1, it is better to get married than to leave, and it will be more attractive to keep a proper distance. Love is the fusion of two people's emotions, not their personalities. Everyone is an independent individual with his own thoughts, personality and habits. It is these differences that make you unique and attract people who love you. Everyone has their own circle of friends. If they are bored with each other every day, even loving couples will feel indifferent. Keep a proper distance, leave some personal space for both sides, and keep love fresh. The short parting makes people worry. There is a feeling that "if you don't see me for a day, you will be separated from Sanqiu". The more I can't see each other, the more I feel I need each other, and the more I want to see each other all the time. Instead, I always ignore what I see every day. So keeping a proper distance can make your charm value rise a lot. 2. Having a common pursuit, and being united in the common pursuit, love gradually faded from its colorful coat, revealing the true colors endowed by life, and the two people who once loved each other gradually merged into daily life and grew into more independent and responsible individuals. If two people have the same pursuit, they can work together in Qi Xin to share weal and woe. Love that can share joys and sorrows is sweet, and love that can share joys and sorrows can make two people feel the same. Little by little, the realization of dreams is the process of two people realizing their self-worth, and two people walking hand in hand are more affectionate. 3, outside of work, cultivate your hobbies, add interest to life Whether a person's life is rich or not depends on where he spends his time outside of work. Don't forget, there will be consequences Cultivate your hobbies and do something you like after work. So life is rich and interesting. Having your own job can provide sufficient material foundation, as well as your own hobbies and investments. The taste of life is one's level. A high-level person, even if submerged in the crowd, will shine like the Big Dipper. In fact, the ultimate key to emotional warming is to remain mysterious and improve yourself. Let yourself have lasting charm, so that love will not cool down and the flower of love will not wither. How to warm up feelings in the dull period 2 small ways to warm up feelings 1. Caring about the details sometimes really brings warmth in time. Usually, when my boyfriend and husband get off work, giving him a massage will make him feel the peace of mind and sureness of "having a good wife at home". Netizen Xiaoxiao wrote in the letter to the emotional tutor that she would usually wash the fruit for her boyfriend after work, heat her boyfriend a cup of warm milk before going to bed, and send sweet greetings to each other on their anniversary. His sweet words are very popular with her boyfriend. Because he can't cook at ordinary times, his boyfriend will cook a good dish and help with housework. Their lives are warm and sweet. 2. Respect each other. Men are most afraid of women nagging. They are used to being nagged by their mother at home. Marrying a wife is like talking about Tang Priest all day. Although your nagging is for his own good, you should learn to respect him and make him accept it in a better way. Netizen Xiao Qiang said that her husband likes playing games. She used to nag, but later her husband went directly to the Internet cafe to play. After consulting an emotional mentor, she learned to respect her husband. Every time her husband plays games, she will occasionally make a friendly agreement with her husband: "Just play ~" Her husband feels her change and respect and becomes very conscious. After playing games for a while, he will stay with her and his feelings will warm up a lot. 3. Tenderness and thoughtfulness is the expression of low PU and the most deadly weapon for men. Every man wants to marry a virtuous wife. No matter how busy and tired he is, going home is like a spring breeze. My tutor has taken over relevant cases before. The client is a woman with a "virgin" mentality. The long-term strong oppression made her husband unbearable. Finally, according to my tutor's suggestion, every day when my husband comes home, he will greet him with a smile and say "back". When he had nothing to do, he said, "I can't get enough of it." I found a handsome man who can make money and has a good temper. I am so lucky that I can spoil my uncle. " 4. Make full use of weekend time. Usually, both of them are very busy at work and have little time to play small romance. That rare weekend is a good time to warm up the feelings after a long drought. Going out to go shopping and watch movies is also the same way as a young couple. It is also fun for two people to study recipes at home and cook a delicious home-cooked meal. In fact, many small ways to warm feelings are actually in every detail of life. Getting married is not difficult. As long as you have the heart, spend your mind on the daily details and pay attention to them bit by bit, then your feelings will naturally remain unchanged and even more passionate.