Lolita, what is a tea party?
The so-called Lolita tea party means Luo Niang's party. On this occasion, they usually chat, drink tea, eat snacks, share knowledge and information about little skirts and so on. Everyone speaks freely at the tea party, just like everyday friends. Most of the people who come to the tea party are ordinary girls, so there is no contempt chain in such a harmonious atmosphere.
What are the precautions for Lolita tea party?
As we all know, girls who attend tea parties are usually people who have been in the circle for many years, so the existence of fake Lolita dresses can never be tolerated. Wearing a fake skirt to the tea party is the number one taboo. Lolita fashion circle pays great attention to originality. Most girls can accept second-hand skirts or cheap skirts, as long as they are original clothes. However, some lo Niang bought skirts and even wore them to tea parties in order to be cheap, knowing that they were knockoffs. Violation of such taboos may also be kicked out by the organizer. Some new Meng people who just entered this circle, because of their lack of shopping experience, bought fake goods. That's understandable. Being refused to wear tea will be considered as accumulated experience. Just pay more attention next time.
In the eyes of some sisters in the circle, the second taboo of tea party is to wear a lo skirt that is not suitable for you. For example, if you go to a tea party and wear a skirt that exposes your body defects, it is likely to be regarded as a joke. After all, Ms. lo who comes to this occasion pays great attention to her personal image and dresses herself exquisitely, not only to beautify herself, but also to respect others. In addition, if people wear Lolita dresses that don't match their skin color to attend the tea party, it may also cause a lot of unnecessary embarrassment. That will not only have no personal temperament, but will eventually be doubted by the current lo Niang as an insider.
In addition to the above two precautions, the third taboo of tea party is pain lo. The so-called pain lo is to wear only Lolita dresses, and other items are worn every day. This will make many Luo Niang look like a mountain, which is very strange. Many insiders often think that Lolita's dress is too exaggerated to wear a full set, which may be easily accepted in daily life, but going to a tea party dressed like this may cause public anger. Because in the eyes of many women, tea party is not only a private gathering, but also a cultural exchange of Lolita. Everyone attaches great importance to it. If you dress too casually, you may be refused entry by the organizer.
In a word, although Lolita Tea Party is an occasion without a clear contempt chain, you should remember the precautions for attending this occasion to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.
Lolita collocation rule
In fact, I want to discuss this issue with you today because Lolita culture has been widely popularized. Some people who follow the trend blindly start small skirts before they fully understand Lolita culture. Not only in the way of buying, but also in the way of dressing, I am also "fascinated", saying that lo is not lo, and daily life is not daily, which looks strange. In addition, a style called "pain lo" has evolved. But I want to say, don't insist on any more painful winds. It's really ugly not to wear it
First of all, let's explain the definition of pain lo. Pain lo means that there is no complete set of Lolita clothes, that is, there are no Lolita-related accessories such as KC, T-shirts and skirts. But in recent years, more and more girls wear Lolita in our country, and the lo circle is not as strict as expected. Everyone's tolerance for painful lo and light lo is gradually increasing. But what I want to say is that if you don't deserve it, don't try to hurt the wind easily.
I once saw a submission. Some LOs indicate that they can accept painful LOs, but when wearing Lolita, can you improve your aesthetic and collocation ability, because wearing painful LOs is really ugly. But I think we should do the most basic problem of neatness first. Because I have really encountered the white pantyhose balloon, blackening and the "death fold" of Lolita skirt, which is the existence of "spicy eyes" for anyone to see.
In fact, Lolita clothing has certain limitations, so it is easier for us to get started in collocation. You can't go wrong if you follow the same color scheme. In addition, you can choose the corresponding items according to the style of Lolita's little skirt. For example, if it is sweet, you can choose the matching of the same elements on the small skirt, which will be more harmonious. If you still don't know how to wear it, you can learn from what you wear on the model map.
I also have a little coup, that is, according to my body shape, pay attention to the corresponding grass planting model number and see how they wear it in the picture, which is very easy to learn. I think wearing Lolita's clothes should be clean and tidy first, and then dress up according to your own style, so that it won't look so strange. But everyone's aesthetic is different, so we can't judge others by our own standards. It is very impolite to do so.
Having said that, do you have a clearer understanding of Lolita's clothes? In fact, as long as you do the most basic problem of neatness, you are half successful, but you need to try many times to wear your own unique style. Everyone will be different on the issue of aesthetics. You can wear whatever you like. Others have no right to judge you.