I think cooking is necessary for women, because they still have to support their families in the future. It should be common for girls to cook. After all, it is a bright spot for a girl to cook. As the saying goes, to grasp a man's heart, we must first grasp his stomach. So whether you like it or not, girls must learn to cook, because this is your important bargaining chip. You can tie up people you like and cook for them. If you don't like it, you will.
In fact, I personally don't like cooking, because when I was a child, I often watched my mother, grandmother and aunt walk around the kitchen every day. I don't think this kind of life is suitable for me. I don't want to stay in the kitchen all my life like them. I hope I can have my own job and mature career like a professional woman on TV. My aunt cooks for me after work every day. I just need to eat by myself. There's another person. I think it is a very happy thing to like a person to cook for him. I'd love to cook for him, but it can't be my whole life. I can cook for him, but I also want to have my own business. I want to be a person who can rely on myself, instead of asking my man for living expenses every day and living a meaningless life.
Take my mother for example. She is a very traditional woman. Her two marriages have not changed her usefulness. She will always be a cook at home, that is, a role of cooking and doing housework. Although she has paid the most for this family, in my opinion, this life is not happy at all. She only knows how to do housework, cook and so on every day, and do things that she feels particularly satisfied with. But I don't want this, because cooking is acceptable, but she can't be everything to me in the future and can't change my life. I will definitely not like myself like this in the future. I think a new generation of women should have their own lives. Instead of being born to cook every day.
Actually, I don't like cooking for another reason. I am particularly lazy. I just want to live a life that I can eat when I get home, instead of cooking for them when I get tired every day. They don't feel your efforts at all. They only eat when I come home. If you don't want to do this, they will take it for granted.
Actually, I can cook. This is a common practice, but it is not as delicious as I thought. But my own cooking is enough to support myself. I don't have to wait on others. I can also innovate on my own. I can do whatever I want, without worrying about what others think of me or my poor cooking. This is what I learned to cook to support myself. When I was a child, my grandmother taught me to cook, but I said I wouldn't learn. My grandmother said that even if you don't give it to others, you should cook it yourself when you are hungry. So I barely learned some basic dishes, at least I can't starve myself.
I think whether I like cooking or not, it may be something I will do in the future, because cooking is a necessity for girls. I have no choice but to accept my fate. Of course, if I have money in the future, I will definitely ask my chef to cook for me every day. I can cook a lot of delicious food, and I don't have to cook it myself So for the sake of my happy life in the future, I'd better work hard to make money.
I believe there are many girls who don't want to spend their lives simply in the kitchen, but want to change their lives with their own efforts. Only when you are strong enough can you have the best life.