And housework is considered by many people to be exclusive to women. In many families, men don't go into the kitchen all year round. They never ask about any housework at home, and they don't want to help their wives share housework.
A video was circulated on the Internet: A man in Hebei laid tin foil instead of plates. He was afraid that his wife was too tired to wash the dishes, so he directly used tin foil instead of plates to invite friends to dinner. The man's wife, Ms. Duan, said that her husband used tin foil instead of plates because he was afraid of backache. They have been married for 10 years, and her husband is very careful and feels very happy.
As you can see in the video, the man took out the tin foil and cut it into the right size, then laid it on the table. Then, all kinds of delicious foods appeared. These delicious foods were not put on the plate, but poured directly on the tin foil on the table.
The man said that he was worried about his wife's backache after washing dishes, so he came up with this idea. Later, this person also explained this behavior. It turned out that he was worried that his wife was unwell because she washed the dishes too much, so he thought of this method to reduce the burden of housework for her.
This statement has been recognized by some netizens, who praised such a man for being considerate of his wife and trying to reduce her housework pressure.
Some netizens bluntly said that in the face of such an explanation, why don't men wash dishes themselves? And questioning men is just an excuse to be lazy.
On the surface, the man's method can really reduce the pressure on his wife to wash dishes, and he seems to care and take care of his wife very much. However, this method inevitably has some problems.
If he is really worried that his wife will be tired, then he can completely undertake the housework of washing dishes, and according to the video, this is to invite friends over for dinner. Moreover, it is so simple and careless to pour all the dishes of soup and water on a piece of tin foil, and it also seems that you don't pay attention to your friends.
But as far as the results are concerned, men can think that their wives will be tired because of housework, which is better than many men.
In life, too many men have male chauvinism. They never care whether their wives are tired or not and whether they need to be taken care of.
In my opinion, family is always a space for two people to maintain, and housework needs to be shared by two people. Only in this way, the atmosphere at home will become more and more harmonious, and the relationship between husband and wife will become closer and closer, and the feelings will become deeper and deeper.