The custom there is that the man invites the woman according to her wishes. Engagement is mainly to invite elders to the man's house, and the woman's relatives don't need to ask anyone for money. However, the elders invited by the man need to pack money. There are two kinds of money, 1 called money. The general countryside is the bottom 200 yuan. 100 belongs to the man's family, and 100 calls for money, indicating that relatives of the man's family have come. You have to call people one by one. So this 100 is for the woman. Be kind when you get married. Peer, junior and elder should be invited. Come and play. You can decide how much you like. You are not alone. You follow the trend.