1. It's best to propose marriage six months in advance. The groom should take the initiative to propose marriage and ask the woman's parents if they agree to propose marriage at home.

2. The time of proposing marriage, the first month and July of the lunar calendar are not suitable for proposing marriage, but there is no need to look at the date. Most elders like even-numbered days in the lunar calendar, such as the eighth day of the first lunar month.

3. On the day of proposal. The groom and the elders in the family must arrive at the woman's home before noon 12. It is impolite to go after noon, which means "married half a wife", which is not a good sign.

4. If it is proposed that the number of relatives is even. Six people is best. In addition to the groom and the groom's parents, they can also be accompanied by family elders such as uncles. However, it should be noted that elders such as aunts and sisters-in-law should not go with you.

5. Offer gifts. There are four kinds of gifts: cigarettes, wine, sugar and tea. You can also prepare sweets, round cakes and safe apple gift boxes. The number of gifts must be even.

6. Put forward the content. Mainly to determine the wedding date, wedding customs, bride price details, the number of women present, wedding ceremony details.

7. Pay attention to mentioning relatives. When a man comes to propose marriage, don't call the woman's parents and parents as soon as he comes up. This will scare each other, and it is also a rude behavior. Before deciding to get married, proposing marriage at home, with proper manners and customs, not only reflects the man's good family style, but also reflects the man's family's attention to the woman's family, which must be paid attention to. ).