the first paragraph

In winter, in front of a hot pot restaurant, a man walked around in the cold wind. Although I am wearing a coat, I am still shivering with cold. But he still kept a brisk pace, shaking his coat from time to time and shaking out all the hot things accumulated in his arms.

The clerk was curious and asked him what was going on, why he beat around the bush in such a cold day, and whether he was working out.

The man rubbed his face a little red with cold. I'm embarrassed to say that it's actually because his wife can't eat spicy hot pot. She is allergic to it, and even smells it, she will have a rash all over her body. But he is a spicy person, so he occasionally goes out with a few buddies to secretly have a toothache. The reason why I have been walking at the door is to get rid of my body odor for fear that my wife will smell it.

The clerk is puzzled: "As a person who loves spicy food, isn't it very painful to find someone who is so repulsive to spicy food for life?"

"Yes, what can I do! Don't say she is allergic to spicy food, even if she is allergic to salt, water and air, it's nothing! As long as you are not allergic to me. "

The man smiled coldly.

"I like it, I can bear anything."

The second paragraph

When I went to Macau by boat from Hong Kong, I saw a girl vomiting in the cabin, tossing her bag all the way, and her face was heartbroken. I went to help her change her bag, and she said "thank you" weakly.

Seeing her pale face, I couldn't bear to leave, so I patted her on the back, trying to find something to talk about and distract her.

The girl said that she was from Hong Kong and went to Macau to see her boyfriend. I said why didn't he come to see you? She lamented that her parents were seriously ill and needed to stay in bed for a long time. I asked again, why don't you just go to Macau and live with him? The girl said that there are things at home at present, and she can't completely let go for the time being.

I frowned. "Have you always been so seasick?"

She said, "Yes, every time I throw up and take medicine, it doesn't get better."

I said, do you often go to Macau? She said that I went to see him every week, rain or shine. I vomited once when I went there and vomited again when I came back.

I was surprised and asked, "How long have you been in love?"

The girl thought for a moment: "Well, we fell in love at the age of 18. I am 28 years old, and we have been in love for 10 years."

I can hardly believe my ears. Vomiting twice a week, 8 times a month, 96 times a year. 10, she tossed herself for nearly a thousand times.

I think either the girl exaggerates or she is really crazy.

The girl smiled at my skeptical expression and said, "I didn't lie to you." But fortunately, our family affairs have been dealt with almost, and we can get married next month. These days are finally over. "

I still couldn't believe it. I asked her, "What kept you going for so long?"

The girl is still smiling.

"Every time I want to die, I think, as long as I endure for a while, I can see him. Hang in there, the boat will arrive. Bear with it, it will be 10 years in a blink of an eye. "

The third paragraph

An old couple, the wife has a serious cleanliness addiction, but the husband is just the opposite. He doesn't care much about personal hygiene and doesn't like doing housework. The couple often quarrel about this matter. My wife called my husband dirty, smelly, disgusting and lazy like a pig. After all the bad words, my husband still loved me. (qq Space Classic Friendship Log www.taiks.com)

Everyone didn't expect that a couple whose lives were so out of step quarreled and never divorced. Decades later, on the second day of their silver wedding anniversary, the old lady was suddenly taken to the hospital. She was diagnosed with Parkinson's syndrome.

The children advised their old father to leave her in a nursing home. They know very well that his father has been taken care of by his mother all his life, and he can't even do the minimum cleaning. How does he serve the patients? Who knows that my father is very persistent, taking the old lady out of the hospital and taking her home.

Many years later, people who came to their home again were deeply surprised. The small two-person residence was cleaned up, and the old lady was not thin at all, and her face was ruddy and healthy. Although sitting in a wheelchair with dull eyes and drooling, the old man patiently cleaned her up again and again. The old couple's clothes are neat and smell like the old lady's favorite lemon soap. There are even several pots of flowers and plants in the room. full of green is full of vitality.

We thought the old man had found a nanny or a cleaner, but later we talked to him and found that he had not found anyone. He learned to take care of patients, clean rooms, cook, wash clothes, fold clothes, ask neighbors and children if they are all right, and even learned to look up recipes and raise flowers online. Over the years, he wiped his wife's excrement and urine, bathed and brushed her teeth, took care of her in every possible way, and took care of herself, completely changing her living habits.

Relatives and friends admired him, but the old man solemnly corrected him: "My wife deserves admiration. I thought she used to be so untidy that she could stand me for so many years and thought she really loved me. So I should give it back to her. "

He broke his fingers and counted for everyone.

"She endured my life, I also want to endure her life. We are together for life. This is perfection. "

Fourth paragraph

The Bible says: Love is patient and kind. However, there are not so many lambs who can really do these three things, love, endurance and patience.

There has never been easy patience in this world. All permanence means long, boring and bondage.

At first, love is a sweet anesthetic, which makes people become enthusiastic, hard-working and try their best, and can greatly improve their tolerance for pain.

However, with the passage of time, the pain will be felt more keenly when the drug strength fades. More importantly, at that time, you will find that patience has become a habit, and all kinds of tastes of life are quietly tasted in bitterness, just like tea. Can't leave, can't give up.

This makes people unable to extricate themselves and willingly.

When you are pursued, you hear nothing but vows such as "I miss you", "I wait for you" and "I want you". How many people dare to swear: I will endure you for a lifetime.

I am willing to put up with your laziness and clumsiness, while you are willing to put up with my noisy and picky.

More importantly, because I feel sorry for each other's patience, I am willing to try my best to correct my shortcomings for each other, thus becoming a more beautiful and tacit opponent. This is the poetic ending. This is not perfect, but it is the ultimate romantic meaning.