Know your attitude towards spending money.

No girl doesn't love beauty, just as no boy doesn't play games.

I understand your preference and know that playing the glory of the king will always buy some skin for your favorite hero; But I hope you can understand me and don't think that buying some luxury goods is material worship.

As a boyfriend, you should respect your girlfriend's desire and pursuit of beauty, not scold her and teach her to be frugal.

Girls fall in love with you, not to look for you to suffer indignities and wronged themselves.

Of course, I don't mean how much you will spend, but at least you must support her as much as you can.

People who share the same view all know their lover's attitude towards spending money, and all know that girls like to have a sense of ceremony in love.

2

Know how to respect

Some people always like to put on a high horse and point fingers at things they don't agree with.

Just like I like stinky tofu and you like high-end western food, it's not a disagreement.

But you insist that I eat stinky tofu as junk food and that I eat "shit", but you have become the embodiment of elegance. This is the inconsistency of the three views.

When encountering differences, you should know how to respect each other.

Just as I like to eat stinky tofu, you understand and accept my preference and are willing to eat with me.

People with the same views know how to respect your choices and hobbies and will not impose their ideas on you.

three

split the difference

Many quarrels and suspicions are caused by two people's different views.

She is an elegant person. Even when she goes downstairs to take out the garbage, she has to clean up and dress up.

He is handsome and makes a lot of money. Outsiders think they are a match made in heaven, but when the child 12 years old, they divorced.

She said: he is very nice, but he can't be together. After all, life is too long.

It turns out that she likes growing flowers, but he always plays with ash and throws cigarette butts in flower pots. She loves cleanliness, but he doesn't like taking a bath or throwing clothes around.

He can make money, but he seldom accompanies her.

Later, she met her stepfather, who would buy beautiful flowerpots for her flowers and plants, take the initiative to wash clothes and tidy up the house, accompany her for a walk to watch the sunrise and study recipes together.

Although they are very small things, they become very tired in front of people with different views and very comfortable in the eyes of people with the same views.

So, from the beginning, we should find someone with the same three views.

"We both want to live forever, so why take it so seriously?"

four

Understanding tolerance

No girl likes "work" by nature. They just love you so much that sometimes they don't love themselves.

So they just do it to get your attention and care.

Think again, if you are sad, you can ask your brother to drink with you, you can stay at home all night, you can go to bars and discos. .....

But she's sad? Apart from the comfort you can give him, she is only accompanied by loneliness. ......

People with the same three views know tolerance, and they know:

There is never a match made in heaven in this world, and good feelings are all slowly run-in.

five

To sb's taste

Like-minded people really add points emotionally. For a simple example, all boys like girls who play basketball because they have the same hobby.

You like to walk around, see the world, see the scenery and human feelings around you, but he thinks it's spending money to buy punishment and it doesn't make any sense. He just wants to lie at home every day. You like the vastness of the sea, but he said someone drowned in it.

Sometimes, it is not because the interests of both sides are different, but because everyone is used to keeping some hobbies when they are single, and they always hope that the other side is the one who actively seeks breakthroughs or actively pulls us to change together.

We often hear that "feelings can be cultivated". Although I don't fully agree that feelings can be cultivated for the opposite sex, I think common interests can definitely be cultivated.

As long as we really cherish each other, we can try to accept each other's original hobbies first, and then, on the basis of acceptance, we will not set too many restrictions on ourselves and each other's lifestyle. With this mentality, we will find, discover and cultivate the common interests of two people, and then practice them more deliberately.

This is the so-called "lovers talk more than half a sentence."

The rest of my life is long, so I must find a suitable person together.

six

No need to disguise

"I really want to pretend to be angry in front of you, but I can't be angry after seeing you."

With people who share the same views, you don't have to pretend to be yourself, and there will be no pressure.

You don't need to keep thinking, send these words to him, what will he think, think for a long time, delete the typed words, and always be careful.

Because their love for you is pure, that is, they simply like you, without any additional conditions.

And you just need to be the most authentic and natural self.

Be angry when you should be angry, there is no need to endure tears; Happy is happy. I will laugh with you.

If you miss me, you can say it out loud.

seven

Take a few seconds to understand your thoughts.

I have always liked this sentence: if one person is the beginning, then two people are not the end.

If a relationship is a story, will two hearts last? Did anyone ask you to go down to the dust willingly? Is there anyone who will accompany you wholeheartedly from birth to death?

In fact, no one knows how much ta "knows you" if he can really "focus on accompanying you through your life".

No one knows how much thought and time it took ta to turn himself into another you, such a "persistent" person.

How many people said in tears when they broke up: "I found that ta didn't understand me at all, and it's hard to imagine what it would be like to spend the rest of my life with someone who didn't understand my patience."

You think that after meeting some people, as long as you wait, there will always be someone who understands you.

Some people you think you missed are people who have no fate with you and will never understand you.

But you've been in many relationships and broken up many times, but you've never met anyone who knows you.

Sometimes we don't even know what "people who know me" are like.

In this world, it is not difficult to meet love, but it is difficult to meet someone who really understands you.

eight

The three views on the future are inconsistent.

The three views are consistent.

In fact, whether you are in love now or get married later, you should find a person with the same three views.

In this way, you will have common goals and ideals, be willing to work together for this, and support and comfort each other when there are difficulties.

You don't plan your future life, he only thinks about how to eat, drink and be merry; You want to be with him all your life, he just takes part in accidental amusement.

I believe that only by falling in love with a person who has the same three views can you go far and feel that the future can be expected.

nine

If you want to have a sweet love, you must find someone who agrees with your three views.

So that your love will be tacit.

He knows how to care about your efforts, rather than turning a blind eye to your goodness; He will understand your little emotions and won't feel "finished"; He respects you very much and won't impose his ideas on you.

And you don't need to change yourself to fulfill him, just like you are a careless and lovely girl, you don't need to dress up as a mature and cold royal sister in front of him.

Because what he likes is your careless and lovely personality.

When we were young, the first criterion for choosing a spouse was generally appearance, but when we grow up, we find that handsome people really can't be eaten.

Of course, it may be difficult to find a person with the same three views, and it is even more difficult to change his three views. After all, this is a deep-rooted thing.

But people who really love each other must be willing to keep running in and changing for each other.

But our time is precious, don't waste it on the wrong person, and don't wronged yourself to pester a person with different views.