I don't think I need to give this to crucian carp. When engaged, the man gives the bride price to the woman, and the woman invites local relatives and friends to hold a wedding banquet to discuss the time and place of the wedding. You can change your name after your engagement, or you can call your uncle and aunt without changing your name. There are no strict requirements now. The woman doesn't have to go to the man's house. Ask the local elderly for specific matters, but it is best not to ask his or her parents.