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Let children do what they like? Stimulate the enthusiasm of self-effort
During the summer vacation, many parents signed up for many interest classes because they had to go to work and had no time to take care of their children. What kind of interest class should I choose? The answer is simple: let the children choose for themselves and let them do what they like best.

First, do you want to go to a Chinese cram school?

On Monday, Chun Er will attend a Chinese cram school, which is a course offered by training institutions during the summer vacation, and it is also the first time that Chun Er has gone out to attend a Chinese cram school. Chun Er's father and I don't really want Chun Er to have a Chinese class. I am a Chinese teacher, so there is no need to go out. But this is Chun Er's own business, and he must decide for himself.

We discussed with Chun Er to let him attend a class and decide whether to continue the cram school.

After class, I Wen Chun said, "What do you think of the teacher? Do you want to continue? " Chun Er said firmly, "I want to go! Teacher Chi's class is very interesting. I like Li Bai's story very much. I have to recite it when I go home. It's hard to go. If I recite it, the teacher will reward 30 reward cards. "

Last night, Chun's father and Chun Er recited "Difficult to Be Together" together, and they finished it quickly.

It's hard to go (1)

(Tang) Li Bai

The cost of pure wine is a gold cup, 10 thousand copper coins and a hip flask, and I am ashamed of 10 thousand yuan.

I threw the food bar and cup aside. I couldn't eat or drink. I pulled out my dagger. I peeped in four directions in vain.

I want to cross the Yellow River, but ice will block the ferry and Taihang Mountain will be covered with snow.

I will sit on a fishing rod and lean lazily by the stream, but I suddenly dream of sailing a boat towards the sun.

Travel is hard. Travel is hard. Don't go astray! Where to go today.

One day, I will ride the wind and waves, raise the Yun Fan and cross the sea.

He recited it to me four or five times on my way to class today. Chun Er told me to learn quickly, because I can't recite it. During the break, let Miss Chi recite it by herself. Mr. Chi gave a reward card and was very happy. After class in the morning, I go home to do my homework and have lunch. After dinner, Chun Er began to recite "Into the Wine". The teacher has already said something in class, so it is not difficult to recite it.

Invite for a drink

(Tang) Li Bai

Have you ever noticed how the water of the Yellow River flows out of heaven and into the ocean, never to return?

Have you noticed that the lovely hair in the bright mirror in the high room, although it is silky black in the morning, has turned into snow at night.

Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he wants to go, and never point his golden cup at the moon empty! .

Since God has given talents, let them be used! As for the money, although it is scattered, it will get together again.

Cook a sheep, kill a cow, sharpen your appetite, and let me, 300 bowls, take a big drink! .

Master Cen, Dan Qiusheng can drink and drink endlessly.

Let me sing you a song! Please listen to me.

What are bells and drums, delicacies and treasures? I hope I will never wake up.

Ancient sober people and sages were forgotten, and only great drinkers can be immortalized.

Chen bought a barrel of wine with 10 thousand gold coins at a banquet in the temple, and everyone laughed and said one-liners

Why do you say, my master, your money is gone? , to buy wine, we drink together! .

Five flower horses, Hsi Chin, give them to the boy in exchange for good wine. Whatever you want, sell eternal sorrow.

It is estimated that Chun Er will recite it soon tonight. Most of the second-grade children in our school have recited 90 articles of "Rion Duiyun", and then they will recite other contents quickly. )

In the last month, Chun Er and I have been getting along day and night, and I feel more and more that Chun Er has grown up and has his own ideas about many things. As long as it's about Chunchun's son, Chunchun's father and I must listen to the children's opinions, not just talk about respecting them.

Second, Ma Chun's reading comprehension

Recently, I watched Zhuangzi in the morning and kazuo inamori's Living Method, Dry Method and Heart Method in the afternoon. Kazuo inamori wrote in the Living Law:

Only natural people can persist in making as much effort as anyone else and achieve their own career. The so-called spontaneous combustion type is the person who burns his passion. In the world, substances can be divided into three categories according to their combustion characteristics:

By igniting combustible substances that can burn;

Non-combustible substances that cannot be ignited;

Spontaneous combustion substances that can burn by themselves.

People are the same.

Suddenly thought of a sentence in the Tao Te Ching:

The staff sergeant heard the word and did it diligently.

Sergeant heard that if you survive, if you die,

Corporal will laugh when he hears this word, but it is not enough to laugh.

Kazuo inamori's spontaneous combustion talent and Lao Tzu's "staff sergeant" have the same characteristics:

As long as you do what you like, your love and enthusiasm will naturally flow out, and your efforts will be fine and you will make rapid progress. Others think you are hard, but you don't feel hard at all, but you enjoy it.

By the way, Chun Er and I never overslept after holidays. We get up at seven o'clock, either reciting it together, or he reads English and I teach myself. We all like it.

Third, chat with Chun Er.

On the way to class, I often chat with Chun Er. Today, after class, I asked, "Chun Er, I recently saw a saying that seemingly effortless things are actually my efforts. Can you understand this sentence? "

Chun Er said, "Of course. Let me give you an example. For example, a man is making an umbrella. You see, it's easy for him to install an umbrella. In fact, he has practiced many times at home. "

I said, "Yes, the reason why you go to Chinese cram school is because you have memorized a lot and read a lot of books before, so you won't be too tired in class." But if you don't accumulate enough English, it will be more difficult to attend class, so mom asks you to insist on reading English in the morning. "

Chun Er said, "If I keep studying for two months, will I be the master of English in my class next semester?"

I replied, "It depends on your efforts. After the holiday, many children also study hard at home. Only by paying more than others can we gain more than others. "

Chun Er said, "Well, it's not difficult to read English every day anyway. I have paid attention to friends who exceed 100% several times! "

I said, "No pains, no gains. Learning is like building a tall building. Basic knowledge is like laying the foundation. If the foundation is solid, the building can be built stably and high. "

Chun Er said, "Mom, I know. I want to learn Lego next semester, can I? "

"Of course, no problem. Be sure to actively participate in hands-on activities! " I answered with a smile. In fact, I am secretly happy. Because I'm still thinking: How can I tell Chun Er to go to Lego class? I didn't expect it to be put forward by himself. God bless me.

Fourth, sharpen the heart of "six diligence"

Kazuo inamori has always advocated that people should hone their hearts and purify their souls. From his own experience, he summed up six improvements:

1. Pay as much as anyone else's efforts.

Modesty prevents arrogance.

Reflect every day

4. Be grateful when you are alive

5. Accumulate good deeds and think altruistically

6. Don't be emotionally troubled.

I like this "six diligence" very much and share it with you.

Parents must work hard if they want their children to learn to give;

If you want your child to win, parents must first lose face;

If children want to learn to be grateful, parents have to thank everything around them;

If you want your children to be kind and friendly, parents should always be kind and do more good deeds;

If you want your child not to have troubles, parents can't bother themselves;

If you want your child to be a spontaneous combustion person, parents must first become a spontaneous combustion person;

In order to make children become giants in action, parents must also use actions to influence their children;

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In short: What kind of person do parents want their children to be?

Many parents complain that their children are particularly difficult to manage, mostly because they don't set a good example for their children.

Dear parents, let your children do what they like. We just need to cheer for them. It doesn't matter if the child makes a mistake. They will grow in every experience.