If not, you can't force it.
The most unfair thing in the world is the starting point, and the fairest thing is time. Don't think about what you can't decide. With the time you still have, you can have unlimited energy.
Eating something casually to fill your stomach can't offset the idea of eating hot pot and snacks at last. I bought a skirt that I didn't like very much for the sake of cheapness, but I was thinking about the famous brand in the window. I found someone to fall in love casually for loneliness, and my state is also lazy, wasting time and making do with it. You might as well clean yourself up and find a real one.
How much can people change in a year? If you find the right industry, a person's monthly salary of thousands to tens of thousands is enough, and the whole life texture will be rubbed up. If the foundation is good, a person will change from a greasy woman of 120 kg to a thin and beautiful little goddess, and the opposite sex treatment will be visible to the naked eye.
Of course, it is enough for a person to go from a poor undergraduate to a famous graduate student, from being unemployed to entering the real power department within the system, from being single for 10 thousand years to finalizing the wedding date with a high-quality man and entering the second life for one year. The key is that you should focus on one thing. Fishing for three days and drying the net for two days is bound to be a slight increase in face value and a rapid decline, or nothing will be gained at the end of the postgraduate entrance examination, or a lifetime to make money, a brain to fall in love, and finally career and love will decline.
It is not easy to face loneliness bravely. But if you can face it calmly and even enjoy loneliness, it is one of the most powerful performances. When you reach this mentality, in fact, you are not far from the high-quality love that really belongs to you. Because love will not meet the right person because you want to escape loneliness, but because you are rich and powerful, it will attract the really right person to love you more and more. Make do with it, even if you can't bear it, you can't really eliminate your core needs.