pot as we do, so we need to make it for them alone or make it soft according to their taste, but it will taste bad and the contradiction will come.

Actually, what I said above is only the elderly who are relatively healthy. If they are sick, they need a lot of effort. I remember one time the year before last, my father came to live by himself. Because he had asthma, I would get up three or four times in the middle of the night and stand at his door to listen. When I couldn't hear him turn over and cough, I was so scared that I would gently walk over and touch my father. This kind of fear is also a psychological burden.

But what I said above is only one-sided, because I am a daughter and I live with my parents. My father-in-law died early, and my mother-in-law was less than seventy. She insisted on living by herself, but she didn't live together. From the heart, it would be more difficult to get along and take care of her if she was in-laws. I have a friend's father-in-law who was ill for a long time, because her husband was an only child and her mother-in-law died early. Therefore, my father-in-law lived together for more than ten years ago. Every noon, my friend's husband went back to cook for his father. My friend and father-in-law were incompatible. I had a big fight every three days and a small fight every day. The contradiction was trivial. Because of this, the divorce of friends and husbands is now on the agenda. The public says that it is fair, the old woman says that it is reasonable, and the things at home are unclear for three days and three nights. Of course, there is another possibility to send it to a nursing home, but only if the wishes of the old people and all kinds of comprehensive considerations are taken into account. My opinion is that if you have the ability to take care of it, you should do your best.

So, are you saying that 8-year-old parents are responsible? Yes, is it happiness? My parents can still be with you and me when they are 8 years old. This must be a gift from heaven and a blessing from previous lives. But at the same time, we will encounter many problems together. For us adults, we have to face these problems when we reach middle age, and we must be mentally prepared and try our best to take care of them. Think about how easy it is for our parents to take care of us from tens of centimeters to this size. It is a natural thing that they raise us and we raise them old. Even if it is a burden, it is something we should do. We can't say that it is a burden. How many troubles we have caused since childhood and how much "trouble" we have given our parents, our parents never abandon us. Who are we to say that he is a burden? Write at the end:

Our long shoulders are used to take responsibility, just as birds have wings to fly.

We are all old, people are doing it, and the sky is watching. If we can't do it well, we should learn to do it well, because this is a gift from life and a test.

No matter they are 789, as long as they are still around us, no matter how difficult it is, we should try our best, because this is not only a virtue, but also the minimum dignity for us to be human. Crows feed back, and we are born human?

I'm actually encouraging myself by saying so much, and I hope I won't hit myself in the face when I see these words in the future. It's early to be filial.