These days, after breaking up, I slowly walked out, just like a worker who was repairing a brick wall, brick by brick, day and night. Only when they are clear about their vacancies can they become brand-new and become more and more tenacious.
I learned how to cook well after breaking up. When we are with our ex-boyfriends, neither of us can cook, and our income is not high, so we can't order two takeaways in luxury. Therefore, what kind of take-away rice has been delivered for a long time has become the beginning of our quarrel.
After separation, I rented a house with a restaurant and kitchen, and I gradually learned to cook three meals a day by myself. In the process of searching for recipes, I cleaned up the food again and again, sliced it and fried it in the pot. I was surprised to find that the sadness caused by separation seemed to be eased a little.
Seeing the photos of three meals a day recorded by my mobile phone, I feel that nothing is more critical than enjoying life.
So, if you want to tell me the way to get rid of sadness after breaking up, I will definitely respond with cooking. As your stomach is covered with your own ingredients, your mood will really get better slowly.
Because of his affair, everyone separated. There are many ways to forget each other after breaking up, such as deleting contact numbers, deleting photos and refusing to mention all the words related to his name.
But it is puzzling that the more things you don't want to mention, the clearer it will be in your mind.
Then one day, I wrote down all the shortcomings of my ex-boyfriend and other things that eventually betrayed me on a blank sheet of paper: "I am grumpy", "I don't value me", "My eyes are too small", "I can't remember my birthday" and "I don't love me at all."
When I finished writing and saw the defects in front of me, my heart seemed to suddenly breathe a sigh of relief. They seem to say to me, "Look, he really doesn't deserve your concern."
Miraculously, I really seldom think of him after that. I can only remember the defects in that photo and the moment when she didn't love me. In this way, I became a girl who loves to laugh again.
During the period when I first separated, my spirit was very unstable. Often shed tears for some reason, afraid to go out, for fear of crossing the street with him.
After that, my good friend gave me a little golden retriever for fear of my state of mind, and because of it, our lives flashed again.
No matter how late I come home from work, the puppy will wait for me at the gate. Then he will wag his tail happily and take him out for a walk. He always slows down and waits for me after running two steps.
When I was depressed, it lay beside me silently and accompanied me. In this way, the little golden hair became a big golden hair bit by bit, and I slowly got rid of this sadness.
Pets are really warm creatures. Even though they can't speak, they have quietly healed many sad moments.
In the daily life of the world, we are unlikely to avoid being hurt. If not, why not recognize these sad things and find ways to deal with them? After all, making yourself happy is the key practical significance of life, isn't it?
This Lantern Festival, Cadillac specially planned the "You are the special light in my heart" solve riddles on the lanterns fan exchange meeting, a mobile phone game, and had a good time.
In fact, the object is very similar to guessing lamp fans. Everyone will encounter many choices. How can a man pull my WeChat back? I will also make mistakes in my choice, but I hope we are all lucky enough to find the unique, appropriate and most extraordinary answer.