Recently, there have been some discussions about how to spend money on dating. I found a problem. Many beautiful women can't order. In this discussion, men usually complain that dating costs too much, or women complain that men are stingy. In fact, in essence, the traditional art of "ordering food" has lost to the younger generation.
Because eating is so important in people's lives in China, "Will you eat" reflects many problems. Not being able to order shows that a person is rarely treated. The image has shrunk a lot at once. Basically, you can knock off 5000 pieces of clothes and three years of education. In other words, a beautiful woman can't order food, no matter what bag she carries, her image is no different from that of carrying a plastic bag in a supermarket.
The performance of college graduation is high school level. Reading a blog has become a second-generation official image carefully created by candidates for reading a blog. If you don't order food, you will become the second generation. Have you ever seen an officer who can't order? What are we talking about when we say "order"? It's not rules, it's manners.
It turns out that there are no rules for drinking tea, eating and tasting wine. It is people who are used to these things who have formed a set of established etiquette. Outsiders want to be arty and do these things before taking those etiquette as rules. The fundamental reason why there are so many "dating records" on the Internet is that some people have no basic social etiquette.
Arty learns to eat western food, drink high tea and make martinis, but even the host and guest are not happy at dinner, which shows the real quality. "If I don't like a heterosexual, do I have to have fun with him?" Of course, buying and selling can't be righteous, men and women can't cross the bridge, and they can't kick down the ladder. Politeness is not deceiving others, but showing yourself. How beautiful you are, how beautiful you are, and how high-end you are, are all passed down from mouth to mouth. You can't buy that pile of European rubbish on three months' salary. Pickiness is not high-end, but decency is high-end. The most basic thing is that you should know how to entertain people and accept hospitality.