Whether we are born, grow up, fall in love, succeed or fail, until the end, loneliness exists in a corner of life like a shadow.

Nowadays, more and more young people choose to give up the excitement, like living alone, get used to eating, sleeping, reading and traveling alone, and turn loneliness into a carnival for one person.

Recently, my friends always ask me, "haven't you found someone yet?" Even my mother said, "I want you to find someone to take care of you."

Although they have good intentions, I am unmoved. I think I'm enjoying my life alone now. I'm fine alone.

There are always some things that need to be faced alone; There are always some roads that need to be trudged by one person; No matter whether things are good or bad, or the road is short, we can only bear it silently and move forward silently.

Takeshi Kaneshiro said in Like You: Actually, I don't feel anything. Anyway, no one will always be with anyone at this time, and I don't really need it.

Life is like this, no one can live without anyone, and no one will stay with anyone forever.

1, it's no big deal to be alone.

There is a friend who needs someone to accompany him when he goes to school, whether he is eating, shopping, attending classes or going anywhere. After coming out to work, there are no longer so many friends and classmates around. When no one is with you, you have to face everything yourself. At first, you will feel that there is a big gap. It's no big deal to get used to being alone after a long time.

A person, there are not so many trivial things; Don't have to deal with others; Not so much distress.

Go home from work, put on your household clothes, put on loose household clothes, roll up your hair and start cooking dinner. Because I have a small appetite, I never find it difficult to eat. Take out a handful of raisins or a pitaya from the refrigerator, wash it with clear water and ice it, which can quench your thirst and solve dinner.

If you don't have much to do on weekends, you can put some tremella, medlar and red dates in the pot and drink them with rock sugar or milk all day while tidying up the housework. Although I can't cook, I don't have to study recipes deliberately. I don't want to move the smoke. I want to see a movie. I want to be quiet. I want to indulge. I don't need to worry too much. I am very happy.

When you are tired, you can stay at home and have a good rest. You can travel when you are bored. There are no surprises and accidents in life, just be alone.

You can be fearless even if you are alone.

Recently, I read a very healing book, which contains such a sentence: "May you be brave and fearless in the future, even if you are alone." I thought at that time that the author must be a very gentle person.

Everyone may have such moments: loneliness, loneliness, depression, disappointment and self-doubt, while struggling with life on the verge of collapse. The reason for the collapse seems to be making a mountain out of a molehill. In fact, only you know clearly that this straw has crushed a thousand pounds of sadness. There has never been any empathy in this world, only self-knowledge.

But I hope you can accept the accident, accept the failure, accept the disappointment, accept the unrequited, accept the cruelty and incomprehension of reality, because you will not suffer now, and you will never taste the sugar in the future.

A lot of things are just pain when the sound arrives at the scene. In fact, looking back, it's nothing. Things that you thought were going to kill you, things that you thought were going to die, will gradually get better. No matter how slow, as long as you are willing to wait, it will pass. And those you can't overcome, overcome and tolerate, tell yourself: whatever can't kill you will eventually make you stronger.

As Haruki Murakami said: When you cross the storm, you are not the same person.

3. Enrich yourself and be a strong person.

When you are alone, many people's ideal plans are beautiful. For a person's day, there are always various plans. When one person arrived, the original plan was defeated by the mobile phone.

Visiting Taobao for a while, brushing Tik Tok for a while, brushing friends circle for a while, so time is consumed. Those originally planned plans simply make it the next one alone. Next time, again and again, the plan will always be a plan.

There are also some people who have no plans for their own time, and when they are alone, they will fall into a state of confusion. I believe there will be people around you who have been bored. Weekend is coming, I don't know what to do, so I stay at home, watch TV series for two days, and continue to meet my work next week.

When you are alone, you should set yourself a good goal and eliminate external interference, such as turning off your mobile phone and computer, leaving the room, going outdoors and living actively.

Want to have a vest line, soak in the gym when you are alone; If you want to change a better job, spend your time learning business skills; If you want to think better, take time to learn all kinds of new skills alone; Strive to improve your appearance and appearance, and take one for the sake of face value and figure!

There is nothing wrong with one's life. You can also turn a boring day into what you want, or you can turn an ordinary life into a fantastic journey. As long as you think it is wrong, correct it, and if it is right, continue.