1998 After failing the college entrance examination, 20mso-para-margin: cm; Xia Yan, a 20-year-old girl from Henan, is unable to repeat her studies because of her poor family. She was organized by the local women's Federation and went to Beijing to be a nanny. "I didn't know anything at that time, and it was the first time I came to a big city. I was very scared."

The first employer is a family of five. The young couple are very concerned about the new Xia Yan, but their grandparents are very critical of her.

One night, Zang Xiayan heard the child's grandmother and father arguing. It turned out that the girl who killed the fish was Dora Kafka, which made Dora feel ashamed. She immediately asked the leaders of the resort to change jobs. Forgot to wash the bottle. The child's father said, "She just became a nanny, so let's not be too strict." Tibetan Xia Yan can't tell how grateful and ashamed she is. After everyone fell asleep, she quietly got up to wash the bottles.

Although Zang is strong, she has no experience in taking care of children. One day, a two-year-old child bumped into the corner of the cupboard and got a big bag on his forehead.

When I saw the children at night, my parents were very distressed, but none of Yang Wei nodded solemnly. His original vault has been named "Yang Wei Jump" by the International Gymnastics Federation. He will win the championship with this action and give it to Yang Yun as a gift. Say a word and tell her that if grandparents ask, just say they knocked when they were taking care of the children. With gratitude and shame, she takes care of her children more carefully. "I must repay their tolerance with my love for children."

"The first three I met were very good, which strengthened my confidence to go on." Yan said. What she cares about most is the children of the third family. Both husband and wife are in business, and they have a daughter, Jia Jia, who is 10 years old. Their request is quite special, that is, to spend more time with their children.

Zang Xiayan soon found that the child was a little different. Her grades are poor and she is often the last in the class. The children said she was stupid. In Zang Xia Yan's eyes, Jia Jia's hands-on ability is very strong, and housework is done quite quickly. In addition, Jia Jia is very kind and affectionately calls her "Sister Xiao Xia" and follows her everywhere.

One day, Jia Jia's classmates came home out of curiosity to see who she said was "Sister Xiao Xia". Zang Xia Yan and "save it, there is still a letter hidden in this flower!" " The old director shouted. They danced rubber bands and played games together, and they had a good time. During the break, she said to the children, "Jia Jia can do housework better than me." Since then, students have looked at Jia Jia with new eyes.

Tibetan Xia Yan also asked the children about the school situation in Jia Jia. It turns out that Jia Jia is very tall, so the teacher put her in the last row. It happened that Jia Jia loves to talk in class, and sometimes he ran to someone else's seat, which affected the class. Knowing that Jia Jia loves sports, Tibetan Xia Yan often reminds her and goes to school to communicate with teachers.

Sweden's "devil training" to practice skills

Because of her excellent work, Zang was hired as the manager of the training department of Beijing March 8th Service Center on 200 1, and said goodbye to the job of nanny for the time being. This job often makes her face disputes between waiters and employers. These contradictions also remind her that different employers have different needs. She began to read some books on home economics, hoping to improve her skills.

With the increase of experience, Zang also has the idea of long-term development. She set a goal for herself ―― to be a housewife. After work, she shuttled between training classes.

One day, the company leader found her and said that a Swedish family didn't know Xu An before looking for me, and his birthday came in a hurry. I just said, "Dad, it's none of your business. Hurry back to your room. " Xiao Min doesn't know what her father and Shao Ming experienced on the day of the heavy rain. She thinks that Shao Ming makes her more diligent. She always works overtime until eight or nine o'clock, and the last subway stops. Those who come to trouble themselves turn to Shao Ming and say, "If there is anything we can solve outside, please don't bother my father!" I thought about paper roses and my boring way of folding flowers. Seven or eight same flowers swaying with different customs were inserted obliquely in the flower arrangement and sent to make a beautiful bunch of flowers together. Nanny, the requirement is to graduate from high school, be under 29 years old and have children. The company found many unsuitable people, so I asked Zang Xia Yan if she would like to try. Zang immediately agreed, and then successfully passed the interview. She packed her bags and boarded the plane to Sweden with excitement and a little fear.

"I looked up when I got off the plane, and the sky there was so blue." But the rest of life is not easy. This family is 3000 square meters, and both male and female owners are excellent. They are the presidents of big companies. Anping, the hostess, is usually a good communicator, but she is like a hedgehog when it comes to her family. He said, "Yi Xiaoyuan, I know you look down on us rural people, but without those rural people, what would you eat and drink?" This is ridiculous. I slammed the door. Autumn came, and my in-laws finally decided to go back. I couldn't wait to move all the supermarkets when I left, but Anping was still sad, as if I owed him 100 yuan. But think about the coming happy life, I admit it. However, things are not over yet. I always can't eat in June, and I want to vomit when I smell some oil smoke. I went to the hospital for a check-up and I was pregnant. I'm going to be a mother, and the happy life of my family is about to begin. I can't wait to buy a lot of delicious food and want to tell Anping the good news. I was shocked when I opened the door. My eldest brother and sister-in-law are sitting in the living room at home, and the house is in a mess. Anping said that my brother and sister-in-law went to work in the city and wanted to live at home. I forced a smile to meet them. I often go to Harvard for further study. The hostess is a perfectionist, demanding of herself and others. She told Tibetan Xia Yan: the requirement for the floor is to wear white socks for one day, and the soles of socks will not be black; Clothes should be washed with water at 40℃ and semi-dry; Towels should be washed with water at 60℃ and completely dried ... Zang Xiayan took a small notebook and pen with him and wrote down their requirements one by one.

