In recent years, the growth rate of divorce has increased year by year, and there are more and more divorced couples. Why do so many people choose to divorce now is because the feelings between the two have changed, but some people choose to remarry after many years of divorce because they think the other person is still their favorite. After six years of divorce, I want to remarry. Come and have a look with me.

1 The ex-husband who divorced for six years wants to get back together. Can you accept it? Women who have experienced it tell the truth.

But just a few days ago, my ex-husband came to me to remarry. He said it was because he couldn't worry about our child, and he had made a clean break with that woman. Considering that my son is in the critical period of going to school and will spend a lot of money in many places, I probably can't support it alone, so I didn't explicitly agree with my ex-husband's request, but I didn't refuse him either. Because my idea is that my son doesn't go to public schools, not only the tuition is very expensive, but also the expenses of food, clothing, housing and transportation are not small. And in order to take care of my son, I also rented a house near the school, but I have to work, and my children will not be able to stand it if they come here.

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In fact, for men who cheat, women will basically not forgive him, let alone agree to remarry; At that time, after knowing that my ex-husband was cheating, my heart was broken, and my previous feelings were broken with the broken heart; I witnessed my ex-husband's infidelity, and I secretly decided at that time that I would never forgive him for this man. Even if he asked me to remarry now, I didn't explicitly agree, but I didn't refuse. This doesn't mean that I have forgiven him. I just want to use his ability to reduce the pressure at home.

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In the years after the divorce, he occasionally came to see us, or came back to see his son, because in my heart, my family was completely separated from him. In my heart, the father of the child died on the day of the divorce. Perhaps because I was worried that it would cause my son a psychological shadow, I haven't told my child that his father and I have been divorced for several years, and I have been avoiding some problems of my child on the grounds that his father will travel frequently. Maybe it's because there are still some feelings between husband and wife. Every time I tell my child that his father has gone on a business trip, I feel a little lost.

Maybe it's because my attitude is not firm enough Since my ex-husband came to talk to me about this for the first time, I will take my children out to play every day for the next few days, and I will go with him. Maybe the ex-husband wants to take the child as a breakthrough to achieve the purpose of remarriage.

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Finally, considering the child, I agreed to let him live with us in the name of taking care of the child; But I am also worried that I will go further and further, and I can't help but agree to his request for remarriage, because cohabitation without a name will not only bother me, but also have a great influence on others.

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Looking at every couple divorced because of cheating or other reasons, the biggest influence must be the children. He unconsciously lost a very warm and happy home, and even said that his life would be incomplete because he lost his father's love at an early age. However, it is understandable that the ex-husband asked for remarriage in the name of taking care of the children. After all, he is his own flesh and blood. Perhaps with the help of her ex-husband, this family will become very relaxed, but a marriage without feelings is flawed, and perhaps one of them will make the same mistake again.

In the final analysis, if marriage wants to be stable for a long time, two people must be loyal to it, and the source of the tragedy in the above story is the lack of loyalty; If a man cheated, he felt that he had done something wrong after the divorce, but it was too late, and he didn't realize the value of feelings until he regretted it. This is the most stupid thing to do, not only harming yourself, but also harming others, and it will be more difficult to gain the trust of others in the future than to ascend to heaven!

Divorced for six years and asked for remarriage. 2 Matters needing attention in remarriage:

1, your previous relationship with him.

No matter whether the feeling of love is beautiful or not, the active will of two people when they get married is strong.

2. The development of your previous marriage with him.

See if wealth, children, personal development and interpersonal relationships have increased.

How satisfied are you with his former husband and wife?

Your satisfaction and your ex-husband's satisfaction can be scored separately.

4, you and his previous marriage conflicts and the resolution of the events that triggered the divorce.

If these events cannot be resolved, the relationship between husband and wife will be destroyed after remarriage.

5. Have some wounds caused by divorce healed?

In fact, in many marriage cases I have taken over, it will be more difficult to get married if I don't get better, because both parties have experienced divorce and trauma.