In the past, if someone was a stay-at-home mother, many people would find it so easy for a stay-at-home mother to do housework and take care of her children! But now when it comes to stay-at-home mothers, many people will say that you have worked hard enough at home, and you can see recognition from the original childhood. Of course, there are some old ideas, especially some highly educated women who choose to be full-time mothers. They thought that after studying for so many years, they finally became housewives. The emergence of more and more stay-at-home mothers, I think this is social progress. It is believed that with the further development of economy and the improvement of social welfare security for stay-at-home mothers, more women will return to their families.
For many families with stay-at-home mothers, there may be three reasons:
1. Children need to take care of their families without the help of the elderly.
2. I hope to give my children the best companionship. Many mothers think that the first three years of their children are the crucial period for the formation of their personality and habits. They choose to be full-time mothers because they love their children and attach importance to raising them, and because they can afford it at home.
3. The second child is fully open. Some families who want to raise a second child will plan ahead, and having a full-time job is also the best solution to raise a second child.
However, stay-at-home mothers also have their own troubles: although raising children is sometimes sweet and people's recognition of stay-at-home mothers has increased compared with previous years, endless trivial matters and their useless economic income have brought great pressure to stay-at-home mothers. Being totally dependent on her husband financially makes stay-at-home mothers feel very insecure. The popularity of TV series "My First Half Life" has also aroused the anxiety of stay-at-home mothers. In a report on the "anxiety index" of Chinese mothers, the anxiety index of stay-at-home mothers is the first. Children's upbringing, school entrance and the safety of milk powder will all cause mothers' anxiety, and the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also aggravate anxiety. The anxiety of stay-at-home mothers is a common phenomenon, which requires not only self-adjustment, but also the care of relatives and friends, especially the understanding of the other half.
Although a stay-at-home mother serves her family, it is also an indirect contribution to society to let her children grow up healthily and let her husband work without worry. The more developed the economy, the more comprehensive the welfare protection for stay-at-home mothers. In China, however, there is no such protection for the time being, so that stay-at-home mothers have to take care of their families on the one hand, and try their best to make money on the other, which leads to the overload of life. Therefore, I especially hope that our country's economy can grow rapidly, learn from developed countries in this respect, and give full-time mothers a basic welfare guarantee.
One of the most important tasks of mankind is to raise the next generation. "How to raise children" is a question that is often discussed. Raising children is actually a kind of relationship: first, the relationship between mother and child, then the family relationship between child and parents, and mother is superior to father or others in the process of raising children, especially in infancy. Because women are born with the talent and tendency to be good mothers, every mother can instinctively become a good mother, and the process of children's natural growth under the care of a good mother will be more favorable and happier!