I'm from the south and my mother-in-law is from the north. When the child was born, her mother-in-law had not retired. Not only gave her a big red envelope, but also prepared a golden lock for the child. She also specially took 1 months off and flew over to take care of the children and me with my mother. In the next few years, I will take some time to come and stay for a while every year to help look after the children.
In constant contact, we will find that the cultural differences and regional differences between the north and the south have caused a series of conflicts.
0 1 There is no air conditioning in the room, and the children sleep alone with thin sheets.
My coordinate is the Yangtze River Delta, and the child was born in winter. Maternity ward, air-conditioned at 26 degrees, warm and comfortable. When I got home, my mother-in-law and my mother separated. My mother-in-law is responsible for taking care of the children full-time, and my mother is responsible for taking care of my three meals a day, and I live in a room alone.
On the third day after giving birth, we left the hospital and went home. At first, I took care of the children by myself, but because I was weak after delivery and didn't have a good rest at night, my mother-in-law decided to take care of the children by herself. My mother-in-law is from the northeast and is not used to warm air conditioning. She turns it off when she feels hot. The mother-in-law was fat and afraid of heat, so she chose a small quilt for her child. I went to see the children and found the room chilly, so I turned on the air conditioner again. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law turned off her phone again. After several times, I got a little annoyed and told my mother-in-law that the room needed air conditioning. My mother-in-law didn't seem to listen, still didn't turn on the air conditioner, and still covered the child with a thin quilt. It was not until one day that the child caught a cold that she hurriedly turned on the air conditioner.
Make a moon meal with leftover chicken soup.
Mother-in-law is a very thrifty person, and she is not willing to spend money at ordinary times. My mother-in-law is good at making pasta, and she will make handmade chicken noodle soup for me in the next month. It is delicious. It just shouldn't be cooked with chicken soup that has been cooked several times. The most important thing about the moon meal food is freshness, not supplement.
Get to know her mother-in-law, and you will know that she didn't mean it. Only in the northeast, the floor is warm in winter and the home is warm. It is right to cover the child with a thin quilt. In the south, air conditioning should be turned on in winter, especially in families with newborn babies.
There has always been a saying on the internet: mother gives birth, grandma raises it, grandparents come to see it, dad goes online when he comes back, and grandpa goes to the vegetable market every day. Many netizens think it is incisive. If your EQ is high enough, handle the contradiction between mother and mother-in-law and take care of the children together, this phenomenon may not happen.