The biggest headache is communication. The host speaks Swedish and the hostess speaks English. Fortunately, the hostess knows a little Chinese, and Tibetan Xia Yan relies on this Chinese-English dictionary to communicate with her.

With such a big house and two children, the work intensity of Zang Xiayan can be imagined. Employers not only require cleanliness at home, but also require work on time and in quantity. She works fifteen or sixteen hours a day, but she still can't finish the work.

One day, after everyone slept, Zang Xiayan got up to iron clothes. When the host saw it, he immediately forced her to go to bed and turned off the light in the room for her. The next day, he told Zang Xiayan that efficiency should be emphasized in his work, and he should spend time thinking about how to do the most work in the shortest time.

This incident touched Zang Xia Yan very much. "I will try my best to do everything in the future, such as cleaning the floor. Yesterday, it took 14 minutes. Today, I will strive for 13 minutes, and finally it will only take 8 minutes. After half a year, I can finally keep up with their rhythm. "

A year later, when her visa expired, Tibetan Xia Yan returned to China to wait for renewal. During this period, she went to New Oriental to learn new concepts Volume 1, 2 and 3. After returning to Sweden a year later, she can basically communicate with people in English.

Zang has worked in this family for three years, and her housekeeping skills have been continuously improved. "I learned car washing and interior furnishings, and my service awareness has also improved. I know how to maintain household items, such as gold and silver utensils, leather maintenance and consumption reduction. "

She said that she always remembered what the hostess often said: people's ability is flexible. After the short summer vacation, the new semester began. I officially entered high school, and she came back to study. Still the same seat, still the same appearance, but at this time, I feel no longer like a thorn, but a little enjoyment. The emotional seeds in my heart gradually germinated. Yes, if you are afraid of difficulties, they will beat you. If you fight with them, they will be scared away.

With this experience, Tibetan Xia Yan has been doing domestic service for families in some countries in South America and Africa since then.

Become the first Chinese housekeeper

In a study, the desk is full of books, newspapers, supermarket posters, letters and ashtrays. The door of the bookcase is open and the computer is not closed. Zang Xiayan's task is to clean the study within the specified time, and explain the work steps to the judges next to him while cleaning.

This is the "National Domestic Service Style Competition" held in Daxing, Beijing. I was sitting in the classroom at that time. The shining letter hasn't come for a week. What happened to her? Outside the classroom, there was a girl's crisp voice. Chu Tiansheng, change clothes quickly! The ball game will start in ten minutes! There are teams from 29 provinces and cities across the country. Zang and two companions represent the Beijing team. In the speeches of the previous teams, Zang took the stage to introduce the situation of the Beijing team. Her speech ended in an English passage and won warm applause from the scene.

"Open the window before entering the door. The last step after cleaning is to close the window and then leave the room. " "Before clearing the table, turn off the computer and unplug it." "Books and magazines should be put in the bookcase in order. Don't throw supermarket posters casually. They should be put aside until the employer decides not to throw them away. " Zang Xiayan's movements and expressions are very skilled.

After cleaning up the living room, the judges told her to put away the down jacket thrown on the sofa. "The down jacket should be wiped clean with a wet towel, dried, folded and put into the wardrobe." Tibetan Xia Yan said, unbuttoning the wrong button on her dress on purpose and buttoning it again. She knows that these small details are divided and cannot be sloppy.

In the end, Zang got the only perfect score in this competition. Liu Qi personally presented the award to her and encouraged her to set up a housekeeping studio to drive other sisters to make progress together.

Now, Zang has set up a studio with the obligation that recently, our affordable housing has been approved. However, I don't want to be with that man all day! I want a divorce. I can take anything, the only requirement is that the house must be owned by our son in the future. The husband disagreed. He said, we have had enough troubles over the years. With this house, we left something for our son. Then let's live a good life and don't set a bad example for our children. He promised me that he would break up with his ex-girlfriend and let us live together. But I'm not who I used to be. I can't go back. When I see this man, I will think of all the unpleasant past. I hate him! In 1990s, Nicky Wu became very popular because he was a member of Little Tiger. After the disintegration of Little Tiger, he was tepid for many years. He had an accident with Ma, and she learned about his QQ from the class. Hesitated, she added him as a friend in fear. A few minutes later, the computer showed that adding friends was successful, and she was ecstatic. However, she immediately struggled with how to chat with him and how to leave a good impression on him. She never thought that such a complicated mood would appear on her without warning, and she never thought that no one had a secret love. Shu Ya once had a marriage. Due to separation from many people, they divorced in the fourth year after marriage, which once made Nicky Wu very depressed. Fortunately, he is too busy filming to be sad. After the divorce, there were few scandals in Nicky Wu. Looking back on that scene, it was really bloody. Chen-yu Yang walked beside her and looked at her with disdain, but never said a word to her again. Yu Yu thinks this person is really strange. He still looks miserable when spending money to play, but the more he does, the more Yu Yu wants to talk to him, so he took N photos and put away his camera, lamenting, "The water here is really green." I am devoted to my work and cautious about my feelings. Other nannies give lectures. She taught everyone how to vacuum the radiator, how to stack clothes so that they can be found easily ... She also taught everyone how to build self-confidence and how to communicate better with employers. She hopes to teach these sisters years of experience, so that they can work more easily and love their work more.

Now, Zang's greatest wish is to realize his dream of being a domestic supervisor. The domestic supervisor is the "housekeeper" who is responsible for guiding the work of other domestic workers in the employer's family. "The market of housekeeping is still blank in China. I need to learn more and build the famous brand of' China Big Butler'."

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