My sister Tan is my good friend now. The first time I saw Sister Tan, it was in the video. She is slightly fat and looks over 30 years old. She said that she worked as a kindergarten teacher in the countryside and had two daughters, both of whom were brought up by herself. She speaks very softly. I asked her some questions I found on the Internet, and I felt that her answer was very scientific, so I decided to choose her.
We really met in the hospital, and I was already in the hospital at this time. My daughter was born at two o'clock in the morning the night before. Sister Tan came over this morning and brought me some rice porridge. It's really sweet. Actually, the nanny had already sent me millet porridge before this. In the last month of pregnancy, my husband was often away from home, so I found a nanny to take care of him. Being in hospital for three days, the nanny cooks and is also a good aunt. )
Because I was born at night, the nurse kept telling me to pee after giving birth, because I was afraid that not urinating for a long time would cause urinary retention. In fact, she was also kind, and then let me squat in the bathroom. I just gave birth to a baby. I really want to sleep, and I can't pee. I lose my temper when I lack sleep. Because I have studied a little Chinese medicine, I have never peed by myself, because I didn't drink much water before, but the nurse didn't believe me, saying that I couldn't feel it, and I was very hungry, but I didn't eat it at night. Later, I asked my nanny to send me millet porridge after six o'clock, and I drank millet porridge before I urinated (many people here may say how to eat millet porridge after childbirth, because I have to eat something light after childbirth, so as not to spoil my stomach suddenly. Moreover, millet porridge is easy to open milk. Facts have proved that this is very correct. I have always had a good appetite, plenty of milk and no milk blockage. ) This is beside the point.
When Tan Jie first came to the hospital, she was unfamiliar with many things. My temper on the first day was the worst in my life. Because of my pain, lack of sleep and fatigue, Tan Jie always can't find anything. Later, Tan Jie sorted out all the things by himself in order to find them. So every time you find something, you can find it. I was in a good mood this afternoon, so I apologized to her She said it's okay. That's understandable. It must be very hard and tired just after giving birth to a baby.
During the three days in the hospital, she slept on the sofa next to me, separated by curtains. The sofa must not be so comfortable. She didn't complain at all. Get up at night, take the baby to take a bath during the day, wash my clothes and my baby's clothes by hand when I come back, and specially take them to a sunny place to dry, which basically doesn't need me to worry about. The baby doesn't have enough clothes. She only brought three sets. She is still outside helping to buy clothes. She is lonely inside and out. Later, my husband said, I really appreciate her. My husband comes to see me every day. He doesn't have much time. He must go to work and take care of his father.
When I got home, the nanny went back. Sister Tan is responsible for shopping, cooking and housework to take care of the baby. She always buys the freshest vegetables and goes out early to buy them. I woke up when she came back from shopping, and then she took care of me and washed my face. She helped me when I first started brushing my teeth and washing my face. I didn't touch a drop of water for the first half of the month.
The food cooked by Sister Tan is delicious. She cooks me light, delicious and nutritious meals in different ways every day. Egg custard, boiled shrimp, loach soup, fish head papaya soup, old duck yam soup, beef brisket tomato, beef fried celery, various seasonal vegetables. Give me jiaozi for breakfast, make buns, stew porridge and cook noodles. The food looks delicious. My parents are here. She cooks. There is a meal cooked by my husband at noon. She likes spicy food, so she cooks two dishes and one soup for me every meal and then cooks it herself. She always cooks a dish by herself and eats it in the living room. Once I came out, I found that the food she ate was simple. I said, Tan Jie, you can buy some nutritious food yourself, which always saves me a lot of money. She said I liked it, which was good. At that time, I made up my mind to give her a red envelope when she finished.
Sister Tan takes things very seriously and really treats family affairs as her own home, which is completely beyond her responsibility. She has time to clean and keep the house clean every day. Besides washing my baby's clothes and mine, she also helps my husband wash clothes. She said it was a convenient thing. In fact, she didn't know that she helped us solve many problems when she was busy at home.
Sometimes, when she is free, Tan Jie will chat with me and talk about her children and family. From chatting, I know that she has two daughters. The older one is gentle and shy and can cook, like her, and the younger one is lively and smart, like her husband. Her husband loves his family very much, but he loves playing cards and has a wide range of interests. He often takes them out to play. He can't cook, but he likes to treat guests because he has a wife who cooks well. Speaking of her mother-in-law, she is a strange person. She likes working in the fields, but she doesn't like doing housework. The crops in the field are well taken care of, and the house is in a mess. So she helped her clean up as soon as she got home. My mother-in-law has three children, her husband is the youngest, and she doesn't care about the three children of her three sons. She is in charge of her daughter-in-law, regardless of her marriage, and asks her children to give some money every month. Tan Jie said that to me, having a mother-in-law sounds better than having no mother-in-law. My mother-in-law likes me best because I love work. I smiled. I said, Tan Jie, you really have a good life alone. If others are in the same situation, so will you.
Sister Tan has been here for almost half a month, and everyone in our family praises her. In the middle of the Mid-Autumn Festival, there are many people at home. I let Sister Tan go home for one day and gave her a box of moon cakes. She came back and picked me a bunch of sweet-scented osmanthus, which I liked very much.
Sister Tan takes care of the baby wholeheartedly. She bathes her baby every day, and takes her baby out to bask in little ass as soon as the sun shines. Because it was hot at that time and the baby's bottom was red, she helped the baby dry it and held it in her arms for fear that she would catch cold. A week later, I began to take a shower. Every time she cooks mugwort water for me, I wash my hair and take a shower separately. I am afraid of catching a cold. I dried my hair as soon as I washed it, and it was clean all month. I washed my hair three times a month.
When the contract expired, I renewed it for another half month, and then I made a separate agreement with her to let her earn more. The intermediary deducted almost one-sixth of the agency fee. I didn't know until I talked very well.
Sister Tan graduated from junior high school, but she is also an excellent person. She has done well in Yue Yue's industry. Her salary is not lower than that of her husband, and she also has a good voice at home. Her children like her very much and video with her every day. At first, she was afraid to disturb me and hid outside. I said nothing, just call home.
I think her food is delicious. Before she left, she taught me to cook many dishes, some of which were taught by Yue Yueban and some were handed down from her own family. She is happy every day. It makes people feel so happy. She is a hard-working person and has done a lot of things with her hands. Although these hands are not beautiful, the whole family is more comfortable because of them, and everyone likes them.
She doesn't understand online shopping. I taught her to buy things online when I came. I found that all she bought were her children's husbands' things. She said that learning online shopping can help children buy things. She said that the eldest daughter likes cooking very much and can enjoy her daughter's breakfast at home. She said that the eldest daughter's academic performance is not very good, and her husband is always fierce. She said that she should not force her daughter, and everyone has different specialties. It's not that her daughter didn't study hard. If she tries her best, she can't be forced. She is really a very smart and transparent woman, so life will be less troublesome.
After she became a new moon, she told me that she was very optimistic about the pension industry and wanted to run a nursing home in her town. Then she told me why and how. After listening to it, I feel very far-sighted.
After spending more than a month with Tan Jie, I really like her. I am very touched and grateful for her efforts, her ability and her wisdom in life. Now we are in constant contact. I introduced her to two pregnant mothers, and she was very grateful. She also gave me two rabbits, which she took home to help me kill and chop, and taught me how to cook good food. She loves me like family. I think with such a person, she can be happy anywhere.