1. In the opening remarks or pre-meal speeches, you can express your thanks and condolences to the guests. For example, we are very grateful to all of you for taking time out of your busy schedule to participate in our activities. I know this is a very difficult period, but your arrival has given us the greatest support and comfort.

2. When eating, you can invite guests to share some memories and stories of the deceased, so that everyone can remember and commemorate the deceased together.

3, in the process of eating, to avoid talking about too sad or heavy topic, so as not to affect the mood of the guests.

4. In the speech after dinner, you can express your memory and blessings for the deceased. For example, we gather here today to relieve our sadness with food and laughter, and also take this opportunity to recall and share the best memories in our hearts. May the dead rest in peace, and may our families be strong and brave in the future.