In fact, marriage is a very sacred thing, whether it is the first time or the second time. We must know that marriage is based on love, and a marriage with love can be harmonious and happy for a long time. We want to enter marriage alone, not only to have a beautiful love and a happy family, but also to pay a responsibility.

And this responsibility and responsibility is far heavier than those shiny diamond rings and high-class weddings. Even if the prince and princess get married, they will land in the castle and live a life of daily necessities.

Case

Dacheng is a post-7s uncle. He is in his forties, but he suffered the bad news of his wife's death. Since his wife's death, he has never thought about remarrying. But after a long time, he is a middle-aged man who can't stand loneliness.

Dacheng's thought is quite conservative. He was single for several years before he wanted to remarry, but in fact, he didn't want to remarry because he wanted to marry more girls in his twenties. Let's just say a simple worry. He and his late wife have a son and a daughter, and they are still living at home with them.

Dacheng sees that his two children will soon become adults. If he remarries, he must also consider the children, because he is not only looking for a wife for himself, but also looking for a mother for his children. So even a stepmother is an elder. Dacheng thinks that if the wife he is looking for is a few years older than these children, he may have some unspeakable feelings when he gets along with the family, and he always feels awkward.

So by the time Dacheng remarried, his two children were already working outside. It was at this time that Dacheng met a 95-year-old Xiaojun. In fact, two people are familiar with each other because of their work. Dacheng runs a company and is the father of Party A of Xiaojun Company, the one who gives money to talk.

What I have to say is that Dacheng, an uncle born after 7, is quite attractive among young girls. He is not full of dregs like other uncles, but a unique and mature man charm, which is why Xiaojun in 1995 was able to immerse himself in it.

In fact, when Dacheng first saw Xiaojun, he had a little feeling for her, because she always had the shadow of his wife, and sometimes he had the illusion that his wife was back.

it is inevitable that two people will have a lot of sparks because of the handover at work. Until Xiaojun finished the work assigned by Dacheng Company, the two men were together. I have to say that although people's minds are much more open now than before, they still retain their previous thoughts and concepts for some things.

Just like Dacheng, since he told his friends and relatives about his girlfriend, he has been teased by others, cursed by his parents, criticized education, and even many people don't think highly of this relationship.

But Dacheng doesn't care. He thinks that meeting Xiaojun is the second spring in his life. Since he met Xiaojun, his feelings have been out of control. Although others are in middle age, they still have an indescribable feeling of being crazy and desperate.

Even if Dacheng has made all the preparations and done a good job in the ideological work of his parents and children, his married life is still far beyond Dacheng's imagination.

As we all know, love has a shelf life, not to mention freshness. When two people really start to live, they are completely different from when they are in love. They are both boring, and when they are together for a long time, they will show their true colors, and more and more shortcomings are exposed by both sides.

Although they are in love, they only have eyes for each other, sweet and sweet, and when the novelty fades completely, they begin to dislike each other.

Life after marriage is not what Dacheng imagined at all. Husband and wife don't get along harmoniously, or Dacheng finds it increasingly difficult to accept Xiaojun's living habits.

Xiaojun is a young girl. She is still playful, very playful and likes to make friends. Moreover, she has a great personality, and she often talks about the phrase "If you don't go crazy, you will get old". Xiaojun's style of doing things is his own way, not only without considering the overall situation, but also without considering the consequences.

Xiaojun is the kind of daughter-in-law who doesn't realize the fact that she is married and doesn't know her identity clearly. She is a wife, an elder and even an in-laws daughter-in-law. She lacks a sense of responsibility for her family and a commitment to her role. Xiaojun hardly cleans up the housework at home. Instead, he often makes the house in a mess. In the bedroom, you can see her clothes piled up, and all kinds of bottles and jars on the dresser are irregularly placed, even without a place to waste.

Dacheng, on the other hand, is like taking care of children, cleaning the house and cleaning the room behind his ass every day, and tolerating the fact that his wife often comes home late at night smelling of alcohol.

In fact, for a man like Dacheng, what he wants is not a vigorous romantic love, but a small life with a long stream of water. It's a pity that these Xiaojun can't give it, but they also bring a greater burden to Dacheng.

Every time two people have conflicts, Xiaojun will have a cold war with him. When dealing with family conflicts, Xiaojun is naive. He always cares only about his own feelings and never cares about others' feelings. He often yells at Dacheng. He loves to haggle over everything and insists on winning this quarrel by himself.

Since Dacheng and Xiaojun got married, Dacheng feels that he can spare less energy and time. Almost every day, he thinks about how to coax Xiaojun to spend money. Xiaojun alone has already made Dacheng unable to take care of himself. Moreover, Xiaojun seems to have been asking Dacheng for it endlessly, always using various reasons to buy it for her in buy buy.

Xiaojun is completely ignorant of the way of the world when dealing with household chores and maintaining relatives.

However, Dacheng's marriage to Xiaojun is not without its merits. Sometimes Xiaojun's feeling of youth and vigor has fulfilled himself to a great extent, but Xiaojun's burden to Dacheng is far greater than Xiaojun's own achievements.

In short, Dacheng feels that he is a 7-year-old who married a wife of 95 years. After marriage, it is simply miserable. Dacheng feels that this marriage is particularly tiring.

In fact, people at every age have different thoughts and cognition, because people are growing up, and what happens in each period is different, which also affects people's thoughts to a great extent. In this world, there is always something to lose, and something to lose will win. If you enjoy one's advantages, you have to tolerate the other's shortcomings. You know, you can't have your cake and eat it.

Young girls are attractive to men of all ages. If middle-aged men want to be with young people, they should want to get the price and responsibility behind their choices. After all, marriage is not a daughter-in-law, but a kind of responsibility and commitment to the other party.

In fact, there is nothing really suitable for two people to be together, but only three views are the same. Both of them are willing to sacrifice something for each other, and finally there will be a happy return.