Now that men and women are equal in society, men's rights and women can basically enjoy them. In the past, women often played the role of caring for their husbands and teaching their children. For the powerful women now, they can live a good life without relying on men.

excellent women often have high eyes, but no matter how excellent they are, most of them still want to find a companion to accompany them for the rest of their lives. Who doesn't want to have a bosom friend who can * * * spend the difficulties of life with themselves and * * * enjoy the ups and downs of life?

leftover women also have a heart to get married. This 7-year-old woman wrote such a marriage inspiration: I have prepared the house, car and tickets for you, and now I only need a good man.

"I am the vice president of a listed company. I am 45 years old this year. I am still single and have never been married. No matter in life or at work, I am a strong woman, so many men stay away from me. In addition, I am outstanding in appearance and financial ability, which also causes me to be picky about the other half.

I was picky when I was young, but I never met the right one. After such a delay, I was forty-five years old. At one time, I even had the idea that I wouldn't get married until I found the perfect man in my mind. Now that I think about it, this idea is still too naive.

I'm relaxing my mate selection criteria now. As long as a man can meet the following three points, I can consider spending the rest of my life with him. I have a car, a house and savings at present, and everything is stable. Looking forward to finding an imperfect man and starting a relatively perfect marriage with me.

1. I hope this man is hardworking, motivated and responsible.

Although I have a car and a house, it doesn't mean that my other half has no financial ability at all. You may have a low salary at present, you may not have much savings, or you may even be unemployed at present. But I hope that the other half of you will work hard and be responsible.

What's the difference between a man who doesn't work hard and a salted fish? Although I am strong, I don't want a family cook at home. We are all independent individuals, even husband and wife should have their own independent thoughts and independent economic ability.

we are close, but we should also have a proper distance. Your hard work and progress can bring me a sense of security. Your sense of responsibility is the best performance of your man's charm.

2. I hope this man loves his work, loves me and is full of positive energy.

Most people of our age have experienced a lot and seen a lot. Many men have become sophisticated and sleek, and they are full of pessimism about life. They feel that life is not the same thing, and nothing can lift their spirits.

such a man, please don't contact me. I hope to find a man who is full of positive energy, loves life, loves work and loves me.

When I am sad, you can tell jokes to make me laugh. When I am happy, you can laugh with me and give me a big warm hug; When I am frustrated, you can comfort and enlighten me and take me out of my sad mood; When I am angry, you can calm my mood.

3. I hope this man smokes less, or doesn't smoke, and is healthy.

Finally, I hope my other half doesn't smoke or drink. It's not that you don't smoke or drink at all, but try not to get involved in these hobbies except socializing. Smoking is not only harmful to your health, but also makes me smoke secondhand smoke.

We are all eager for a long-lasting love. I don't want the one I love, because he has bad hobbies, such as smoking and drinking, and has hollowed out his body, which is decades ahead of me. How can I live in the future?

So I hope that the other half will smoke less, drink less, and be free from pornography and gambling. I prefer fitness, and you'd better like fitness, too, so that we can strengthen our bodies together and really grow old together.

That's all I ask. You can have all kinds of imperfections. You can be unattractive, have poor earning ability and have such shortcomings, because there are no perfect people in the world, but I expect imperfect me and imperfect you to form a perfect family. "

Conclusion:

After p>7, it is middle age, which can be said to be the middle stage of life and the peak period of most people. At this time, the standard of mate selection for men and women is definitely different from that for young people. Just like this post-7 s lady, she pays more attention to men's attitude towards life, but not to men's appearance and economic ability.

strive for progress, which is the attitude towards life and work. With this attitude, people will not feel depressed; Loving work and being full of positive energy is also an attitude, which will not make people feel that men are too mature, but will lose their charm. Calm with vigor, this is manly.

Being in this earthly world for several decades, I have understood the rules of society and seen the dirty side of society, but I can still be immune from bad habits. This is the wisdom of men.