When my mother-in-law learned that I was pregnant (the second child), she was so excited that she took my father-in-law's hand on the spot and kept saying: My daughter-in-law is pregnant (although everyone knows, she is very happy and keeps repeating). After that, she told me to pay attention to rest, tell her what I want to eat, don't wronged myself, and so on, for a long time. I couldn't sleep that night. She took my father-in-law to make up lessons for me and said how she should take care of me and my children during my confinement. Of course, my mother-in-law is by no means a talkative person. Throughout pregnancy, she basically cooks. In the third trimester, she and her father-in-law also undertook the task of sending the boss to and from school (although I have repeatedly stressed that my health is completely fine and I am on my way). In the third trimester, the mother-in-law began to prepare the baby's clothes and bedding. Wash it one month before her death and put it away for later use. I waited outside the hospital operating room for more than three months. After I left the operating room, I looked pale and she cried. Many people think that she is my biological mother. I have taken care of me since I gave birth to a child (the child has just passed a hundred days), and I have eaten all kinds of soup in the month. We lived separately, and I cleaned the house, so she criticized my husband and said that housework should be shared by both of us. Her kindness to me is beyond my description in a word or two.
Having said that, you must think that she is so kind to me because of my son. Actually, I gave birth to two daughters. What I want to say is that my mother-in-law doesn't value boys. She is really kind. I burned too much incense in my last life.
My mother-in-law cooks my favorite food. Tell her what she wants to eat and she will buy it. At dinner, she asked me to eat more. I couldn't eat any more, so I said, stop eating and don't force yourself. When I'm not at work, I sleep late. My mother-in-law cooked the meal and took it upstairs for me to eat, telling me to sleep after eating. .
Let her pay attention to her health, eat whatever she likes, be considerate of her daughter-in-law's hard work during pregnancy, and let her son endure it. You also came from being a daughter-in-law. You have to understand that being good to your daughter-in-law means hurting your son, and being good to yourself when you are old.
As a daughter-in-law, you don't need her mother-in-law's greetings. As an adult, I have the ability to take care of myself. I have my own parents to spoil me. My pregnant husband needs to take care of me because this is our child. I feel that I don't need my mother-in-law to do anything, and I am a perfect mother-in-law who doesn't spend money or effort and doesn't interfere in my life. So will I when I become a mother-in-law. Whether or not to have children is a matter for the young couple themselves.
I am a wife. Tell me how my mother-in-law did it: June 5438+this year 10. Only for a month. After the company holiday, we returned to our small home. Years later, because of the epidemic, it was inconvenient to travel. My mother-in-law comes to the door of the community from time to time to deliver food such as rice, elbow sauce, jiaozi and a box of apples. Anyway, it took me so long to forget to cook anything delicious. When I arrive at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law will go out to buy breakfast in the morning, or cook porridge and soy milk, and then go to buy food for the whole day. Before buying food, she always asks me what I want to eat, because I am also infertile and don't choose anything to eat, so I always say "whatever", 10 to prepare lunch, 1 1: 30 to start cooking, and 5: 00 to start cooking at night. With vegetarian dishes, I usually buy fruit cakes, which are basically uninterrupted. My mother-in-law will buy me pajamas, and if she can go out for a walk, she will accompany me to pick out children's products, so that I can lie down when I have nothing to do, instead of sitting in front of the computer all the time (because I have to sit in front of the computer often because of telecommuting). I bought a caterpillar pillow and slept really comfortably (now it is the baby's fence). I don't need to do any housework, and sometimes I don't even want to wash the dishes. I'm afraid the water will slip by me, and there are too many small details. I feel so happy and satisfied. Now that the baby is born, my mother-in-law also looks after it for me, and her attitude is still good. Didn't ignore me because of the children. By the way, I'm in the hospital. My mother-in-law sleeps with me at night, delivers meals to me during the day, brushes my hair and brushes my body. I think mother-in-law can do this very little, let alone.
It's simple. If you are nice to your daughter-in-law, try to cook her favorite dishes. If you don't know, you can ask. If you are far away, you can take care of your health once in a while. You can go if you want. If you don't want to go, you can stay on the other side. When you have a baby, she will miss you next month. I don't want you to go. You are so happy.
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Not pregnant yet. Married for three years. Because my mother-in-law's daughter, my husband's sister and my aunt began to quarrel after two or three months of marriage, and the relationship between husband and wife began to be discord. Divorced for more than a year. Later, we got back together without any evidence, but the relationship was still not very good. I want to have children this year, but I don't want to see my mother-in-law and aunt during pregnancy. Confucius also wants to go to Confucius Center.
You are blessed to meet this good mother-in-law, and you are probably a good wife. May your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be happy forever, and your family and talents are thriving!
1 Walk with her more. Walk at least10,000 steps every day.
2 diet, regular diet, refuse junk food. Eat more fresh fruits.
3 require observation of sleep. Better have a good sleep.
Don't sit in front of the computer for a long time. Don't sit and watch your mobile phone for a long time.
5 follow the doctor's advice.
Ask in advance which hospital near home is good for delivery.
A good standard is that the baby will not overflow milk after birth.
At that time, the obstetrics department of the First Affiliated Hospital of Harbin Medical University was the best. At that time, the amniotic fluid in the newborn's mouth and nasal cavity was routinely sucked to let the children breathe.
6 Prepare clothes for the newborn, preferably cotton. Boil water in advance. Bottles and spoons should be made of stainless steel and glass, not plastic! You can scald it with boiling water.