First: Big Brother is miserable!
Generally speaking, as the eldest son of the family, the pressure on the body and the burden on the shoulders will be heavier. It's good to have fewer children now. There used to be a saying that "big brother is like a father"!
In the past, a family had many brothers and sisters. In some families, the eldest son is ten or twenty years older than the youngest son. He is really my brother and parents! Therefore, as a brother, it is natural to bear the burden of a family early!
Second: bosses often don't get enough attention!
Now the average family has only one child and two children, but in a family with two children, the younger one often gets more love than the older one. Maybe parents didn't realize it, but it did happen.
For example, in our hometown, many family bosses are asked by their parents to take care of their children, play with them and study with them. If bosses don't like it, they will be scolded by their parents. Generally speaking, if you are an elder brother, you should make way for your younger brother or sister and pay more attention to them!
Third: the boss pays more!
Generally, the boss will go to the society early, and then he will assume the responsibility of the family. If the younger brother and sister are still at school, they may need to bear the living expenses, tuition fees and so on. The family has to subsidize some from time to time.
Therefore, many children of rural families have worked for many years, and as a result, they have no savings. When they get married, they may not even get a decent bride price
There are also reasons why you can't find a boss at home when looking for someone. There is still some truth in this.
Take myself for example. I am the eldest in my family and have a younger brother. I entered the society very early. My brother often asks me for living expenses when he is at school. He will ask me for any expenses at home. The most time was to build a house at home, and I took hundreds of thousands at once. At that time, my brother had no job. Later, my brother got married, and I helped. So just starting from myself, I also agree with this sentence.
Therefore, for the subject's question, if your family conditions are average, especially in rural areas, it is best not to find a boss unless the boss is excellent.
I don't know if you agree with this view, please leave a comment!